Online Codependency therapists in Iselin, New Jersey NJ
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Roland Achtau
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCADC, ICGC-1, CSAT Candidate
Addiction does not only affect the addict but also those closest to him or her. If you are having feelings of hopelessness, anger, resentment, or self-pity about your situation or the situation of a loved one wrestling with addiction, my practice offers services to equip you with the tools needed to recover.
11 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
Ren Lee
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with clients through various relationship issues- including attachment wounds, codependency, and difficult relational dynamics.
I am here to support you in exploring connections to yourself, your communities, and the world around you. My approach is rooted in liberation, relational, and psychodynamic work through an anti-oppressive lens, and includes modalities such as somatics, narrative therapy, and mindfulness. I am passionate about working with intersectional identities of race, gender, sexuality, and neurodivergence and I find it incredibly fulfilling to continuously build relationships through empathy, curiosity, and compassion.
6 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ (Online Only)
Jonathan Schnapp
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Codependency can show up as a strong focus on others’ needs at the expense of your own, difficulty setting boundaries, or feeling responsible for how others think and feel. In therapy, we’ll explore how these patterns developed and what they’ve come to mean for you. By building greater awareness and a more balanced sense of self, you can begin to set clearer boundaries, feel more grounded in your own needs, and create relationships that feel more mutual and sustainable.
15 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
Sam Naimi
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
Codependency, also known as unconscious accommodation, develops when we maintain important connections that require us to set aside our own needs or inner world to feel safe and still connected. Over time, this can lead to chronic self-sacrifice and uncertainty about where you end and others begin.
In psychoanalytic work, we explore how these patterns took shape and what parts of you were set aside to preserve closeness. As this becomes clearer, many people begin to reclaim a stronger sense of inner authority and move toward relationships that allow for mutuality rather than self-erasure.
8 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
Seven Hills Psychology
Psychologist, Psychologist
We offer individual and couples treatment for codependency concerns.
18 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
MindOverHealing Therapies
Hypnotherapist, CHt
Codependency is a complex and often misunderstood psychological condition characterized by an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, friend, or family member. It frequently occurs in relationships where one person may have an addiction, mental illness, or other chronic condition. Hypnotherapy offers a unique and holistic approach to addressing the underlying issues of codependency, promoting healing and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships.
3 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ (Online Only)
City Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Our clinicians work with individuals experiencing codependent relationship patterns using a trauma-informed, evidence-based approach. Treatment may address boundaries, attachment wounds, self-worth, emotional regulation, and co-occurring anxiety or depression. Care is individualized and collaborative.
2 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
Michelle Bloom, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD, PsyPact
Setting healthy boundaries is something many of us did not effectively learn in childhood, even in the most well meaning and loving of families. We have, instead, learned to live life to serve others and to prioritize the needs of others, even when doing so harms ourselves. My approach is to help my clients create healthy boundaries, advocate for the self, learn to communicate our needs clearly and directly, and then learn to act upon the needs we have outlined to those we love so we can cultivate healthy and mutually effective relationships. Cutting the ties of codependency is central to this process: staying in one's own lane, letting others solve their own problems, offering compassion and help when asked, letting go of the rescue fantasy, living without an emotional hangover, and learning to accept that there is much we cannot control.
29 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ (Online Only)
Dr. Dana Spada
Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Dr. Spada can help you work through co-dependency issues by dealing with the deeper rooted issues tied to self esteem.
11 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
Jason Holland
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency often involves over-functioning, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions and choices. We will sort through where these patterns came from, what they have cost you, and why they have been so hard to change. I help clients build healthier boundaries, stronger self-trust, and more balanced relationships that do not depend on guilt, fear, or over-responsibility.
25 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
Therapy With You
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW, LCSW
We provide treatment for a wide range of mental health concerns, tailoring care to each individual’s unique needs and experiences.
6 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
Dr. Ryan Kitts Schallon
Psychologist, PsyD
Codependency is not loving too much. It is having learned, very early, that your survival depended on monitoring someone else's emotional weather — that your needs were safest when they were invisible, even to you. The exhaustion of it is real. So is the terror of stopping. Therapy is not about learning to stop caring for others. It is about recovering the self that went underground in order to make all that caretaking possible.
3 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCMHC, LCAS
Helping clients develop healthier boundaries and more balanced, fulfilling relationships.
7 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
Hannah Muetzelfeld
Psychologist, PhD
I offer a compassionate, nonjudgmental space to explore and heal patterns that no longer serve you. Whether you find yourself constantly prioritizing others at the expense of your own well-being, struggling with boundaries, or feeling responsible for others’ emotions, I can help you reconnect with your own needs and develop healthier relationship patterns. My approach integrates evidence-based practices with a deep understanding of attachment and family systems to support lasting change.
12 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ (Online Only)
Christina Song
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT-S
I approach codependency not as a flaw or diagnosis, but as a set of learned relational strategies shaped by attachment, trauma, and survival. Many people who identify with codependent patterns are deeply attuned, responsible, and caring—often at the expense of their own needs. In therapy, we gently explore how these patterns developed, what they have protected, and how they may no longer be serving you.
Our work focuses on building awareness, strengthening boundaries, and increasing self-trust while honoring your desire for connection. Through a trauma-informed and relational approach, we work to untangle obligation from care, guilt from responsibility, and self-worth from over-functioning. Therapy becomes a space to practice new ways of relating—ones that allow for closeness without self-abandonment and support relationships that feel mutual, grounded, and sustainable.
10 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ
Deborah Ejiofor
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Treating codependency in therapy involves helping individuals recognize and break unhealthy patterns of relying on others for validation and self-worth. Therapy, particularly through approaches like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), encourages clients to set boundaries, improve self-esteem, and develop healthier relationships. The goal is to help individuals build a stronger sense of independence, learn to prioritize their own needs, and cultivate more balanced, fulfilling connections with others. Therapy also provides a safe space to explore the underlying causes of codependency, allowing individuals to heal and create healthier emotional habits.
14 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ (Online Only)
April Bieber
Licensed Professional Counselor, CMHC, CPC, LCPC, LMHC, LPC, LPC-MHS, QS (FL)
If you tend to lose yourself in relationships or struggle with boundaries, you’re not alone. I help clients break free from codependent patterns and build more balanced, fulfilling connections with others — and with themselves.
17 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ (Online Only)
Lauren Palumbo
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Do you find yourself prioritizing everyone else's needs while losing touch with your own? Perhaps saying no feels uncomfortable, you worry about disappointing others, or your sense of worth becomes tied to keeping those around you happy. Together, we'll explore the experiences that shaped these patterns, helping you reconnect with your own needs and build relationships grounded in authenticity, mutual care, and secure connection.
4 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ (Online Only)
Adrian Pinckney
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I help clients recognize codependent patterns, establish healthy boundaries, and develop a stronger sense of self within relationships.
4 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ (Online Only)
Dr. Cassandra Hutchins
Psychologist, Psy.D.
If your self-worth feels tied to others’ approval or you struggle to set boundaries, our therapy for codependency can help. We focus on rebuilding self-confidence, improving communication, and developing healthy independence. Together, we’ll help you create balanced relationships grounded in mutual respect and emotional wellness.
17 Years Experience
Online in Iselin, NJ (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Iselin, New Jersey Statistics
Codependency therapists in Iselin, New Jersey average 16 years of experience and charge around $204 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Depression (89%), and Anxiety or Fears (88%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$204
Gender ID
| 61% |
Female |
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| 29% |
Male |
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| 6% |
Non-Binary |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 53% |
In Person and Online |
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| 47% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 89% | Depression |
| 88% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 69% | Stress |
| 67% | Loss or Grief |
| 63% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |