Online Emotional Abuse therapists in Herkimer, New York NY
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Emotional Abuse
Nancy Burns
Counselor/Therapist, JD, LMHC, LPC, MA, EMDR Certified
When we are trapped inside toxic relationship cycles, we often come to a point where we feel like there is no way out—especially if we keep on recreating the same toxic patterns with the people around us. The first step to breaking free is to understand that you have the power to get out and save yourself from destructive patterns so you can live your life in the healthiest, most authentic way possible. It is never too late to ask for help, and my therapy approach involves giving you the guidance and support you need to identify these toxic relationships in your life so you can start building healthy, mindful connections. We will work together to discover how you can break the cycle, rework, and nurture your relationships by identifying the root cause of these unhealthy patterns. This could involve pinpointing traumatic childhood experiences like neglectful or abusive behaviors from emotionally immature or narcissistic parents and other authority figures in your life. Once you’ve recognized where these dysfunctional patterns come from, we will work toward getting rid of harmful belief systems like constant self-blaming or feeling as if you are a bad person, so you can begin to prioritize your well-being. We can then work on rebuilding your self-esteem, setting your emotional and mental boundaries, and learning how to better regulate your emotions. Breaking away from these patterns will eventually give you the peace of mind you need to finally start loving yourself so that you feel worthy of good treatment. That is the first step in creating and nurturing positive relationships while living a life that’s free from emotional pain and trauma-induced vicious cycles. - - - "There is no normal life that is free of pain. The very wrestling with our problems provides the impetus for growth." Fred Rogers
6 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY (Online Only)
Emotional Abuse
Yuanfei Zhang
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Emotional abuse can leave deep marks that aren't always visible to others. I create a space where clients can safely unpack those experiences, reconnect with their own voice, and begin to trust their instincts again. This work is close to my heart, and I'm committed to helping clients move from surviving to truly healing.
4 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY (Online Only)
Emotional Abuse
Staci Des Rault
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC. M.Div
I have over 18 years of experience in counseling around issues stemming from emotional abuse.
14 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY (Online Only)
Emotional Abuse
Patricia Petrone
Registered Psychotherapist, LMHC, NCC, CMHIMP, CNC
Emotional Abuse can be debilitating. I am here to offer you hope for the future through our work together. My goal is to help you to navigate through this difficult time while managing other areas of your life and emotions, as well as ensuring your safety. Call me today!
18 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse
Madeline Salerno
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Madeline provides a safe and supportive space for clients recovering from emotionally abusive relationships, helping them rebuild confidence, boundaries, and self-trust.
10 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse
Neha Chawla
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MA, ATR-BC, LCAT, LP, FIPA
Emotional abuse therapy aims to rebuild the self-esteem and confidence of the victim. It also works to identify healthy relationship principles such as relationship roles, rights, and responsibilities.
18 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY (Online Only)
Emotional Abuse
Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCMHC, LCAS
Helping clients recognize, process, and heal from emotionally harmful relationships.
7 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse
Melissa Klass M.A., LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT #119163
Emotional abuse at the hands of a loved one leaves a scar that no one can see. When you’ve been manipulated, gaslit, and covertly insulted for months or years you can start to lose your sense of self. Even when you have found the strength to end a relationship where you were treated this way, it haunts you. You have difficulty trusting or joyfully engaging with new people. Or maybe this is a relationship that it is not so simple to end. Perhaps it’s a relationship with a parent or sibling. You’re exhausted. You’re tired of walking on eggshells. Whether it’s time to heal from a former relationship, set some boundaries in an existing one, or bring a relationship to an end, therapy can provide you a safe place to process your experiences. Once you get to know yourself again, you can set some much-needed boundaries or say goodbye, whatever is right for you.
10 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY (Online Only)
Emotional Abuse
Shayda Ewalt
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Emotional abuse can be subtle yet deeply damaging. Gaslighting, manipulation, and chronic criticism can distort your sense of reality and affect your self-trust. In therapy, we untangle these experiences with care, validated your truth, and help you rebuild a strong internal foundation grounded in clarity and self-worth.
10 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY (Online Only)
Emotional Abuse
Elana Blumenthal
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with patients who have been or are currently being subjected to emotional abuse. We discuss their childhood and family history, their relationship patterns and what might be the reasons that a current abuse continues.
27 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse
Yaffa Dyckman
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Emotional abuse can be so painful. It locks us into negative self talk. EMDR, psychodynamic work and STAIR/NST are great approaches to address it. I help clients process through their painful experiences by offering them sensitivity and empathy. I help clients develop more effective ways of seeing themselves and their past.
16 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse
MERLYN HURD PHD QEEG D
Psychologist, PHD; QEEG D BCB, BCN
Using many techniques such as the BAUD we have had excellent outcomes in treating emotionally abused clients.
40 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse
Dr. Lois Horowitz
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Ph.D., LCSW
Recovery from emotional abuse is possible. I support survivors in untangling from toxic dynamics, understanding the impact of covert abuse, and rebuilding their sense of self. Specializing in trauma recovery, boundary setting, and reclaiming your personal power.
37 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse
Jessica Corea Private Practice
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
We have several practitioners who specialize in Emotional Abuse Therapy at the practice.
14 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse
Chrissie Chua- Ly van manh
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC-D, LPC
I have 10 years of experience supporting clients who have experienced emotional abuse in a variety of contexts, including intimate relationships and family systems. Emotional abuse can be deeply damaging, often leaving individuals feeling confused, isolated, self-doubting, and disconnected from their own sense of reality and worth. It can be especially complex when it occurs within relationships that are ongoing or difficult to fully separate from.
Much of my work in this area focuses on helping clients make sense of toxic or unhealthy relational dynamics and begin to name what has happened to them with greater clarity and self-trust. For many clients, this also includes exploring parental emotional abuse and the lasting impact it can have on identity, attachment, and self-esteem, particularly when cultural or family expectations may influence how relationships are maintained or understood.
I approach this work with deep care and validation, with the intention of helping clients feel less alone and more grounded in their own experience. Together, we work toward rebuilding a sense of internal safety, strengthening self-trust, and moving out of the confusion and darkness that emotional abuse can create.
Healing in this space often involves clarifying boundaries in relationships and exploring what connection or distance may feel healthiest and most supportive for the client. These decisions are deeply personal and can be complex, and I remain present with clients as they navigate them at their own pace.
Ultimately, this work involves both understanding what has happened and actively rebuilding from within- developing healthier boundaries, reconnecting with one’s voice, and cultivating a stronger, more compassionate relationship with oneself.
10 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY (Online Only)
Emotional Abuse
Diane Vaillancourt
Pre-Licensed Professional, M.A., psychotherapist, Life Coach
Emotional abuse is as damaging than physical/sexual abuse but is often neglected. The impact of emotional abuse is often not understood and has an impact on someone success in life. I often have clients who said to me "I had a wonderful childhood" or even "perfect life" but could not understand why they had such a rocky life. Once we explored the early family dynamic and increased awareness of emotional neglect/abuse it brings a resolution with this gap.
36 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse
Mary Gale Gurnsey
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Emotional abuse is often harder to recognize than physical abuse. I help you identify controlling, manipulative, or dismissive dynamics, validate your experience, and rebuild confidence in your own judgment.
18 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY (Online Only)
Emotional Abuse
Dr. L A McCrae
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCADC, FOT, CCTP, CCTSA
My Emotional Abuse Therapy focuses on deconstructing the "gaslighting" and mental surveillance that erode your sense of self. We use somatic cues to help you learn to trust your own "felt sense" again after it has been systematically undermined. Our work is to help you silence the voice of the abuser and amplify the voice of your own truth.
7 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse
Sara Fraser
Psychologist, PhD
Under the guise of trauma focused therapy, the more subtle and therefore sometimes most confusing aspects of emotional abuse can become critical to unwind and understand both in the context of past childhood experiences with immature caregivers, how these experiences can inform the choice of romantic partners later in life and how to move past these patterns and expectations to allow for growth and freedom from relationships that detract rather than add.
26 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY (Online Only)
Emotional Abuse
Total Wellness Center
Treatment Center, We have LCSWs and LPCs providing various talk therapies. It's key to find a provider who fits your unique needs.
Emotional Abuse Therapy: Our therapy provides a safe space to heal from emotional abuse, rebuild self-worth, & develop healthier relationships.
11 Years Experience
Online in Herkimer, NY
Emotional Abuse therapists in Herkimer, New York Statistics
Emotional Abuse therapists in Herkimer, New York average 16 years of experience and charge around $202 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Emotional Abuse (100%), Depression (96%), and Anxiety or Fears (96%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$202
Gender ID
| 66% |
Female |
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| 20% |
Male |
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| 7% |
Non-Binary |
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| 7% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 55% |
In Person and Online |
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| 45% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Emotional Abuse |
| 96% | Depression |
| 96% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 80% | Stress |
| 78% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 71% | Self Esteem |
| 69% | Codependency |