Online Infidelity therapists in San Marcos, Texas TX
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Kari Carter
Life Coach, APSATS certified, ACC, CPC, ADOH
Infidelity is more than a breach of trust - it is often experienced as trauma. Discovery can trigger shock, hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, and a deep loss of safety. I specialize in working with individuals impacted by affairs, and relational deception using a partner-sensitive, trauma-informed approach. Rather than minimizing the harm or rushing toward forgiveness, my work prioritizes stabilization, validation, and clarity.
Whether you are seeking answers, rebuilding trust, or discerning the future of your relationship, I provide structured support to help you regulate your nervous system, establish boundaries, and reclaim your voice. Healing from infidelity requires more than communication tools - it requires safety, truth, and steady guidance.
3 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX (Online Only)
Dr. John VanderKaay & The Center for Mighty Marriages & Families
Marriage and Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT, BCPCC, BCPC
Infidelity does not start over night. Most affairs start "around the water cooler" at work. They start when fundamental relational and personal needs, which should be met within the sanctity of marriage, are met outside of the marriage.
I help couples (offender and offended) who want to repair their relationship work through the pain and brokenness and create a new marriage, built on new trust and accountability.
28 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Monarch Behavioral Health, PLLC
Psychologist
Strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and deepen connection.
17 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Rachel J Fischer
Psychologist, Psy.D.
It can be hard to manage feelings that come up around wanting to or having had experiences of infidelity. Using an insight-oriented ("psychodynamic") and relational approach to therapy, I provide a warm and nonjudgmental space to explore your thoughts/feelings/experiences, and to help you develop a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationships so that you can embrace a more fulfilling life.
15 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Building Harmony Counseling Services
Counselor/Therapist
Betrayal in a relationship is deeply painful. We help couples navigate disclosure, rebuild trust (when desired), and heal through structured couples work, including Gottman-informed approaches.
17 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Kasey Scharnett King
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT-S, CST
Infidelity can deeply disrupt trust, emotional safety, and the foundation of a relationship. Whether the betrayal involved emotional connection, physical intimacy, or secrecy that damaged trust, the impact is often intense and destabilizing for both partners.
Therapy provides a structured space to slow down reactive cycles, process the emotional fallout, and determine the path forward. Some couples seek support to rebuild trust and repair the relationship. Others need clarity about whether reconciliation is possible. Our work focuses on accountability, transparency, communication, and rebuilding safety step by step—without minimizing the pain or rushing the process.
Healing after infidelity requires intention and honest conversations. Therapy helps couples move from crisis toward clarity, whether the goal is repair, redefinition, or respectful closure
5 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Get Whitt Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT- Associate
The discovery or experience of infidelity can be shattering. Whether you’re the partner who was hurt or the one who caused harm, therapy offers a space to explore what happened, what it means, and where you go from here. We can do this individually or as couple. Together, we can navigate trust, accountability, and the possibility of healing — whatever that looks like for you.
2 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX (Online Only)
Shaina Peng
Counselor/Therapist, LPC Associate, supervised by Frank Cohn (LPC-S)
Support for couples navigating betrayal and rupture. Work often includes rebuilding emotional safety, accountability, repair, and deciding what healing looks like for both partners.
1 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Emily Stone
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, MDiv, PhD, LMFT-S
Infidelity: Healing the Relational Fracture
Moving Beyond Betrayal toward Radical Reconnection
The discovery of infidelity is often described as a "relational earthquake." It shatters the foundation of safety, leaving both partners in a state of profound overwhelm, shock, and grief. In my practice, I provide a sturdy, non-judgmental container to navigate this crisis. We don't just "move past" the betrayal; we move through it, examining the systemic roots of the fracture and rebuilding a relationship that is more authentic and resilient than before.
Navigating the Aftermath
Infidelity triggers a specific kind of attachment trauma that requires careful, specialized handling. Together, we address:
The Crisis Phase: Managing the "flooding" of emotions, the intrusive thoughts, and the loss of reality that follow the discovery.
The "Why" vs. the "What": Moving away from the paralyzing "detective work" toward a deeper understanding of the systemic gaps and personal vulnerabilities that allowed the fracture to occur.
Rejection Sensitivity & Shame: Addressing the intense pain of the betrayed partner and the paralyzing shame of the involved partner that often prevents true repair.
A Clinical Path to Restoration
With over 20 years of experience and specialized training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and EMDR, I guide couples through a structured process of healing:
Stabilizing the System: We first focus on de-escalating the "conflict loop" and establishing immediate boundaries to prevent further harm and burnout.
EMDR for Betrayal Trauma: We use EMDR to help the betrayed partner process the "flashback" memories and somatic triggers associated with the discovery.
Rebuilding Secure Attachment: Using EFT, we help you have the "courageous dialogues" necessary to express unmet needs and rebuild trust—one vulnerable interaction at a time.
Healing for Individuals & Couples
Whether you are the partner who was betrayed, the partner who stepped outside the marriage, or a couple deciding whether to stay or go, I offer a space rooted in mutuality and respect. I have extensive experience working with healers, pastors, and leaders for whom infidelity carries an extra layer of professional and spiritual risk.
Infidelity is a crisis, but it does not have to be the end of your story. It can be the catalyst for a more honest and deeply connected "We."
21 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX (Online Only)
Houston Center for Christian Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor
Houston Center for Christian Counseling has counselors that work extensively with Infidelity.
45 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Dr. Tracy Mallett
Psychologist, Psy.D., L.M.F.T., Licensed Psychologist
Infidelity can be one of the most painful and destabilizing experiences a couple can face. The discovery of an affair often brings intense emotions—shock, anger, sadness, guilt, confusion—and leaves both partners questioning what is real, what went wrong, and whether repair is possible.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the emotional aftermath of infidelity with honesty, compassion, and structure. Therapy provides a safe space to slow down the chaos, understand the deeper dynamics that contributed to the rupture, and begin to rebuild a sense of safety and clarity.
For couples seeking reconciliation, our work may include establishing emotional transparency, rebuilding trust through consistent and verifiable actions, and learning new ways to communicate about pain and vulnerability without escalating conflict. For those uncertain about the future of their relationship, therapy can help clarify each partner’s needs and boundaries, and support respectful decision-making about next steps.
For individuals recovering from infidelity—whether betrayed or betraying—therapy focuses on understanding emotional patterns, rebuilding self-worth, and making sense of the experience in a way that fosters growth rather than lasting shame or resentment.
My approach integrates cognitive-behavioral and attachment-based strategies to address both the emotional and practical aspects of recovery. Together, we work toward healing, accountability, and—when possible—renewed trust and intimacy built on a stronger foundation than before.
22 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX (Online Only)
Beth Clardy Lewis
Counselor/Therapist, LPC-S
Infidelity shakes the foundation of trust, identity, and connection. I support individuals and couples in unpacking the shock, rebuilding communication, and deciding what healing looks like — together or separately. My therapeutic approach blends emotional insight with practical strategies for recovery. As an author and seasoned therapist, I help you navigate this crisis with honesty, respect, and a clear path forward.
22 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX (Online Only)
James Foley Sexual Misbehavior, Infidelity , Expert 31 Years Experience
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R, SOTS,
I use my 31 years specialist experience in the treatment of the distorted thinking that creates infidelity, to help my clients correct that distorted thinking , and stop once and for all the self deception that creates that self destructive cheating behavior.
I have helped many men learn how the part of them that told them to engage in cheating was actually very irrational, not looking out for them, and that part was was ignoring the otherwise obvious fact that their life in objective terms was actually excellent, and that they had far more to lose than they told themselves at that time of that infidelity.
There is often some non-sexual thinking or strategies that also have to be corrected to decrease chances of a relapse, many times the man in question have taken strategies or styles of seeing things from some other time or part of his life , typically childhood, and that worked well for other parts of their life, and applied them later to his family or marriage, wrongly, and created problems that don't need to exist, and this can create a subjective negative view of the situation , that does not reflect the reality, that they then try to "escape" from with that infidelity.
I have great success with these men, and they learn how to be faithful, plus how to value their family/marriage, and how to be truly happy in what should be a happy situation.
29 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Cowtown Christian Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCSW
We see couples who desire recovery from infidelity. Infidelity requires specialized care, practical tips, and patience. Our therapists will carefully walk alongside you.
11 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Robert Good
Counselor/Therapist, M.A., Th.M., LPC, CART
Individual counseling is offered to individuals in helping them achieve control over actions through an understanding of how thoughts, feelings, and decisions produce actions. We provide a safe environment where one’s private pain can be shared in confidence with a trained therapist to grow in self-awareness and self-esteem while helping a person make decisions, solve problems, and overcome past and present abuses and pains. Sometimes when negative memories prohibit an individual from enjoying a satisfying life, issues in one’s family of origin can be explored to understand the past and seek to establish a new identity.
Feelings like fear, sorrow, anger, rejection, and loneliness can lessen as self-acceptance and coping skills are encouraged and strengthened.
25 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX (Online Only)
Melissa Gaa
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-Supervisor
I work with individuals and couples that have experienced infidelity.
14 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Jennifer Pinkerton
Therapist, M.S., LMFT, CTP, C-PD
Infidelity can destroy a partners sense of self worth due to the betrayal. This can have lasting effects of many aspects of life and affect future relationships due to issues of trust, self esteem and sexual concerns. Therapy can address much of this and allow for transformative healing to take place.
4 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Brian McCormack (Connemara Counseling)
Counselor/Therapist, LPC-A/LMHCA
I provide support for individuals and couples impacted by infidelity, helping clients process betrayal, rebuild trust, and understand the underlying factors that contributed to the breach in the relationship. Using a structured, evidence-based approach, I support clients in navigating complex emotions such as guilt, shame, anger, and grief while fostering accountability and open communication. My work focuses on healing, rebuilding a stronger relational foundation when desired, and guiding individuals toward clarity, growth, and healthier patterns in future relationships.
2 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX (Online Only)
Dr. Lonnie Bryant
Pastoral Counselor/Therapist, PhD, Certified Anger Management Treatment Professional, Certified Life Coach
Has infidelity plagued your relationship with distrust, fear, anger, and resentment?
Believe it or not, this is something your relationship can survive. I know, because I have helped thousands of couples restore love, trust, and intimacy after infidelity.
Take advantage of my offer for a complimentary phone consultation to see if we are a good fit to help you rebuild a happy, loving relationship. Call or text my office at 682-365-2099.
42 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Paul D. Myers MA LPCS
Counselor/Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor
I offer marriage counseling or relationship counseling to couples who are struggles with a variety of concerns. I have worked with many couples going through affairs in marriage counseling. You are not alone and infidelity can be overcome with marriage counseling.
13 Years Experience
Online in San Marcos, TX
Infidelity therapists in San Marcos, Texas Statistics
Infidelity therapists in San Marcos, Texas average 18 years of experience and charge around $196 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Relationship and Marriage Counseling (82%), and Anxiety or Fears (79%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$196
Gender ID
| 53% |
Female |
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| 41% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 82% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 79% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 78% | Depression |
| 76% | Divorce |
| 66% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 64% | Self Esteem |