Online Codependency therapists in Arlington, Washington WA
We are proud to feature top rated online Codependency therapists in Arlington. We encourage you to review each profile to find your best match.
Codependency
Dr. Olivia Blandford
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Difficult relationship dynamics are my bread and butter. I can help you understand the origins of your patterns and why you might be doing what you are doing. We can work together to find more balanced, effective boundaries and learn how to deliver them effectively.
6 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA
Codependency
Matthew Wolfe
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MHP
Codependency is essentially when one person sacrifices their identity/boundaries/needs to another who sacrifices their empathy, regard, and compassion. It's bad for both but the non-prioritized partner suffers the additional danger of self-alienation or even self-annihilation. We would work to bolster sense of self, personal safety, and accountability-focused healthy communication. Nobody should be chipped away into nothingness for the benefit of someone else.
13 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Roderic Burks - Integrative Mental Health
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MS, MS HSc, MA, LMHC, LPC
I help clients navigate codependency through a trauma-informed, parts-based approach. We explore the patterns that drive overgiving, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries. Together, we build healthier relationships with yourself and others, fostering self-trust and balance.
26 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Codependents often report exhaustion and identity fusion (also called fragmentation). I have extensive experience and training to address codependent compulsions and help you find a consistent and confident sense of self.
12 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Charles R. Davenport, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist
Dr. Charles R. Davenport provides specialized therapy for individuals struggling with codependency. Codependency often involves prioritizing the needs of others over one’s own, leading to unhealthy relationship dynamics and a loss of personal identity. Dr. Davenport utilizes evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help clients recognize and break free from these patterns.
Through cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and psychodynamic approaches, Dr. Davenport assists clients in understanding the root causes of their codependent behaviors. He helps them develop healthier boundaries, improve self-esteem, and foster more balanced and fulfilling relationships. Mindfulness techniques are also incorporated to enhance self-awareness and emotional regulation.
Dr. Davenport’s compassionate and supportive approach ensures that clients feel safe to explore their behaviors and make meaningful changes. By offering telehealth services in over 40 states, he makes it convenient for clients to access the care they need, regardless of their location. Dr. Davenport is dedicated to empowering individuals to reclaim their independence and build healthier, more satisfying relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA
Codependency
Nicole Waters (Flowing Waters Counseling)
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
When your sense of worth depends on others’ approval or happiness, it can feel exhausting and you can lose sight of your own needs. Therapy can help you find balance by setting healthy boundaries, develop self-trust, and rediscover your own voice. Together, we’ll work toward relationships that are mutually supportive and emotionally fulfilling.
7 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Bonfire Healing - Bonnie Deopp, MS, LMHC, CN
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, CN, EMDR certified, Clinical Supervisor
Welcome, We're so glad you’re here! Bonfire Healing provides outpatient telehealth therapy with focus on complex mental health issues and developmental trauma along with co-occurring eating issues, addictions, chronic health conditions, nuerodiversity, and maladaptive behaviors. Our mission is to promote health equity through increasing access to evidence-based trauma treatment while utilizing insurance benefits so that this care is both high quality and affordable to more people. We view co-dependency as a coping tool to reduce anxiety; "I'm only ok if you're ok" that stems from trauma experiences and difficult experiences in childhood. We take a relational approach and we are in this together. We combine evidenced based modalities to heal these impacts on your nervous system and bring back regulation that decreases anxiety when someone is not ok so that you can be ok regardless. We also emphasize learning how to honor and value your inherent worth.
15 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Samantha Kingma
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Have you noticed that you haven’t been feeling quite like yourself? Like something feels off, but you’re not exactly sure why? No matter how hard you work, you always feel behind and can't seem to ever catch up on your to-do list. Maybe you keep thinking that you "should" be doing better and you "shouldn't" be struggling this way. You want to be present, calm, and confident, but you aren’t sure how to get there. It is possible for you to feel like yourself again and I'd love to talk to you about how you can get there.
I help teens, adults, and couples who are feeling stuck and disconnected to find freedom and relief. I'll collaborate with you to notice the themes and patterns occurring in your life that might be causing problems and then work alongside you to find new options and solutions to address those patterns.
Whether you are experiencing anxiety, dealing with past trauma, relationship difficulties, or just think it might be helpful to talk to someone about how you are feeling, I’d love to talk with you about how I can help. Visit my website to schedule a free phone consultation, and we can chat about whether I might be the right therapist for you.
13 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA
Codependency
Salvadore Coaching LLC
Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
Codependency often begins as care, loyalty, or sensitivity—but over time it can become self-abandonment. And when you abandon yourself, you don’t actually protect the relationship—you weaken it.
Oftentimes, many people find themselves over-functioning, people-pleasing, managing another’s emotions, or staying in relationships that require them to shrink their needs in order to keep connection. The result is often a combination of anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, and a loss of clarity about what they actually want.
In our work together, we aim to de-escalate these patterns and explore what they’ve been protecting: perhaps a fear of conflict, abandonment, guilt, or the belief that love must be earned through sacrifice. We build practical skills for boundaries, self-trust, and direct communication, so you can stay connected without losing yourself. The goal is not to become “less caring,” but to create relationships that include you—relationships where care and reciprocity can coexist.
14 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA
Codependency
Brittany Rine
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Codependency is the need to be needed. When we are always needed, we can experience exhaustion and resentment. This can be a tricky cycle to find yourself in. My approach when addressing codependency is to help clients uncover who they are, what they like, and what they are good at without listening to any opinion but their own. We will also look at boundaries and how to create healthy ones for the sake of looking out of ourselves. There will be a lot of psycho-education on codependency in an effort to strengthen the client's self-awareness and change undesired behaviors.
6 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA
Codependency
Lois Spence
Counselor/Therapist, MS, LMHCA
Let’s find the space to manage and grow your own individual self.
5 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA
Codependency
Jason Holland
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency often involves over-functioning, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions and choices. We will sort through where these patterns came from, what they have cost you, and why they have been so hard to change. I help clients build healthier boundaries, stronger self-trust, and more balanced relationships that do not depend on guilt, fear, or over-responsibility.
25 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA
Codependency
Mary Knoblock, DNH
Hypnotherapist, DNH, RTT Practitioner, Hypnotist, Holistic Naturopath Practitioner, Spiritual Counselor
I can help you work through codependency issues with a lot of different tools, specifically RTT, Emotion Code and many more.
11 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Tracy L. Morris
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS LMFT
My perspective on Codependency is informed by prior years of 12-step recovery work with the addition of more recent advancements in thought around such labels.
11 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA
Codependency
Dr. Janelle Louis
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, ND, PMHNP-BC
I'll help you break free from people-pleasing patterns, emotional over-responsibility, and unhealthy relationship patterns. Together, we'll build boundaries, self-worth, and confidence. I'll be here to help you process and move away from codependency, and you’ll learn how to love others without losing yourself in the process.
10 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Ryan Kitts Schallon
Psychologist, PsyD
Codependency is not loving too much. It is having learned, very early, that your survival depended on monitoring someone else's emotional weather — that your needs were safest when they were invisible, even to you. The exhaustion of it is real. So is the terror of stopping. Therapy is not about learning to stop caring for others. It is about recovering the self that went underground in order to make all that caretaking possible.
3 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA
Codependency
Gary D. Alexander
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, MFT, NCC
Codependency often shows up as a pattern of putting others’ needs ahead of your own, difficulty setting boundaries, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions. Rather than simply trying to change behaviors, our work focuses on understanding the deeper relational patterns and early experiences that shaped these tendencies. As awareness and self-trust grow, many people begin to develop healthier boundaries and a stronger sense of themselves within relationships.
23 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA
Codependency
Kate Mageau (she/her)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, ADHD-CCSP, NCC, CIMHP, C-DBT
Codependency is a key component of emotional abuse, toxic relationships, and domestic violence. It is often a precursor to all of these, so I help people to understand how codependent relationships form and how they last, how to notice signs of them turning into toxic relationships, and how to choose and keep healthy relationships. If you subscribe to my website, you can get a free handout on codependency! I have a book series, a workbook, and a course on this to help you learn and heal through the methods that work best for you. I currently only have these self-led supports for this.
4 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Aysha DeSilva
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I support individuals who struggle with codependency and patterns of losing themselves in relationships. Using psychodynamic therapy, interpersonal therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and EMDR, I enjoy helping clients understand the underlying experiences that add to these patterns while building healthier relationships and a stronger sense of self.
4 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Sherry Murray
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Sometimes there is someone in our life we believe we need constant contact with, and when we separate from them our anxiety only increases until we have contact again. Their positive words life us unbelievably high, but their negative words send us crashing down. What we would really like is to be stable on our own and not rely on others to get us through.
27 Years Experience
Online in Arlington, WA (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Arlington, Washington Statistics
Codependency therapists in Arlington, Washington average 16 years of experience and charge around $194 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (85%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$194
Gender ID
| 64% |
Female |
|
| 30% |
Male |
|
| 4% |
Non-Binary |
|
| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
|
Session Type
| 54% |
Online Only |
|
| 46% |
In Person and Online |
|
Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 92% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 85% | Depression |
| 76% | Self Esteem |
| 72% | Stress |
| 65% | Loss or Grief |
| 65% | Trauma and PTSD |