Relationship and Marriage Counselling in Victoria, British Columbia BC, Canada CA
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Relationships
Lincoln Stoller
Counsellor/Therapist, PhD, CHt, CCPCP
I have had many relationships well beyond the traditional kinds. I have worked with groups and individuals as a physicist, management consultant, mountaineer, pilot, project manager, CEO, student, teacher, counselor, and therapist. In addition, I've put much effort into being a parent, lover, partner, and, most importantly, as a child of a somewhat dysfunctional but "intact" family. It is a misnomer to focus on "relationship and marriage" as a unique situation. All relationships hang on the same dynamics of honesty, transparency, integrity, and commitment. All of these exist on a spectrum, and they are most tested and demand the most in our most important relationships.
If you are weak in these skills in any relationships, then you are going to be weak in them in your most important relationships. In my experiences with couples and clients navigating relationships, personal integrity is always the key. It is up to you to decide where you draw the line in terms of commitment and disclosure, but do not expect great results in any relationship unless you hold yourself to the highest standards. Do not expect reciprocation even when you deserve it. In some sense, a good relationship is something you must define for yourself.
The fundamental problem in most relationships is that you accept a low standard. You may have never had a role model who lived to a high standard, and you may not know how to achieve a high standard. I can help you become a better person but beware: there are reasons behind who you are and what you've become. You'll have to address these reasons before you can move beyond them. That is why relationship work is difficult. Ultimately, the ball is in your court. Are you ready to raise the bar?
21 Years Experience
In-Person in Victoria, BC V8Z 5C8
Online in Victoria, BC British Columbia
Relationships
Strength in Heart Counselling
Treatment Center, RSW, RCC, CCC
Relationships require ongoing care and communication. We help couples address conflicts, deepen intimacy, and build lasting partnerships. Our sessions are collaborative, respectful, and tailored to your unique relationship.
8 Years Experience
In-Person in Victoria, BC V8V 1L3
Online in Victoria, BC British Columbia
Relationships
Candice Seligman
Counsellor/Therapist, MACP, DVATI, CCC
Relationship challenges can show up as communication breakdowns, recurring conflict, emotional disconnection, trust wounds, or feeling unseen or unheard within partnership. You may find yourselves stuck in repeating patterns, reacting from past hurts, or struggling to navigate life transitions together. I work somatically, trauma-informed, and with the nervous system, inner child, and energy field in mind to help uncover the deeper roots of relational dynamics and attachment patterns. My focus is compassionate, root-cause healing that supports greater emotional safety, clearer communication, and a more secure and authentic connection to yourself and others.
6 Years Experience
Online in Victoria, BC British Columbia (Online Only)
Relationships
Victoria Counselling Centre
Counsellor/Therapist, MA, RCC
Relationships can be deeply rewarding, but they can also be incredibly challenging. Even the strongest couples go through periods of disconnection, conflict, or uncertainty. Whether you’re feeling stuck in recurring arguments, recovering from a breach of trust, or simply feeling emotionally distant from your partner, help is available. We offer compassionate, practical couples counselling designed to help you reconnect and move forward, together.
16 Years Experience
In-Person in Victoria, BC V8V 4A1
Online in Victoria, BC British Columbia
Relationships
Suzanne Nievaart
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
I support couples navigating communication and other concerns, especially neurodivergent couples.
1 Years Experience
Online in Victoria, BC British Columbia (Online Only)
Relationships
Ashley Kabugo
Counsellor/Therapist, Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC)
Relationships can require extra effort to keep them safe and loving. While reaching out can be vulnerable, it can be a great way to have the relationships you want.
2 Years Experience
Online in Victoria, BC British Columbia (Online Only)
Relationships
Our Landing Place
Therapist, RCC, CCC, RSW, RP, RCT
We support relationships of all structures and identities, helping you navigate communication, conflict, intimacy, and repair in ways that prioritize consent, equity, and connection.
16 Years Experience
Online in Victoria, BC British Columbia (Online Only)
Relationships
Mark Watts
Counsellor/Therapist, BA (Psych), Master Therapeutic Counsellor, Registered Counselling Hypnotherapist
I offer emotionally focused therapy locally and via video to repair the damage and help you move forward.
17 Years Experience
In-Person in Victoria, BC V8W 1C4
Online in Victoria, BC British Columbia
Relationships
Michelle Iulianella Counselling & Psychotherapy
Counsellor/Therapist, BEd, MBA, MA, RCC
The experience of emotional intimacy is one of deep trust, connectedness and satisfaction. It is about talking to your partner about what is going on under the surface for you at any given moment. It is about immediacy and transparency. It is about emotionally turning towards your partner instead of away when things feel hard and overwhelming. It is the ability to share your inner world with your partner in a way that leaves you feeling truly seen and heard. Emotional intimacy is achieved through learning, and practicing with intention, a variety of strategies that allow you to experience new ways of thinking about, and existing within, your relationship. The effort required to cultivate these habits is well worth it. Couples experience deeper connection, dramatically enriched physical and sexual intimacy and greater emotional fulfillment. What could be better than that? The reality is that many couples don’t know where to start. Michelle loves working with couples to begin the journey towards emotional intimacy, and enjoys helping them nurture it over time.
Michelle specializes in helping couples become great communicators. She is passionate about helping her clients learn and implement the building blocks of effective, healthy communication. These include strategies for mindful listening, engaging with respect, achieving clarity, and finding the courage to be open. Mindful listening is all about the giving of one’s full attention and being utterly present in the moment. Engaging with respect involves maintaining full responsibility for one’s own thoughts, feelings and behavioural responses. This allows people to stay out of blame and past hurts. Tools for achieving clarity in communication include being specific about what you are saying and being honest with yourself and your partner about your objectives. The courage to be open requires embracing the habits of transparency, immediacy, turning towards one’s partner, and of course, healthy boundaries. Does this all sound a bit daunting? Yes, it does! Can you achieve this? Absolutely. Let Michelle show you how.
11 Years Experience
In-Person in Victoria, BC V8P 2L5
Online in Victoria, BC British Columbia
Relationships
Adria Lipsett
Counsellor/Therapist, MA, Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC)
I specialize in relationship and marriage counseling, helping couples enhance communication, resolve conflicts, and deepen their connection. My approach is tailored to each couple’s unique needs. I am committed to supporting lasting, meaningful change.
11 Years Experience
In-Person in Victoria, BC V8V 1L3
Online in Victoria, BC British Columbia
Victoria is British Columbia's capital city and a major retirement destination, giving it an older demographic profile than most Canadian cities — one that generates consistent demand for therapists working with aging, loss, caregiver stress, and the psychological dimensions of life transitions in later years. The city's government-worker culture, combined with the University of Victoria and Royal Roads University, creates a well-educated population that is generally comfortable seeking therapy and willing to engage in longer-term work. Island Health provides public mental health resources alongside a well-established private therapy community serving Oak Bay, Saanich, and the Inner Harbour area. Victoria's separation from Metro Vancouver by water means specialist therapist access can be limited in some areas, with telehealth filling an important gap for clients seeking a specific type of match.
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Victoria, British Columbia, Canada Statistics
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Victoria, British Columbia, Canada average 11 years of experience and charge around $158 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (64%), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (56%), and Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (54%).
Average years in practice
11 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$158
Accept insurance
65%
Offer sliding scale
52%
Gender ID
| 67% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 1% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 64% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 56% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 54% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 50% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
| 47% | Narrative Therapy |
| 46% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 43% | Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 71% | Young Adult |
| 63% | Senior |
| 60% | Teen |
| 21% | Children |
Client Focus
| 62% | Women |
| 55% | Men |
| 42% | LGBTQ+ |
| 32% | Christian |
| 31% | Persons with Disabilities |