Codependency therapists in Eugene, OR
Browse Codependency therapists in Eugene, Oregon. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Mary Mayfield
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
If you often put others' needs before your own, struggle to set healthy boundaries, or find yourself caught in unhealthy relationship patterns, you're not alone. Together, we'll explore these patterns with compassion, strengthen your sense of self, and develop healthier ways of connecting with others.
8 Years Experience
Online in Eugene, OR (Online Only)
Cook Counseling and Consulting Inc.
Counselor/Therapist, LISW-S, LCSW-QS, CCTP
Codependency therapy, also known as codependency counseling or codependency treatment, is a specialized form of counseling that focuses on assisting individuals to break codependent patterns and develop healthier relationships and boundaries. Codependency is a dysfunctional and facilitating relationship pattern in which individuals place the demands and desires of others above their own.
The therapeutic approach for codependency can vary based on the individual's unique requirements, the severity of their codependency, and their treatment objectives. Individuals can break free from codependent patterns, develop healthier relationship skills, and improve their emotional well-being through therapy.
If codependency is significantly affecting your relationships and well-being, it is recommended that you seek the assistance of a qualified mental health professional with experience in codependency therapy in order to address your specific needs and work towards building healthier relationships and a more satisfying life.
9 Years Experience
Online in Eugene, OR
Roderic Burks - Integrative Mental Health
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MS, MS HSc, MA, LMHC, LPC
I help clients navigate codependency through a trauma-informed, parts-based approach. We explore the patterns that drive overgiving, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries. Together, we build healthier relationships with yourself and others, fostering self-trust and balance.
26 Years Experience
Online in Eugene, OR (Online Only)
Chuck Chapman
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Many men don’t realize they are struggling with codependency because it doesn’t look like the stereotypical picture. You might be the responsible one, the dependable one, the one who tries to avoid conflict and keep the peace. You care deeply, you try hard, and you want the people you love to be happy. But somewhere along the way, your relationships may have become built around managing other people’s feelings instead of expressing your own. You may say yes when you mean no, suppress your frustration to avoid an argument, or carry the emotional load of the relationship in silence. Over time, this leads to resentment, exhaustion, emotional disconnect, and the quiet belief that your needs don’t matter—or worse, that having needs makes you selfish.
This is what I call Nice Guy Syndrome. It’s not about being kind; kindness is good. It’s about abandoning yourself in the hope of earning love, approval, or peace. The irony is that the more you try to be “the good guy,” the more distant, frustrated, or shut down the relationship can become. You lose your voice, your leadership, and your sense of self.
My work with Nice Guys is about helping you come back to yourself. We learn to identify your needs, set boundaries that protect connection rather than threaten it, and speak with clarity instead of walking on eggshells. We explore where these patterns came from and how they’ve shaped your relationships. This isn’t about becoming a jerk or swinging to the opposite extreme. It’s about becoming a Confident Husband—a man who leads with presence, stands in integrity, expresses himself honestly, and loves from a grounded, open heart. You don’t need to earn love. You need to show up as the man you actually are.
16 Years Experience
Online in Eugene, OR (Online Only)
Sonya M Jones
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Loving someone who has an active or prior dependency, obsession, or addiction can be physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually exhausting! With Codependency comes anxiety, stress, and often depression. Your expectations are often broken which can effect your self worth and peace of mind. We will work on your identified goals for our time together. This may include identifying thinking patterns and behaviors and how to reshape things in a positive way. Learning Self-compassion and tools and skills to address the anxiety and other emotions and thoughts that accompany codependency will be a part of our work. You might benefit from processing the root concerns, triggers and any trauma that may be informing your codependency.
19 Years Experience
Online in Eugene, OR
Eugene is home to the University of Oregon and has a strong progressive, arts-driven identity, with a notably high density of therapists relative to its population and a community that generally holds therapy in high regard. The city's significant homelessness crisis, economic inequality, and substance use challenges sit in some tension with its progressive reputation, and therapists in Eugene often work across the full spectrum of economic circumstance. Lane County Behavioral Health provides publicly funded services, while a robust private therapy sector caters to university faculty, students, healthcare workers, and the outdoor recreation and arts communities. Common therapy concerns include anxiety, depression, trauma, identity and life transitions, and the stresses of living in a city grappling openly with housing insecurity and addiction alongside an otherwise strong quality of life.
Codependency therapists in Eugene, OR Statistics
Codependency therapists in Eugene, OR average 16 years of experience and charge around $191 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (56%), Internal Family Systems (IFS) (51%), and Somatic Therapy (41%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$191
Accept insurance
33%
Offer sliding scale
54%
Gender ID
| 64% |
Female |
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| 26% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 59% |
Online Only |
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| 41% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 56% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 51% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
| 41% | Somatic Therapy |
| 36% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 33% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 31% | Behavioral Therapy |
| 31% | Family Systems Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 72% | Senior |
| 72% | Young Adult |
| 33% | Teen |
| 15% | Children |
Client Focus
| 72% | Women |
| 59% | LGBTQ+ |
| 59% | Men |
| 46% | Hispanic / Latino |
| 44% | Christian |