Codependency therapists in Redmond, Oregon OR
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Codependency
Chuck Chapman
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Many men don’t realize they are struggling with codependency because it doesn’t look like the stereotypical picture. You might be the responsible one, the dependable one, the one who tries to avoid conflict and keep the peace. You care deeply, you try hard, and you want the people you love to be happy. But somewhere along the way, your relationships may have become built around managing other people’s feelings instead of expressing your own. You may say yes when you mean no, suppress your frustration to avoid an argument, or carry the emotional load of the relationship in silence. Over time, this leads to resentment, exhaustion, emotional disconnect, and the quiet belief that your needs don’t matter—or worse, that having needs makes you selfish.
This is what I call Nice Guy Syndrome. It’s not about being kind; kindness is good. It’s about abandoning yourself in the hope of earning love, approval, or peace. The irony is that the more you try to be “the good guy,” the more distant, frustrated, or shut down the relationship can become. You lose your voice, your leadership, and your sense of self.
My work with Nice Guys is about helping you come back to yourself. We learn to identify your needs, set boundaries that protect connection rather than threaten it, and speak with clarity instead of walking on eggshells. We explore where these patterns came from and how they’ve shaped your relationships. This isn’t about becoming a jerk or swinging to the opposite extreme. It’s about becoming a Confident Husband—a man who leads with presence, stands in integrity, expresses himself honestly, and loves from a grounded, open heart. You don’t need to earn love. You need to show up as the man you actually are.
16 Years Experience
Online in Redmond, OR Oregon (Online Only)
Codependency
Meghan Hanes
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Codependency often develops when we learn to prioritize the needs, emotions, or expectations of others above our own. You may find yourself struggling with boundaries, feeling responsible for other people's happiness, or losing sight of your own needs and identity. Therapy can help you develop healthier relationships, stronger boundaries, and a deeper connection with yourself.
9 Years Experience
Online in Redmond, OR Oregon (Online Only)
Codependency
Tycee Belcastro
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT, CSTIP
Codependency can feel like a tangled mess where you’re not sure who’s responsible for what in your relationships—or even in your own life. It’s that blurry line where you might take on too much, lose sight of your own needs, or struggle to know where you end and someone else begins. That’s why working on codependency is a big part of my relationship therapy. I’ll help you sort out what’s truly yours to carry, set clear boundaries, and figure out what and who you are truly responsible for. This isn’t just about making relationships work—it’s about feeling solid in who you are. In our sessions, we’ll untangle this together in a warm, safe and educational space so you can build stronger connections and a stronger sense of self.
21 Years Experience
Online in Redmond, OR Oregon
Codependency
Gary D. Alexander
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, MFT, NCC
Codependency often shows up as a pattern of putting others’ needs ahead of your own, difficulty setting boundaries, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions. Rather than simply trying to change behaviors, our work focuses on understanding the deeper relational patterns and early experiences that shaped these tendencies. As awareness and self-trust grow, many people begin to develop healthier boundaries and a stronger sense of themselves within relationships.
23 Years Experience
Online in Redmond, OR Oregon
Codependency
Ever After Individual and Family Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
When relationships become imbalanced, codependency can lead to emotional exhaustion and loss of self-identity. We help clients set healthy boundaries, build self-worth, and develop relationships based on mutual respect and independence.
17 Years Experience
Online in Redmond, OR Oregon (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Redmond, Oregon Statistics
Codependency therapists in Redmond, Oregon average 15 years of experience and charge around $189 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (58%), Internal Family Systems (IFS) (58%), and Somatic Therapy (47%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$189
Accept insurance
45%
Offer sliding scale
58%
Gender ID
| 59% |
Female |
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| 27% |
Male |
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| 9% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 58% |
Online Only |
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| 42% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 58% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 58% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
| 47% | Somatic Therapy |
| 39% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 32% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 32% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 29% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 74% | Young Adult |
| 68% | Senior |
| 37% | Teen |
| 18% | Children |
Client Focus
| 71% | Women |
| 66% | LGBTQ+ |
| 58% | Men |
| 45% | Hispanic / Latino |
| 42% | Military / Veterans |