Infidelity therapists in Redmond, OR
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Chuck Chapman
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Infidelity creates a rupture that changes everything. Whether you were the one who stepped outside the relationship or the one who discovered the betrayal, the impact is profound. Trust is shaken, identity is questioned, and the future suddenly feels uncertain. Many men feel overwhelmed by guilt, shame, anger, confusion, or the fear that they have destroyed something that mattered. Others feel blindsided, devastated, and unsure how to make sense of what happened or how to move forward. Infidelity is not just about the act—it is about the loneliness, unmet needs, emotional disconnection, and silent suffering that often existed long before.
My work in this area is grounded in honesty, compassion, and slow, steady repair. We begin by understanding what was happening before the infidelity—what was missing, what was avoided, what went unspoken, and what pain or patterns were already living beneath the surface. For the partner who betrayed, we work with accountability that is rooted in courage, not self-condemnation. For the partner who was betrayed, we create space to grieve, express anger, and rebuild a sense of personal safety and self-worth. The goal is not to erase what happened or rush toward a false sense of forgiveness. The goal is to understand, heal, and make choices with clarity and integrity.
Healing from infidelity is possible, but it requires presence. It requires being willing to face the pain instead of running from it. Whether the relationship continues or not, this work is about helping you reclaim your voice, your truth, and your capacity to love—yourself and others—with greater depth and honesty. You do not have to navigate this alone. We walk this slowly, together.
16 Years Experience
Online in Redmond, OR (Online Only)
Nexus West Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist
We provide a therapeutic model of betrayal support and infidelity recovery for individuals and couples, and have experience working with couples contemplating repair and recovery as well as separation.
14 Years Experience
Online in Redmond, OR
Gary D. Alexander
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, MFT, NCC
Infidelity can create deep emotional shock, confusion, and a profound rupture of trust within a relationship. In therapy we explore not only the pain of the betrayal itself, but also the relational patterns, unmet needs, emotional dynamics, or even the behavioral addiction that may have preceded it. Whether working with a couple together or with an individual partner, the goal is to foster understanding, healing, and the possibility of rebuilding trust and clarity moving forward.
23 Years Experience
Online in Redmond, OR
Lesley Lacny
Licensed Professional Counselor, M.A, Psych.R, C.Psych, LPC
Infidelity can be a deeply painful and destabilizing experience, often bringing shock, grief, anger, confusion, and a loss of trust. It can raise questions about the relationship, yourself, and what comes next.
I provide therapy for individuals navigating infidelity to help you process the emotional impact and make sense of your experience. Together, we will explore the deeper feelings and patterns that arise, while also supporting you in staying grounded through the intensity of the process.
The focus is on helping you regain emotional stability, clarity, and self-trust so you can move forward in a way that feels informed and aligned with your needs, whether that means rebuilding, redefining, or letting go of the relationship.
20 Years Experience
Online in Redmond, OR (Online Only)
Dr. Shelby Kittinger
Psychologist, PsyD
I help partners and individuals process the pain and disorientation that follow betrayal or broken trust. Using an attachment and emotionally focused lens, we work to understand underlying needs, restore safety, and rebuild (or redefine) connection with honesty and care.
10 Years Experience
Online in Redmond, OR (Online Only)
Infidelity therapists in Redmond, OR Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Redmond, OR average 15 years of experience and charge around $187 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (57%), Integrative Therapy (38%), and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (33%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$187
Accept insurance
33%
Offer sliding scale
43%
Gender ID
| 55% |
Female |
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| 45% |
Male |
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Session Type
| 57% |
Online Only |
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| 43% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 57% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 38% | Integrative Therapy |
| 33% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 33% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 33% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 33% | Somatic Therapy |
| 29% | Eclectic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 76% | Senior |
| 71% | Young Adult |
| 24% | Teen |
| 19% | Children |
Client Focus
| 81% | LGBTQ+ |
| 81% | Men |
| 76% | Women |
| 57% | Christian |
| 57% | Military / Veterans |