Infidelity therapists in Wellington, New Zealand NZ
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Uri Bookman
Counsellor/Therapist, PACFA Registered Clinical Counsellor (30041), Relationship & Couples Counsellor, Certified Coach
As a PACFA Registered Clinical Counsellor (30041), I work with couples navigating the impact of infidelity and betrayal. We move beyond cycles of blame, attack and defence while maintaining accountability for what has happened. Together, we explore both the impact of the betrayal and the relationship patterns beneath it, creating the conditions for greater honesty, emotional safety, trust and renewed connection where both partners are willing to engage.
8 Years Experience
Online in Wellington, New Zealand (Online Only)
Mind Health
Psychologist, Psychologists & Allied Health Experts
Infidelity can deeply challenge the foundation of trust and intimacy in a relationship. At Mind Health, our experienced therapists provide confidential support to couples and individuals navigating the aftermath of an affair. Utilising evidence-based approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method, we focus on rebuilding trust, enhancing communication, and addressing underlying issues. Our goal is to guide clients toward healing and a renewed sense of connection.
22 Years Experience
Online in Wellington, New Zealand
Brett Hall - Therapy for Deep Change
Registered Psychotherapist, Bsc - PSYCH/Neuro, Grad. Dip Gestalt Therapy
Infidelity can shatter trust and turn everything you thought you knew about your relationship upside down, whether you're the one who was hurt or the one who strayed. If you're trying to make sense of what happened and figure out what comes next, let's work together to help you find clarity.
The first step in working through infidelity is understanding that whatever you're feeling right now is valid, and there is a path forward, whatever that ends up looking like. In a supportive, non-judgmental space, we'll process the pain, explore what led here, and work toward healing. Whether that means rebuilding together or moving forward apart. My approach centres honesty, accountability, and self-compassion for everyone involved.
You don't have to navigate this alone. Let's take the first step toward clarity and healing.
Together, we’ll explore the root causes of the situation, understand the impact on you and your relationship, and work toward rebuilding trust, communication, and emotional resilience. Whether you're looking to repair your relationship or move forward independently, therapy can help you navigate the complexities with clarity and compassion.
You don’t have to face this alone. Let’s work through the pain, find clarity in the confusion, and help you take the first step toward healing—on your terms.
8 Years Experience
Online in Wellington, New Zealand (Online Only)
Tony O'Loughlin
Registered Psychotherapist, GradDip Psychotherapy, BA (Social Science), Trauma Informed Somatic Facilitator, PACFA member
Infidelity is often a symptom of a deeper unmet need or dissatisfaction. In a non-judgemental and compassionate way we explore what this might be and bring about understanding and healing to set you free.
5 Years Experience
Online in Wellington, New Zealand (Online Only)
James Skinner - YouBeYou Therapy
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychotherapist, PACFA, NLP Practitioner
Infidelity is painful, and it can also be a doorway to deep transformation. Whether you’ve been unfaithful or betrayed, we’ll work through the emotions, uncover what led here, and create a path forward, whatever that looks like for you. There’s no shame in wanting to understand yourself and your relationships better. Let’s start that conversation today.
6 Years Experience
Online in Wellington, New Zealand (Online Only)
Wellington is New Zealand's compact capital city and home to the national public service, creating a therapy landscape shaped by the particular stresses of government and policy careers — including burnout, moral injury, and the pressures of politically visible work. The city has a high concentration of university-educated professionals who generally view therapy as a normal part of self-care, and demand for longer-term therapeutic work is relatively strong. Wellington Regional Hospital provides institutional mental health services, with a private therapy community serving Thorndon, Kelburn, Mount Victoria, and the inner suburbs. Wellington's smaller size relative to Auckland means specialist therapist availability can be limited, and telehealth has become an important option for residents seeking a specific type of match.
Infidelity therapists in Wellington, New Zealand Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Wellington, New Zealand average 9 years of experience. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Gestalt Therapy (64%), Internal Family Systems (IFS) (64%), and Relational Psychotherapy (64%).
Average years in practice
9 Years Experience
Accept insurance
45%
Offer sliding scale
45%
Gender ID
| 75% |
Male |
|
| 25% |
Female |
|
Session Type
| 55% |
Online Only |
|
| 45% |
In Person and Online |
|
Top Treatment Approaches
| 64% | Gestalt Therapy |
| 64% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
| 64% | Relational Psychotherapy |
| 55% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 55% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 55% | Interpersonal Therapy (IPT) |
| 55% | Somatic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 91% | Adult |
| 73% | Young Adult |
| 45% | Senior |
| 45% | Teen |
| 18% | Children |
Client Focus
| 82% | Men |
| 64% | LGBTQ+ |
| 55% | Jewish |
| 55% | Persons with Disabilities |
| 55% | Women |