Online Perfectionism therapists in Australia
Browse online Perfectionism therapists in Australia. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
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Impossibly high standards tend to produce the opposite of what they promise: procrastination, avoidance, self-criticism and not starting at all. We work on this with both adults and children. In adults it often centres on work or study and is tied to how someone judges their own worth. In children it can look like refusing to attempt something rather than risk doing it imperfectly. The work is on loosening the standard, not on lowering the person's ambition.
11 Years Experience
In-Person in North Lakes, QLD 4509
Online in Australia
Marianna Trezza -The Growing mindset
Counsellor/Therapist, MA (Hons), Adv Dip. Counsel. & Psychoth.,Dip. Hypnoth., X-Cultural Adaptation Coun. Reg. BACP 572613
For many women, perfectionism is not simply about high standards or wanting to “do things well”.
Often it develops as a way of feeling safe, accepted and emotionally protected.
Many women living abroad become highly skilled at monitoring themselves:
how they speak,
how they appear,
how they are perceived,
whether they are doing enough,
achieving enough,
adapting enough.
Over time, this constant self-monitoring can create emotional exhaustion, anxiety, chronic pressure and a nervous system that struggles to fully relax.
For many Italian women living between cultures and expectations, perfectionism can become deeply connected to belonging, identity and the fear of being judged as “too much”, “not enough” or somehow different.
My work explores the deeper emotional and nervous system patterns underneath perfectionism, people pleasing and over-functioning.
I offer a warm, reflective and holistic space where women can begin reconnecting with self-worth, authenticity and inner safety without constantly needing to perform, adapt or prove themselves.
I integrate psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, EFT, embodiment, lifestyle medicine, reflective dialogue and nature-based approaches to support women in moving from chronic pressure toward greater emotional ease, regulation and self-trust.
23 Years Experience
In-Person in London, England NW5
In-Person in Horsham, England
Online in Australia, Italy, United Kingdom
John Zavaglia (Mind LIfe)
Counsellor/Therapist, ACA Registered, PC Grad MHN & Neuro, MBA
Perfectionism can leave you constantly questioning yourself, overthinking decisions or feeling that whatever you do is never quite enough. The pressure to get things right can become exhausting and hold you back. Together, we can understand what's driving these expectations, develop a more balanced way of thinking and help you move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
3 Years Experience
In-Person in Sydney, NSW
Online in Australia
Mindnest Counselling
Counsellor/Therapist, B.Couns
Perfectionism can look like high standards, but often feels like pressure, fear of failure and never feeling good enough. I support clients to soften self-criticism and build more flexible, compassionate ways of coping.
5 Years Experience
In-Person in Illawong, NSW 2234
Online in Australia
Brett Hall - Therapy for Deep Change
Registered Psychotherapist, Bsc - PSYCH/Neuro, Grad. Dip Gestalt Therapy
Perfectionism can feel like nothing you do is ever quite enough, a constant internal pressure that leaves little room for rest, mistakes, or self-acceptance. If you're exhausted from chasing a standard that keeps moving, let's work together to help you find more ease and self-compassion.
The first step in working with perfectionism is understanding that your worth was never actually tied to your performance — even though it might feel that way. In a supportive, non-judgmental space, we'll explore where these patterns come from and build a healthier relationship with achievement, rest, and yourself. My approach centers self-compassion, accountability, and untangling your identity from constant striving.
You don't have to earn your worth alone. Let's take the first step toward a more balanced, sustainable way of living.
8 Years Experience
Online in Australia, New Zealand
(Online Only)
Dr. Linda Troselj
Psychologist, DPsych (Clin)
I help people manage perfectionism by exploring the underlying beliefs and pressures that contribute to feeling that things must be done perfectly. Therapy focuses on challenging unhelpful thinking patterns and developing a greater sense of self-compassion. I draw from evidence-based approaches like cognitive-behaviour therapy (CBT) to help equip you with coping skills that can help ease the stress and anxiety that perfectionism brings.
13 Years Experience
In-Person in Gladstone Park, VIC 3043
Online in Australia
Jade at We Tackle Trauma
Counsellor/Therapist, MSW, QTS, BSc (Hons), MAASW
I offer supportive clinical therapy to address experiences of perfectionism. My approach is strength-based and warm, tailored to your preferred life approach lens, and non-directive. I can work with you using a range of evidence-based clinical therapies, including exposure therapy, motivational interviewing, and integrative therapy.
20 Years Experience
In-Person in Fremantle, WA 6160
In-Person in Perth, WA
Online in Australia, New Zealand, United Kingdom
Hawaa Dajan
Psychologist, Master of Professional Psychology, Registered Psychologist with the Psychology Board of Australia
I support clients who experience self-criticism, fear of mistakes or pressure to meet high standards. Therapy focuses on understanding the beliefs underlying perfectionism and developing more flexible and compassionate ways of approaching themselves and their goals.
3 Years Experience
Online in Australia
(Online Only)
Dabaco Doldissen
Counsellor/Therapist, GradDip Gestalt Therapy
Wanting to get things right can be crippling. Unable to take a step forward until all your ducks are in a row. But the right time is never going to come. I help my clients understand what this strategy of perfectionism is really about for them and how to flatten the button of "perfect" so they can live their lives to their full potential - without crippling fear of judgment or rejection. Ready to take off the shackles of perfectionism and lean into your whole humanity? Book a free 15 minute phone consult via my website to discuss more.
2 Years Experience
In-Person in Glebe, NSW 2037
Online in Australia, New Zealand
The Becoming Practice
Counsellor/Therapist, M Couns; BSocSc (Psychology)
I support clients struggling with perfectionism by exploring the thoughts, fears, and pressures that drive the need to be ‘perfect.’ Together, we work on cultivating self-compassion, setting realistic expectations, and embracing growth over judgment, helping you live with greater ease and confidence.
0 Years Experience
Online in Australia, New Zealand
(Online Only)
Anne-Lynn Teoh
Registered Psychotherapist, MoPC, BPsych (Hons), B.Sc. (Psych)
Perfectionism often starts as a way to stay safe and close to others: if you meet every expectation and manage how you come across, maybe you can avoid criticism, disapproval or shame. It can look like people-pleasing, keeping up appearances, or being the high achiever who keeps the peace at home. Over time that pressure can wear you down into burnout, a harsh inner critic, imposter syndrome, or a sense that you're never quite good enough. Using Internal Family Systems (IFS), we get to know the parts of you that work so hard and the fear of rejection underneath, so your sense of worth rests less on getting everything right.
7 Years Experience
Dr Rachel Hannam
Psychologist, PhD Psychology
I help individuals struggling with perfectionism challenge rigid standards, reduce self-criticism, and develop more balanced and self-compassionate ways of thinking and living.
14 Years Experience
Gaye Mallinson - Somatic Psychotherapies
Counsellor/Therapist, B.Soc.Ser. (Couns) Dist, Dip. Couns, Trauma Informed Yoga Cert, Pranayama Cert, Nidra Cert
I work primarily from a Rogerian or Person-Centred Therapy (PCT) approach using a conversational style listening patiently to you, always with empathy, genuineness and without judgement, to help find the solutions you desire for your life whilst adjusting my techniques to fit your needs within each session.
Due to my background in mental health work, I have a good understanding of perfectionism and how it impacts the person including the potential impacts for those around them. I am able to utilise a psycho-educational approach to help you understand your inner perfectionistic issues better and learn practical strategies to support increased emotional regulation skills, along with specific somatic (mind/body) therapy techniques within the therapy session to support greater healing of the underlying often subconscious issues without the need to discuss the details of those issues. These gentle but effective techniques create a new positive sense of self, leaving often the carried sense of shame created from the perfection oriented behaviours behind.
My aim is to assist you with your perfectionism to restore balance, happiness and inner peace (using the various techniques of 'talk therapy' and somatic (mind/body) healing methods) along with offering practical strategies that may be useful where suitable and desired by you. Whatever you are going through, know that there is hope - Let me help you find that hope.
11 Years Experience
Online in Australia, New Zealand
(Online Only)
Marc Donegan, Psychotherapist
Registered Psychotherapist, Psychodynamic Analysis & Transactional Analysis, PACFA, BACP, ITTA, EATA, UKATA
Perfectionism often masquerades as high standards, but underneath it’s usually a fear-driven strategy for avoiding shame or criticism. I help clients trace where that pattern was learned and separate genuine excellence from the exhausting, anxious version that never feels like enough.
10 Years Experience
In-Person in Sydney, NSW
Online in Australia, United Kingdom, California, New York