Online Codependency therapists in Highland, California CA
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Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCMHC, LCAS
Helping clients develop healthier boundaries and more balanced, fulfilling relationships.
7 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Diaspora Therapy Group
Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We support individuals exploring codependency through a trauma-informed, relational lens. We help clients understand attachment patterns, strengthen boundaries, and reconnect with their own needs and autonomy. Our approach emphasizes self-compassion, empowerment, and healthier relationships.
7 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Mind Study Center
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, M.D., Ph.D.,
At Mind Study Center, we offer compassionate support for individuals struggling with codependency. Through personalized therapy, we help clients recognize unhealthy patterns in relationships, develop healthier boundaries, and build self-esteem. Our goal is to empower individuals to break free from codependent behaviors, fostering independence, emotional well-being, and stronger, more balanced connections with others.
10 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Kim Christine Stevens
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Love helping my clients work through and heal codependency issues, including developing excellent boundaries and finding more self empowerment.
11 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
San Francisco Counseling Collective
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LMFT, LCSW
At San Francisco Counseling Collective ("SFCC"), when working with codependency issues, we help clients identify relational patterns rooted in overresponsibility, difficulty with boundaries, and self-sacrifice. Together we strengthen self-awareness, autonomy, and relational balance.
9 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Susana Scotti, Journey Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PhD
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, and unsure of your own needs or boundaries. You may find yourself prioritizing others at the expense of your well-being, feeling responsible for fixing or rescuing those around you, or experiencing guilt when you try to put yourself first. As a licensed psychologist with expertise in trauma, addiction, and mood disorders, I understand how codependent patterns often develop as a way to cope with past experiences and relational wounds. In therapy, we work together to uncover these underlying dynamics, build self-awareness, and strengthen your sense of identity and self-worth.
My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices. I help clients develop healthier boundaries, improve communication, and learn how to engage in relationships from a place of balance rather than obligation or fear. Whether codependency is connected to past trauma, substance use, or ongoing anxiety or depression, our work will focus on helping you create more fulfilling, stable, and authentic connections, starting with the relationship you have with yourself.
13 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA (Online Only)
Emily Echeverria
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, MS
People-pleasing, conflict avoidance, difficulty setting boundaries, caretaking at the expense of oneself, and intense anxiety in relationships can often be signs of codependency. Many people don't feel like they can be okay unless everyone they love is okay. This can appear of loving but often feels exhausting. I work with clients to help them understand where their codependent behaviors originated and how they currently impact their life so that client's can process unconscious fears and become more independent, confident, and healthier in relationships.
6 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Ever After Individual and Family Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
When relationships become imbalanced, codependency can lead to emotional exhaustion and loss of self-identity. We help clients set healthy boundaries, build self-worth, and develop relationships based on mutual respect and independence.
17 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA (Online Only)
Friendly Psychology, LLC ~ Rachel W. Friendly, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
So many of us have been socialized to center other people's emotions at the expense of our own needs. We do this without thought, without understanding the consequences to ourselves because for so long, it has just felt like What We Are Supposed To Do. But it doesn't have to be like this. You are the main character in your life after all! As such, your responsibilities are simple: (1) be clear, and (2) be kind. You are not responsible for how others respond to your boundaries, but you ARE responsible for communicating them (hard!) and for holding them (harder!). Together, we can work on helping you to start noticing these patterns as they play out, experimenting with different ways of relating, and building healthier boundaries that allow you to care for both yourself and your loved ones more wholeheartedly.
15 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Morgan Pemberton
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, EMDR certified
At Full Brain Family Therapy, we help you heal the roots of codependency by addressing past wounds and teaching you how to set healthy, sustainable boundaries. Through compassionate, trauma-informed therapy, you’ll build the confidence to prioritize your own well-being—without guilt.
11 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA (Online Only)
Dr. Sonia Ovuehor Ovy
Counselor/Therapist, Doctor of science in Counselling Psychology, Msc Conflict Resolution, Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapy, Counselling and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Certificate in Mental Health Studies, Suicide Prevention and Intervention, Diploma in Relationship and Family Counselling, CPD in Neuro Linguistic Programming.
By combining empathy and expertise, I help individuals overcome codependency by exploring:
- Trauma and attachment issues
- Family dynamics and patterns
- Emotional regulation and resilience
- Mindfulness and self-compassion.
9 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA (Online Only)
Kristin Robert
Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT
I work with codependency by helping clients recognize patterns of overfunctioning, people pleasing, and self-neglect that often develop in response to relational or emotional instability. Therapy focuses on strengthening boundaries, increasing self-trust, and supporting more reciprocal, balanced relationships.
3 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Ben Leddick
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency can impact your sense of self as this often leads to a need for others to be okay and successful for your personal sense of stability. Through our work you will learn the gift of self regulation and the importance of having your feelings and experiences while allowing others their feelings.
3 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I help individuals and couples who feel stuck in codependent patterns that leave them feeling overwhelmed, resentful, or disconnected from themselves or each other. Codependency can show up as difficulty setting boundaries, prioritizing others at the expense of your own needs, fear of conflict or abandonment, or feeling responsible for a partner’s emotions or behavior. Over time, these patterns can strain relationships and erode trust and intimacy.
In therapy, we work to identify how these patterns developed and how they continue to affect communication and emotional balance in your relationship. I help couples learn healthier ways to express needs, tolerate discomfort, and support one another without losing a sense of self. This often includes developing clearer boundaries, improving emotional regulation, and building more balanced and mutual connection.
The goal is not to create distance, but to strengthen relationships by helping each person feel more grounded, autonomous, and secure. As these changes take shape, many couples find that conflict becomes more manageable and intimacy feels more genuine and sustainable.
22 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Codependents often report exhaustion and identity fusion (also called fragmentation). I have extensive experience and training to address codependent compulsions and help you find a consistent and confident sense of self.
12 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA (Online Only)
Dr. Jen Bachtold
Psychologist, Ph.D., Certified Alcohol & Drug Counselor-II (CADC-II), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Specialist in Anger Management
I am dedicated to helping individuals recognize and overcome patterns of codependent behavior. My approach is rooted in evidence-based therapies and tailored to meet the unique needs of each individual, empowering you to develop healthier relationships and a stronger sense of self.
11 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA (Online Only)
Dennis Sapire
Psychologist, JD PhD
I work with codependent clients to help them understand how their behavior achieves the opposite of the healthy outcome they desire by creating an inverse motivational structure.
24 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Anna Yu Lee
Life Coach, PhD, MPH, MA
I rely on scientific articles on the construct of codependency, as well as reasoning with clients regarding their concepts on the subject.
4 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Darin Bennett
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Difficulty maintaining boundaries and self-focus can be severely destructive within interpersonal relationships. Learning to dis-entangle enmeshed relationships and focus on the integrity of self is crucial.
25 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Sandy Kong
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Ever feel like your worth is attached to someone else's behavior? What they do or don't do for you? Or what you can or can't do for them? Codependency is when your sense of self-worth and identity starts to depend too much on someone else. Healthy relationships are mutually beneficial, providing love and support to both parties. Codependent relationships, on the other hand, are lopsided, casting one person in the role of constant caregiver. Over time, this dynamic can lead to emotional burnout, resentment, low self-esteem, and difficulty forming mutually healthy relationships. In a healthy relationship, both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity separate from the other person.
Codependency can start for many different reasons, often going back to your early life and the relationships you had growing up. For many people, codependency begins in childhood, particularly in environments marked by addiction, neglect, emotional volatility, or inconsistent caregiving. If you grew up in a home where one or both caregivers were emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, or overly dependent on you for support, you may have learned, consciously or not, that love and safety were earned by putting others’ needs before your own. Cultural messages, especially ones that tell you always to put others’ needs before your own, can also play a big role, especially for women. If you struggle with low self-esteem or have trouble setting boundaries, it can make you more likely to fall into codependent patterns in your relationships.
11 Years Experience
Online in Highland, CA
Codependency therapists in Highland, California Statistics
Codependency therapists in Highland, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (81%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Gender ID
| 69% |
Female |
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| 25% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 88% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 81% | Depression |
| 76% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 71% | Stress |
| 71% | Self Esteem |
| 61% | Loss or Grief |