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Online Codependency therapists in Los Angeles, CA

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Beverly Hills, California therapist: Karen Queller, art therapist
Codependency

Karen Queller

Art Therapist, M.A Expressive Arts Therapy
I can guide and support individuals dealing with codependency by facilitating creative processes that encourage self-exploration, fostering self-awareness, and empowering them to establish healthy boundaries and cultivate self-care practices.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Pasadena, California therapist: Mona Saba Valeriano, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Mona Saba Valeriano

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Many clients who grew up with parental alcoholism, chronic rage, or narcissistic or borderline traits find themselves struggling with codependency in adult relationships. Early environments shaped by volatility or emotional unpredictability can create profound anxiety in children, threatening their sense of safety and attachment. In response, many learn to prioritize maintaining connection at any cost—often at the expense of their own needs, feelings, and boundaries. Using an integrative approach that includes IFS parts work, ISTDP, and the somatic processing of EMDR and Brainspotting, I help clients rebuild their relationship with themselves—strengthening self-esteem, self-trust, and assertiveness. As clients deepen their internal security, their external relationships often shift as well. They become more able to show up authentically, tolerate conflict, and make choices aligned with their well-being rather than fear.  
18 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Sacramento, California therapist: Sandy Kong, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Sandy Kong

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Ever feel like your worth is attached to someone else's behavior? What they do or don't do for you? Or what you can or can't do for them? Codependency is when your sense of self-worth and identity starts to depend too much on someone else. Healthy relationships are mutually beneficial, providing love and support to both parties. Codependent relationships, on the other hand, are lopsided, casting one person in the role of constant caregiver. Over time, this dynamic can lead to emotional burnout, resentment, low self-esteem, and difficulty forming mutually healthy relationships. In a healthy relationship, both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity separate from the other person. Codependency can start for many different reasons, often going back to your early life and the relationships you had growing up. For many people, codependency begins in childhood, particularly in environments marked by addiction, neglect, emotional volatility, or inconsistent caregiving. If you grew up in a home where one or both caregivers were emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, or overly dependent on you for support, you may have learned, consciously or not, that love and safety were earned by putting others’ needs before your own. Cultural messages, especially ones that tell you always to put others’ needs before your own, can also play a big role, especially for women. If you struggle with low self-esteem or have trouble setting boundaries, it can make you more likely to fall into codependent patterns in your relationships.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
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Pasadena, California therapist: Christian Holmes, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Christian Holmes

Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., Associate Marriage and Family Therapist
Codependency is often an under the radar "suffer in silence" experience. It often goes on undetected and only becomes a problem when it's a really big problem. Maybe you're in an unhealthy relationship or just got out of one? Maybe you feel a lack of self-esteem, a compulsion to people please, or a lack of boundary in your life? Maybe it feels like everything is on your shoulders and you can seem to feel valuable unless you're providing value to others. If any of this sounds like you, I'm glad you're here. In our work together, I will be helping you find the roots that have led you to operating in a codependent way as well has helping you understand and challenge familiar programs so you can have relationships that feel more loving, safe, and reciprocal. You don't have to go it alone; I look forward to meeting you.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Encinitas, California therapist: Hannah Nyznyk Christian, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Hannah Nyznyk Christian

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT #133278
We help clients recognize patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, and blurred boundaries. Therapy focuses on developing healthy relationships rooted in self-worth and balance.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Sacramento, California therapist: Stephanie Brumfield, therapist
Codependency

Stephanie Brumfield

Therapist, LCSW
In my therapeutic practice, I address codependency as a complex interplay of emotional dynamics that often stems from deep-seated needs for approval, validation, and love. This pattern of behavior, while initially developed as a survival strategy in response to challenging relational environments, can lead to a loss of self-identity, boundary issues, and an overarching sense of dissatisfaction in one's relationships and personal life. Recognizing codependency as a sign of the soul's longing for genuine connection and self-realization, I offer a compassionate space for individuals to explore and understand these patterns, fostering a journey towards healing and autonomy. The focus of our work together is on unraveling the layers of codependency, identifying its roots in past experiences, and understanding its impact on current relationships and self-perception. By cultivating self-awareness and self-compassion, clients are guided towards reclaiming their independence, establishing healthier boundaries, and developing a stronger sense of self-worth. This transformative process not only improves relationships with others but also deepens the connection to oneself, enabling a life lived with more authenticity and fulfillment. Emphasizing the importance of personal growth and empowerment, my approach seeks to empower individuals to break free from the cycles of codependency, leading to a life marked by healthier relationships, emotional resilience, and a profound sense of inner freedom. Together, we work to create a future where one can engage in relationships not out of neediness or fear, but from a place of strength, wholeness, and genuine love.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA (Online Only)
La Cañada Flintridge, California therapist: Ben Leddick, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Ben Leddick

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency can impact your sense of self as this often leads to a need for others to be okay and successful for your personal sense of stability. Through our work you will learn the gift of self regulation and the importance of having your feelings and experiences while allowing others their feelings.  
3 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Santa Monica, California therapist: Tracey Kiernan, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Tracey Kiernan

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, AMFT
If you tend to prioritize others’ needs over your own or feel responsible for how others feel, you’re not alone. I help you develop stronger boundaries, reconnect with your needs, and build healthier, more balanced relationships.  
2 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: Danielle Walker, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Danielle Walker

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Together, we’ll explore how early attachment patterns shape current relationships, and work toward healthier boundaries, deeper self-worth, and more balanced connections.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA (Online Only)
Costa Mesa, California therapist: Micha Noble, MA, pre-licensed professional
Codependency

Micha Noble, MA

Pre-Licensed Professional, AMFT
Codependency is a common issue that is discovered in interrelational problems. Allow us to provide psychoeducation and guide you through learning tools to either improve your codependency tendencies or to navigate relationships you are in with others struggling with codependency. We are here for you!  
5 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
San Ramon, California therapist: Ever After Individual and Family Therapy, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Ever After Individual and Family Therapy

Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
When relationships become imbalanced, codependency can lead to emotional exhaustion and loss of self-identity. We help clients set healthy boundaries, build self-worth, and develop relationships based on mutual respect and independence.  
17 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA (Online Only)
Pasadena, California therapist: Mind Study Center, counselor/therapist
Codependency

Mind Study Center

Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, M.D., Ph.D.,
At Mind Study Center, we offer compassionate support for individuals struggling with codependency. Through personalized therapy, we help clients recognize unhealthy patterns in relationships, develop healthier boundaries, and build self-esteem. Our goal is to empower individuals to break free from codependent behaviors, fostering independence, emotional well-being, and stronger, more balanced connections with others.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
San Diego, California therapist: GRIS ALVES, counselor/therapist
Codependency

GRIS ALVES

Counselor/Therapist, Compassionate Inquiry, Trauma Informed Mindfulness Teacher
I help clients struggling with codependency understand how early attachment experiences and relational patterns shape overgiving, people-pleasing, and boundary challenges. Using a trauma-informed, compassionate approach, we work to build self-awareness, emotional autonomy, and healthier, more balanced relationships. Therapy provides a safe space to break old patterns and reconnect with your authentic self.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Pasadena, California therapist: Bonnie Rae, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Bonnie Rae

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
I am passionate about working with clients who struggle with codependency and being an accommodater. If you come to me to work through patterns of codependency, we will investigate and explore the function of codependency, and how splitting off your needs is both hurting you and protecting you. Together, we will work and breaking free from codependent tendencies so you can have a happier and healthier relationship with yourself and others.  
14 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Berkeley, California therapist: Rebecca Rothberg, psychologist
Codependency

Rebecca Rothberg

Psychologist, Psy.D., M.A., R.Y.T.
I specialize in helping clients recognize their own voice, understand interpersonal dynamics keeping them stuck, and differentiate within close relationships in which they may feel themselves getting "lost."  
9 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Vista, California therapist: Erin Kennedy, therapist
Codependency

Erin Kennedy

Therapist, LPCC
We aren't born codependent--these are behaviors we developed over time (usually in childhood) in an attempt to get our needs met.  
6 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Manhattan, New York therapist: Salvadore Coaching LLC, life coach
Codependency

Salvadore Coaching LLC

Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
Codependency often begins as care, loyalty, or sensitivity—but over time it can become self-abandonment. And when you abandon yourself, you don’t actually protect the relationship—you weaken it. Oftentimes, many people find themselves over-functioning, people-pleasing, managing another’s emotions, or staying in relationships that require them to shrink their needs in order to keep connection. The result is often a combination of anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, and a loss of clarity about what they actually want. In our work together, we aim to de-escalate these patterns and explore what they’ve been protecting: perhaps a fear of conflict, abandonment, guilt, or the belief that love must be earned through sacrifice. We build practical skills for boundaries, self-trust, and direct communication, so you can stay connected without losing yourself. The goal is not to become “less caring,” but to create relationships that include you—relationships where care and reciprocity can coexist.  
14 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Lake Oswego, Oregon therapist: Dr. Michael Marossy, psychologist
Codependency

Dr. Michael Marossy

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency often develops when a person becomes overly focused on the emotional needs, approval, behaviors, or wellbeing of others while losing connection with their own needs, identity, and emotional boundaries. Many individuals struggling with codependent patterns experience chronic guilt, people-pleasing, fear of rejection, difficulty setting boundaries, emotional exhaustion, or repeated involvement in unhealthy or one-sided relationships. I help clients better understand the relational and emotional patterns underlying codependency while developing greater self-awareness, emotional autonomy, assertiveness, and healthier interpersonal boundaries. Therapy focuses on helping clients build more balanced and authentic relationships without losing their sense of self in the process.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Claremont, California therapist: Matthew Kijak, LCSW, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Matthew Kijak, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Codependency can be like a heavy burden, pulling us down and clouding our vision. But, together, we can learn to navigate our relationships and find balance. As a therapist, my goal is to be a compassionate guide on your journey towards understanding and transcending patterns of codependency. Together, we will explore the underlying causes of your behaviors, and develop effective strategies for healthy communication and boundaries. We'll use mindfulness and cognitive-behavioral therapy techniques to help you understand the impact of your actions on others, and work towards advocating for your own needs in social situations. My guidance will be gentle and understanding, as we work towards a brighter future, with healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Let's start this journey together, and take the first step towards inner peace and self-discovery.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Carlsbad, California therapist: Diaspora Therapy Group, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Diaspora Therapy Group

Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We support individuals exploring codependency through a trauma-informed, relational lens. We help clients understand attachment patterns, strengthen boundaries, and reconnect with their own needs and autonomy. Our approach emphasizes self-compassion, empowerment, and healthier relationships.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles has one of the highest concentrations of therapists in the United States, with a culture that broadly embraces personal growth, self-development, and long-term therapeutic work. The entertainment industry generates distinct demand for therapists who understand performance anxiety, identity, the psychological pressures of creative careers, and the particular challenges of fame and public scrutiny. LA's extraordinary diversity means therapists fluent in Spanish, Korean, Mandarin, Farsi, Armenian, and Tagalog are all abundant, making culturally matched care particularly accessible. Cedars-Sinai Medical Center and the UCLA Health system anchor institutional mental health services across the Los Angeles basin.

Codependency therapists in Los Angeles, California Statistics

Codependency therapists in Los Angeles, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (81%).

Average years in practice

14 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$205

Gender ID

69% Female
25% Male
3% Non-Binary
3% Gender Fluid

Session Type

65% In Person and Online
35% Online Only

Top Specialties

100% Codependency
88% Anxiety or Fears
81% Depression
76% Trauma and PTSD
71% Stress
71% Self Esteem
61% Loss or Grief

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