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Online Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Upland, CA

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Los Angeles, California therapist: Empowered Wellbeing, Decolonizing Intersectional and Integrative Complex Trauma & Dissociation Recovery Support, life coach
BPD

Empowered Wellbeing, Decolonizing Intersectional and Integrative Complex Trauma & Dissociation Recovery Support

Life Coach, view my credentials online at: www.recoveringfromwithin.com/credentialslongform
We work with this from a trauma and dyadic or family systems parts work perspective or attachment trauma recovery framework, and or a functional health perspective depending on whether the expression seems to stem from trauma, relational/systemic adaptation, or physiological impacts. For example, often BPD is an adaptive response to living or being in intensive proximity with someone with NPD, so in that case the approach might be more dyadic/systems parts work based. Please feel free to ask if you have further questions.  
15 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA (Online Only)
Pasadena, California therapist: Mind Study Center, counselor/therapist
BPD

Mind Study Center

Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, M.D., Ph.D.,
At Mind Study Center, we specialize in supporting individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) through compassionate, evidence-based care. Our team uses a combination of therapies, including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), to help clients develop healthier coping skills, manage intense emotions, and improve relationships. We work closely with each individual to foster emotional stability, self-awareness, and a sense of empowerment, supporting their journey toward a balanced and fulfilling life.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
Murrieta, California therapist: Empowered Path Clinical Counseling, PC, licensed professional counselor
BPD

Empowered Path Clinical Counseling, PC

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, MA, CBIF, CAMS-II, CART, LMFT, AMFT, APCC
We provide compassionate, nonjudgmental therapy for individuals living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), focusing on emotional regulation, building stable relationships, and improving self-worth. Using evidence-based approaches like DBT and mindfulness, we help clients better understand their emotions, reduce self-destructive behaviors, and create a more balanced and fulfilling life  
11 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
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Encino, California therapist: Sam Naimi, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Sam Naimi

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
What is often labeled as “borderline” or a "personality disorder" reflects adaptations to early relational environments that were chronically intense and inconsistent, not a defective person. Heightened emotional sensitivity and fears around closeness often develop as ways of staying connected and safe. In therapy, we focus on understanding how these patterns show up in the present, especially in relationships that matter. Over time, this work supports greater emotional stability, depth, and a more secure sense of self rather than short-term symptom control.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
Beverly Hills, California therapist: Danielle Esses, psychologist
BPD

Danielle Esses

Psychologist, PsyD
Borderline personality disorder often involves intense emotions, painful relationship patterns, fear of abandonment, impulsivity, or feeling unsure of who you are. I have advanced training in DBT, the gold-standard treatment for BPD. Treatment focuses on helping you better understand these patterns, build more effective coping strategies, and create greater stability in your emotions and relationships.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
Westlake Village, California therapist: Sloane Fabricius, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Sloane Fabricius

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.  
29 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Dr. Lori Lynn Mann, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Dr. Lori Lynn Mann

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Psy.D.
I have extensive experience working with BPD.  
14 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA (Online Only)
San Jose, California therapist: Growth and Change Counseling, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Growth and Change Counseling

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
It has been said that when you have Borderline Personality disorder (BPD), its hard to tell where your emotions end and your loved ones emotions start. In BPD, I look to my loved one to validate me, to tell me I am okay because my own sense of self worth is so fragile or non-existent. If a loved one gets mad at me or has negative emotions I go into an emotional spiral that is crazy making because I end up in an identity crisis. If you can relate to this, give us a call, we would like to help you.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA (Online Only)
Irvine, California therapist: Monica M. Huston, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Monica M. Huston

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Individuals with borderline personality disorder often experience intense emotions, relationship instability, and a deep sensitivity to connection and loss. I provide a steady, consistent therapeutic space to help make sense of these experiences, strengthen emotional regulation, and build more stable and meaningful relationships over time.  
9 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Melissa Quinn Pollock, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Melissa Quinn Pollock

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Attachment and nervous system dysregulation gets labeled as personality disorders in the therapeutic world. While some diagnoses can be helpful to understand ourselves, we can work on a holistic approach that includes but is not limited to DBT.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA (Online Only)
Sacramento, California therapist: Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay, pre-licensed professional
BPD

Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay

Pre-Licensed Professional, Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee, Professional Clinical Counselor Trainee
I work with clients who experience intense emotions, fears of abandonment, and unstable relationships, offering steady, validating support and skills for regulation and connection.  
0 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA (Online Only)
Studio City, California therapist: Dr. Mazmanyan and Associates, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Mazmanyan and Associates

Psychologist, Ph.D
We can work together to understand the impact of BPD on our self esteem and the impact it has relationally.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
Claremont, California therapist: Matthew Kijak, LCSW, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Matthew Kijak, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) can be a challenging and complex condition to navigate. As a therapist, I understand that living with BPD can cause difficulties in your relationships and daily life. My goal is to support you in managing the symptoms of BPD and to help you live a more fulfilling life. By utilizing evidence-based techniques such as Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and other therapies that incorporate mindfulness and emotion regulation techniques we can work together to develop a personalized treatment plan tailored to your specific needs. We will explore the root causes of your behavior, find solutions to current problems, and build healthy coping skills that will help you manage the symptoms of BPD, such as impulsivity, emotional instability, and difficulty in relationships. We will work together to develop a better understanding of yourself and to improve your interpersonal relationships. My ultimate goal is to empower you to live a more fulfilling life and to help you build a brighter, more stable future for yourself. BPD is a difficult condition to manage, but with the right support, you can learn to manage your symptoms and lead a more fulfilling life. I am here to provide that support and guidance, so don't hesitate to reach out to me today.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Heather Marriatori, psychologist
BPD

Heather Marriatori

Psychologist, PhD
I work with all personality disorders, with Borderline PD being at the forefront of trauma.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
Carlsbad, California therapist: Melanie Goetz, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Melanie Goetz

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I take an Ambivalent Attachment perspective, meaning that my view of BPD is that is a more severe expression of an Ambivalent Attachment style. In sessions, I will maintain a safe and predictable environment, supporting a space for each of us to be in charge of our own stories and emotional states. I'll be gentle in nonverbal and verbal communication, and, will model personal boundaries between and in sessions. We may incorporate EMDR or parts work into a primarily DARE approach of being with the felt-sense of connection, highlighting what feels safe and unsafe, trusting and mistrusting, predicable and chaotic. From a place of safe connection, we'll revisit the wounded parts from your past with nurturing openness and adaptability, while maintaining integrity and authenticity of your Core Self.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
Westlake Village, California therapist: Bruce L. Whitney, psychologist
BPD

Bruce L. Whitney

Psychologist, Ph.D., QME
Evaluation and treatment of all major mental and emotional disorders, with focused expertise in: depression, anxiety, traumatic stress, dissociative disorders, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), sexual trauma victims, marital and relationship issues, educational and executive coaching.  
37 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
Manhattan, New York therapist: Patricia Anna Martucci, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Patricia Anna Martucci

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SEP, EMDR Certified Therapist, RYT-200
I have worked with clients who have borderline personality disorder as well as their families and friends, supporting clients using Dialectic Behavioral Therapy (DBT) to establish a working stable foundational coping structure to support their lives, and provide the security to branch out and live their best life. I also have experience working with the children of parents with BPD and supported them through navigating life with some of the impacts of this unique experience.  
16 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
Carlsbad, California therapist: Diaspora Therapy Group, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Diaspora Therapy Group

Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We provide compassionate, trauma-informed care for individuals living with borderline personality disorder. We focus on emotional regulation, identity development, relationship patterns, and distress tolerance using collaborative, skills-based approaches. Our work is non-judgmental and centers safety, stability, and empowerment.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA
Long Beach, California therapist: Dorit Saberi-Thrive Psychological Services, psychologist
BPD

Dorit Saberi-Thrive Psychological Services

Psychologist, Ph.D, Diplomate-Academy of Cognitive Therapy; Trainer- Prolonged Exposure for PTSD- CTSA
As an Intensively trained DBT therapist using DBT for over 20 years in individual, group, phone coaching and DBT for families.  
24 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA (Online Only)
Pleasanton, California therapist: Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D

Psychologist, Clinical Psychologist, Certified in Holistic Health
I have a subspecialty in severe mental illness and can support BPD well and teach DBT skills training.  
17 Years Experience
Online in Upland, CA

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Upland, California Statistics

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Upland, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $216 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Borderline Personality Disorder (100%), Depression (91%), and Anxiety or Fears (91%).

Average years in practice

15 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$216

Gender ID

60% Female
28% Male
7% Non-Binary
5% Gender Fluid

Session Type

64% In Person and Online
36% Online Only

Top Specialties

100% Borderline Personality Disorder
91% Depression
91% Anxiety or Fears
85% Trauma and PTSD
68% Codependency
66% Loss or Grief
66% Social Anxiety

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