Online Self Esteem therapists in Cary, Illinois IL
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Self Esteem
Nicole Houde
Pre-Licensed Professional
I work with individuals who are looking to improve self-esteem by exploring patterns of self-criticism, comparison, and negative self-talk that can impact confidence and overall well-being. Low self-esteem can influence relationships, decision-making, and how you view your own worth. In therapy, we focus on identifying and challenging unhelpful beliefs, building self-awareness, and developing a more balanced and compassionate perspective of yourself. I incorporate CBT and ACT-based strategies to support you in shifting how you relate to your thoughts and in building a stronger sense of self that is grounded in your values rather than self-doubt.
1 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Dr. Olivia Blandford
Psychologist, Ph.D.
We are all living with a self-critical bully, and I often help clients learn how to contend with and relate to this voice. By identifying your values and how you can live in line with them, it is possible to build confidence and develop a new self-view. Let's find ways to celebrate your strengths and honor the unique life that is yours!
6 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Ilyssa Swartout
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Low self-esteem can make it difficult to trust yourself, express your needs, or feel deserving of love and success. In therapy, we’ll explore the experiences and beliefs that shaped how you see yourself and begin to build a healthier, more confident inner foundation. Through insight, self-compassion, and mindfulness, you can learn to replace self-criticism with acceptance and courage—helping you feel more comfortable in your own skin and empowered in your choices.
25 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Anne Zakaras
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC, ATR-BC, PMH-C
When your relationship with yourself is defined by self-doubt, people-pleasing, and a harsh inner critic, it affects every single corner of your life. Anne provides a warm, non-judgmental, and deeply collaborative space to help you dismantle those negative self-narratives and build authentic self-esteem. As a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, she partners with individuals to help them break free from the cycle of insecurity, quiet the voice of perfectionism, and rediscover their inherent worth.
Anne’s integrative approach is uniquely designed to bypass the intellectual defense mechanisms that keep low self-esteem in place. By combining evidence-based psychotherapy with creative art therapy and Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), she offers a safe space to explore and externalize old beliefs about your value. Together, you will learn to treat yourself with genuine compassion, establish healthy boundaries, and step into your life with confidence—whether you are navigating a major life transition, professional burnout, a chronic illness diagnosis, or the profound identity shifts of parenthood.
8 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Low self-esteem can impact every aspect of life. We help clients identify negative beliefs, build self-confidence, and embrace their worth.
21 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Dr. Sonia Ovuehor Ovy
Counselor/Therapist, Doctor of science in Counselling Psychology, Msc Conflict Resolution, Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapy, Counselling and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Certificate in Mental Health Studies, Suicide Prevention and Intervention, Diploma in Relationship and Family Counselling, CPD in Neuro Linguistic Programming.
With expertise in self-esteem support, I offer holistic care by helping clients walk through:
- Identifying and challenging limiting beliefs
- Developing self-compassion and mindfulness
- Improving relationships and boundary setting
- Cultivating self-love and self-acceptance
9 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Margo Tirado MA LCPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Self-esteem is not about becoming someone new or trying harder to feel confident—it’s about rebuilding a steady, respectful relationship with yourself. Many people struggle with self-esteem because they’ve learned to doubt their instincts, minimize their needs, or measure their worth through others’ approval. In therapy, we gently explore how these patterns developed and how they show up today, without judgment or pressure to “fix” anything right away.
My approach to self-esteem work is warm, practical, and compassionate. Together, we focus on strengthening your inner voice, quieting self-criticism, and learning how to take yourself seriously—especially in moments when it feels uncomfortable to do so. Over time, self-esteem grows less from positive thinking and more from self-trust: honoring your limits, speaking honestly, and choosing yourself in small, meaningful ways.
31 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Margaret Shouse
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
It is easy to get stuck into a shame spiral of not feeling good enough. I am here to not only challenge those thoughts, but to work together to have you learn more about where this stems from and how we can build you back up to a place that is more manageable and makes you feel like you are more in control. You deserve to feel contentment and joy in your life, and I am here to help you work through these challenges and to have a better sense of self.
6 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Kreins Psychological Services
Psychologist, PhD, PsyD
As a psychologist specializing in self-esteem, my approach to therapy is focused on fostering a sense of worth, confidence, and self-compassion in individuals. Through evidence-based interventions such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), narrative therapy, and strengths-based approaches, I help clients identify and challenge negative self-beliefs while building on their strengths and achievements. By exploring past experiences, societal influences, and interpersonal dynamics, we work collaboratively to address underlying factors contributing to low self-esteem. Additionally, I teach practical techniques for assertive communication, setting boundaries, and practicing self-care to promote self-empowerment and resilience. My goal is to support individuals in developing a more positive self-concept, enhancing their overall well-being, and navigating life with greater confidence and authenticity.
26 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Paulina Birgiolaite
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW, LCSW, CMNCS
Self-esteem shapes how you see yourself, your relationships, and your decisions. I help clients identify and challenge the core beliefs that drive self-doubt and replace them with more accurate and supportive perspectives. Our work focuses on building self-trust, confidence, and a more stable sense of self-worth.
8 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Alicia Stalker-Gallichio LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
At Alicia Stalker LMFT we provide Self-Esteem Therapy understanding that self-esteem plays a crucial role in how you view yourself and interact with the world. If you struggle with feelings of inadequacy, self-doubt, or negative self-talk, you are not alone. Our therapy services are designed to help you build a healthier self-image and foster genuine self-acceptance.
21 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Jaylan Abd Elrahman
Psychologist, PhD
What an honor it is to be a supportive companion on your path to deeper wellness! I see therapy as a process wherein people can grow a more honest connection with themselves, learn and practice hope-generating perspectives and skills in their lives and stretch their imaginations for how to lovingly create a future that feels meaningful and liberating!
Dr. Jay works with adolescents and adults who:
* Struggle to manage the stresses of daily life and experience emotional distress, depression, grief and/or anxiety
* Are survivors of complex trauma, interpersonal, generational and/or collective trauma
* Yearn to clarify purpose in life, often exploring existential, spiritual, and identity-based questions
* Seek a space to dream beyond the moment they are in to create new futures for themselves and those they love
* Values justice-oriented, compassionate, and creative relational care
6 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Hannah Warshowsky
Psychologist, PhD
I talk about self-criticism, often how we express self-esteem, with all of my clients. Every. Single. One. We call ourselves things we would never call anyone else “disgusting, lazy, unworthy, embarrassing, ugly, stupid. The list goes on and on. Instead of metaphorically beating yourself up for beating yourself up (because that defeats the purpose right?) try some of these tips. ✔️
Try talking to yourself how you would talk to a best friend, small child, or a lovable pet. You can still challenge yourself but say it in a gentle way. “I know you are really tired but you are gonna feel better if you get up and make some breakfast.
10 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Donna M Torbico - HEAL & GROW for ACoAs
Counselor/Therapist, Recovery Therapist in Private Practice 40 years
Self-esteem is developed from Unconditional Love, which we did not receive. Instead, all the PMES abandonment lead us to believe being un-loved was our fault. This is self-hate, which erodes our will & serenity. Developing the Loving Parent Voice heals & provides self-confidence. (Blog : 2011)
40 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Aaliyah Gilbert
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LSW
Low self-esteem can show up as self-doubt, harsh self-criticism, difficulty setting boundaries, or feeling “not enough” despite your efforts. I support clients in identifying the beliefs and experiences that have shaped how they see themselves and how they move through the world. In our work together, we focus on building self-awareness, challenging unhelpful thought patterns, and developing a more balanced and compassionate relationship with yourself. My goal is to help you feel more confident, grounded, and able to show up in your life with a stronger sense of self-worth and self-trust.
2 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Dr. George Lough
Psychologist, Ph.D., S.E.P.
Shame is a major detriment to self-esteem. Self-esteem is built up in childhood, and if we had abusive or neglectful childhood experiences (ACEs or "adverse childhood experiences", we may carry unprocessed shame that interferes with our self-esteem.
48 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Elaine Flockerzi
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
I specialize in Self Esteem, as evidenced by my professional training, licensing credentials, and years of experience working successfully in this area of treatment.
8 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Dr. Shelley Sommerfeldt
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Building healthy self-esteem is the foundation of how you value and see yourself, shaping your confidence, decisions, and relationships. I work with clients to help them recognize their worth, challenge negative self-beliefs, silence their inner critic, and develop a stronger, more confident sense of self. Together, we focus on creating lasting inner strength so you can show up more fully in your life and relationships.
24 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Bergen Counseling Collective
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
The voice in your head is not kind. It tells you you're not good enough, smart enough, successful enough. It compares you to everyone else and finds you lacking. You've achieved things, maybe a lot of things, but none of it quiets the voice for long. Low self-esteem often has deep roots, messages you absorbed in childhood, experiences that taught you to doubt yourself, relationships that reinforced the belief that you don't quite measure up. We help you understand where these beliefs came from and, more importantly, how to build a different relationship with yourself. Telehealth throughout Illinois. BCBS PPO and Aetna accepted.
20 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem
Dina Hijazi
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT
Struggling with self-esteem can impact every aspect of life—from relationships and decision-making to personal goals and emotional well-being. In therapy, I help clients uncover the roots of self-doubt, challenge negative self-talk, and build a more compassionate and confident inner voice. Through a supportive and strengths-based approach, we work toward developing a stronger sense of identity, resilience, and self-acceptance.
35 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Self Esteem therapists in Cary, Illinois Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Cary, Illinois average 16 years of experience and charge around $207 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Self Esteem (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Depression (81%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$207
Gender ID
| 67% |
Female |
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| 29% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 56% |
In Person and Online |
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| 44% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 81% | Depression |
| 76% | Stress |
| 63% | Social Anxiety |
| 63% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 61% | Loss or Grief |