Online Infidelity therapists in Decatur, Illinois IL
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Infidelity
Alan Brandis, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
I have worked with many couples where this has been an issue. The first thing that must be handled, if the partner who was cheated on wants the relationship to continue, is to determine if there is real commitment on both sides, and if both are willing and able to have real, meaningful discussions about what was not working for each of them prior to the affair.
36 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
The Caruso Wellness Center PLLC
Marriage and Family Therapist, DMin, MART, MA, ALMFT
Infidelity can be one of the most painful experiences a couple faces, often leaving behind deep feelings of betrayal, anger, shame, and uncertainty about the future. As an Adlerian couples therapist, I help partners understand not only what happened, but also the relationship dynamics that made healing so difficult. Whether your goal is to rebuild trust and reconnect or to gain clarity about the future of your relationship, I provide a structured, compassionate, and nonjudgmental environment where honest conversations can take place. Together, we work toward rebuilding accountability, forgiveness when appropriate, healthier communication, and a renewed foundation of mutual respect, cooperation, equality, intimacy and desire, and hope.
3 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
Josh Dolin: Life Coach | Purpose Pathfinder
Life Coach
Infidelity can be devastating to relationships, but it can also offer a path toward healing and understanding with the right support. My coaching approach focuses on helping individuals and couples navigate the emotional aftermath of infidelity, rebuild trust, and find clarity in their relationships. Together, we’ll work on processing the hurt, exploring the root causes, and creating a plan for either rebuilding or moving forward. Schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to begin your journey toward healing and emotional recovery.
9 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Rising Phoenix Therapy - Dempsey Young, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist
As a part of my specialty in couples and relationship therapy work, infidelity is sometimes and issue for couples. This is hard. But I strive to help partners work through this issue, re-establish trust and emotional safety and intimacy that can be broken by this issue.
12 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Angela Nguyen
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infidelity ruptures the trust, safety, and connection in a relationship. Injuries and conflicts, being as painful and shocking as they are, are also opportunities for deeper intimacy when we put in the work to heal, repair, understand. I've helped a lot of couples better understand and re-build after emotional and physical affairs, and I can definitely be a supportive detective for your difficult situation too.
6 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Good Human Work
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, CSAC
Whether you have been hurt, or hurt someone you care about, infidelity can feel like our whole world has been turned upside down. It's deeply painful and will take time to heal. If you're trying to learn how to trust again, it can be even more difficult. Our work together will help you heal the hurt, begin to trust, and feel like the world makes sense again.
14 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
Alicia Stalker-Gallichio LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
At Alicia Stalker LMFT, I provide Infidelity Recovery Therapy as I recognize that infidelity can create emotional turmoil trust issues, and pain in relationships. Whether you are dealing with the aftermath of an affair or navigating the complex emotions surrounding betrayal, my therapy services are designed to provide a safe and understanding space for healing, I work with both partners affected by infidelity helping individuals process their feelings of hurt, anger, and confusion, We will explore the underlying issues that contributed to the infidelity foster pen communication and work toward rebuilding trust and intimacy.
21 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
Dr. Tracy Mallett
Psychologist, Psy.D., L.M.F.T., Licensed Psychologist
Infidelity can be one of the most painful and destabilizing experiences a couple can face. The discovery of an affair often brings intense emotions—shock, anger, sadness, guilt, confusion—and leaves both partners questioning what is real, what went wrong, and whether repair is possible.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the emotional aftermath of infidelity with honesty, compassion, and structure. Therapy provides a safe space to slow down the chaos, understand the deeper dynamics that contributed to the rupture, and begin to rebuild a sense of safety and clarity.
For couples seeking reconciliation, our work may include establishing emotional transparency, rebuilding trust through consistent and verifiable actions, and learning new ways to communicate about pain and vulnerability without escalating conflict. For those uncertain about the future of their relationship, therapy can help clarify each partner’s needs and boundaries, and support respectful decision-making about next steps.
For individuals recovering from infidelity—whether betrayed or betraying—therapy focuses on understanding emotional patterns, rebuilding self-worth, and making sense of the experience in a way that fosters growth rather than lasting shame or resentment.
My approach integrates cognitive-behavioral and attachment-based strategies to address both the emotional and practical aspects of recovery. Together, we work toward healing, accountability, and—when possible—renewed trust and intimacy built on a stronger foundation than before.
22 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Merrisa Dawn Santos
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CCTMHP, CCTP
In supporting individuals dealing with infidelity in their relationship or marriage, I provide a compassionate and nonjudgmental space for them to process their emotions and navigate the complexities of their situation. Through therapy, we explore the underlying factors contributing to the infidelity, such as communication issues, unmet needs, or underlying relationship problems. I offer strategies to cope with intense emotions such as anger, betrayal, or grief, and facilitate open and honest communication between partners. Additionally, we work on rebuilding trust, setting boundaries, and exploring the possibility of forgiveness and reconciliation if desired. My goal is to support individuals in making informed decisions about their relationship and ultimately finding healing and resolution, whether that involves rebuilding the relationship or moving forward separately.
5 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Infidelity can shake the foundation of trust in a relationship, but recovery is possible. We help individuals and couples process the pain, rebuild communication, and work toward healing and understanding.
21 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
Dr. Anna Smith
Psychologist, PsyD, MEd, MA
Infidelity brings intense pain, betrayal, anger, grief, and questions about whether trust can ever be rebuilt. Whether you’re the one who was hurt or the one who strayed, we work together to understand what led to the rupture, repair the emotional wounds, and—when both partners choose—rebuild a stronger, more honest connection. Using attachment-focused and trauma-informed methods, I help couples navigate the raw emotions and create new patterns of transparency, accountability, and intimacy so that the relationship (or your healing) can move forward with greater safety and depth.
10 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Bergen Counseling Collective
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
The discovery changes everything. Trust that took years to build is shattered in a moment, and now you're both trying to figure out what comes next. Whether you're the one who was betrayed or the one who strayed, the path forward is painful and confusing. Can this be repaired? Should it be? How do you even begin? Our Gottman-trained clinicians specialize in helping couples navigate the aftermath of infidelity. We won't rush you toward forgiveness or push you toward divorce. We'll help you understand what happened, process the pain honestly, and make a clear-eyed decision about your future. Telehealth throughout Illinois. BCBS PPO and Aetna accepted.
20 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
Transformations Counseling PLLC
Counselor/Therapist
We help couples and individuals navigate the pain of betrayal, rebuild trust, and decide what healing looks like for them.
11 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
Cultivate Your Essence
Registered Psychotherapist, LPC, LCPC, MFT
The discovery of infidelity can create profound emotional pain, confusion, and loss of trust. At Cultivate Your Essence, we support individuals and couples navigating betrayal trauma, relationship repair, and difficult decisions about the future. Our goal is to provide a safe space for healing, communication, and emotional restoration.
8 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Nostos Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PsyD
We work with individuals and couples to help them be able to work through the pain of infidelity and work towards rebuilding a sense of trust and connection within the relationship.
12 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
Seven Hills Psychology
Psychologist, Psychologist
We offer treatment for individuals and couples who have experienced infidelity in their relationship.
18 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
Online Therapy for Anxiety, Burnout & Life Transitions -AZ, IL, OH
Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LCPC
My approach blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) with emotionally attuned, values‑based guidance to help you understand the patterns that contributed to the rupture, manage overwhelming emotions, and develop healthier communication. For clients who desire it, I also integrate Christian Counseling, offering faith centered support, prayerful reflection, and biblically aligned tools for forgiveness, restoration, and discernment.
9 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Julien Moe
Hypnotherapist, Diploma in Clinical and Applied Hypnosis, Diploma in Life Coaching
Patients with this disorder are getting resilient in no time. I will make sure you'll get it over. I will train you or your partner for loyalty. I use both therapies and hypnotherapies. Time to be a new you. Life is too short to lead a twisted, unheathy life. Let me straighten out your views and behaviors of infidelity.
Hypnotherapy is a valuable tool for treating the emotional, psychological, and behavioral impacts of infidelity. It helps individuals process trauma, release resentment, and rebuild trust by calming triggers, reducing anxiety.
How Hypnotherapy Helps After Infidelity:Healing Trauma: It addresses PTSD-like symptoms such as intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, and hypervigilance. Emotional Regulation: It helps release intense anger, resentment, and betrayal trauma.Rebuilding Trust: It can help both partners re-establish communication and emotional safety.Changing Perspectives: Clients often use hypnotherapy to change how they feel about the infidelity and stop rumination.Ending Affairs: It can be used to help individuals break the addiction to an affair.
10 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
Tim Jenkins
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
Through the twenty year private practice career as a counselor, I have had a special interest in helping couples that were on the brink of divorce or separation. Many of them found themselves here due to infidelity. It is a special thing to help people to first understand infidelity; why it happens and what to do about it. Primarily, partners often feel that infidelity is their fault: that they did not do something well enough or that they are not attractive, pretty or handsome enough. That is the furthest thing from the truth. Infidelity most often happens due to sexual addiction, or due to the lack of feeling happy with one's self. When another shines their warm light of attention on you, and pays you lots of compliments, it can be very addictive to achieve that dopamine rush. There is also the element of the Coolidge effect. There is a biological thing that happens in animals. Males, (and to some extent females of the species) experience renewed sexual interest whenever a new partner is introduced.
This phenomenon comes about from an anecdote about Calvin Coolidge when he was President. The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown around an experimental government farm walking with two separate groups of reporters. When the first lady, whom was known to have a lot of moxie, came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told this, President Coolidge asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." President: "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."
26 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity
Michelle Peacock
Psychologist, PhD
Most people believe that infidelity is the end of a relationship but it need not be. Infidelity can be an opportunity for a couple to gain insight into the underlying problems in their relationship and potentially heal and move to a higher ground and better foundation for their relationship.
21 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Infidelity therapists in Decatur, Illinois Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Decatur, Illinois average 18 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Anxiety or Fears (82%), and Relationship and Marriage Counseling (78%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Gender ID
| 56% |
Female |
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| 43% |
Male |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 62% |
In Person and Online |
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| 38% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 82% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 78% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 77% | Divorce |
| 77% | Depression |
| 71% | Loss or Grief |
| 69% | Self Esteem |