Online Self Esteem therapists in Des Plaines, Illinois IL
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Dr. Shelley Sommerfeldt
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Building healthy self-esteem is the foundation of how you value and see yourself, shaping your confidence, decisions, and relationships. I work with clients to help them recognize their worth, challenge negative self-beliefs, silence their inner critic, and develop a stronger, more confident sense of self. Together, we focus on creating lasting inner strength so you can show up more fully in your life and relationships.
24 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL (Online Only)
Jessica Anderson, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD
Having a positive mindset and confidence can make facing life's challenges more manageable. Dr. Anderson utilizes her experience working students and young adults to help you find your own strengths. Utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Strategies and strength building, we will work together to improve your self-esteem and confidence in handling life events.
21 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL (Online Only)
Dr. Michelle Solomon
Psychologist, PsyD
I help clients identify the thoughts and experiences that trouble them and limit their ability to be their most authentic self and live a life fully as themselves. Together, we unpack the roots of self-doubt and build a more compassionate inner voice.
9 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL (Online Only)
Integrative Health & Healing
Treatment Center, Functional Wellness, Family Medicine, Mental Health and Addiction Medicine
We have an integrative approach to physical and mental wellness including addiction disorders. We offer Cervical cancer screening and breast exams.
12 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Cultivate Your Essence
Registered Psychotherapist, LPC, LCPC, MFT
Low self-esteem can impact every aspect of life, including relationships, career success, and emotional well-being. At Cultivate Your Essence, we help clients identify negative self-beliefs, increase self-awareness, build confidence, and develop a stronger, more authentic sense of self.
8 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL (Online Only)
Margaret Shouse
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
It is easy to get stuck into a shame spiral of not feeling good enough. I am here to not only challenge those thoughts, but to work together to have you learn more about where this stems from and how we can build you back up to a place that is more manageable and makes you feel like you are more in control. You deserve to feel contentment and joy in your life, and I am here to help you work through these challenges and to have a better sense of self.
6 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Nicole Houde
Pre-Licensed Professional
I work with individuals who are looking to improve self-esteem by exploring patterns of self-criticism, comparison, and negative self-talk that can impact confidence and overall well-being. Low self-esteem can influence relationships, decision-making, and how you view your own worth. In therapy, we focus on identifying and challenging unhelpful beliefs, building self-awareness, and developing a more balanced and compassionate perspective of yourself. I incorporate CBT and ACT-based strategies to support you in shifting how you relate to your thoughts and in building a stronger sense of self that is grounded in your values rather than self-doubt.
1 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Margo Tirado MA LCPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Self-esteem is not about becoming someone new or trying harder to feel confident—it’s about rebuilding a steady, respectful relationship with yourself. Many people struggle with self-esteem because they’ve learned to doubt their instincts, minimize their needs, or measure their worth through others’ approval. In therapy, we gently explore how these patterns developed and how they show up today, without judgment or pressure to “fix” anything right away.
My approach to self-esteem work is warm, practical, and compassionate. Together, we focus on strengthening your inner voice, quieting self-criticism, and learning how to take yourself seriously—especially in moments when it feels uncomfortable to do so. Over time, self-esteem grows less from positive thinking and more from self-trust: honoring your limits, speaking honestly, and choosing yourself in small, meaningful ways.
31 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Dr. Tuvia Hoffman
Psychologist, Psychologist, PhD
Self-esteem is the foundation of how we view ourselves and navigate the world. When it’s strong, we feel confident, capable, and worthy of love and success. But when it’s low, self-doubt and negative self-talk can hold us back from reaching our full potential. Building healthy self-esteem involves recognizing your inherent value, embracing your strengths, and challenging the beliefs that limit you. Through compassionate support and practical strategies, you can learn to see yourself in a more positive light, cultivate self-compassion, and empower yourself to live a life that truly reflects your worth.
9 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL (Online Only)
Scot Seitz
Psychologist, PhD
I provide a tailored therapy approach for addressing self-esteem issues that is based on your specific goals. I draw on evidence-based approaches, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (CBT).
12 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL (Online Only)
Hannah Warshowsky
Psychologist, PhD
I talk about self-criticism, often how we express self-esteem, with all of my clients. Every. Single. One. We call ourselves things we would never call anyone else “disgusting, lazy, unworthy, embarrassing, ugly, stupid. The list goes on and on. Instead of metaphorically beating yourself up for beating yourself up (because that defeats the purpose right?) try some of these tips. ✔️
Try talking to yourself how you would talk to a best friend, small child, or a lovable pet. You can still challenge yourself but say it in a gentle way. “I know you are really tired but you are gonna feel better if you get up and make some breakfast.
10 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Dr Calvin Young
Counselor/Therapist, PhD, LCPC
Self esteem is shaped by so many factors, from parenting dynamics, to our pursuits as adolescents and adults, and by our relational struggles. We build self esteem from the inside out, strengthening resiliency and equipping the individual to seize their purpose and thrive
30 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL (Online Only)
Merrisa Dawn Santos
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CCTMHP, CCTP
In addressing self-esteem issues, I offer supportive and personalized guidance to help individuals cultivate a healthier self-perception. Through therapy, we explore the root causes of low self-esteem, such as negative self-talk, past experiences, or unrealistic standards. I provide strategies to challenge and reframe negative beliefs, promote self-compassion, and build self-confidence. Together, we work on developing a more balanced and positive self-image, focusing on strengths and achievements. Additionally, I offer tools for setting and achieving realistic goals, fostering a sense of empowerment and resilience. The goal is to help individuals recognize their worth, embrace their unique qualities, and lead more fulfilling lives.
5 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL (Online Only)
Dr. Pam Heilman
Psychologist, Psy.D., LCP
Self-esteem issues frequently coincide with other conditions such as depression, anxiety, or OCD. My work with clients frequently involves helping them to recognize their strengths and to acknowledge their weaknesses with compassion. One of my favorite parts of therapy happens when I notice my clients talking about themselves in a kinder, more compassionate way.
10 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL (Online Only)
The Caruso Wellness Center PLLC
Marriage and Family Therapist, DMin, MART, MA, ALMFT
Struggles with self-esteem often show up as self-doubt, harsh inner criticism, people-pleasing, or feeling “not enough” no matter what you accomplish. From an Adlerian perspective, low self-esteem is closely tied to discouragement and mistaken beliefs about worth, belonging, and significance. In counseling, we work together to identify these patterns, challenge self-defeating thoughts, and build a more compassionate and realistic view of yourself. My goal is to help you develop confidence, strengthen your sense of purpose, and begin living in a way that reflects your true value rather than your fears or past experiences.
3 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Low self-esteem can impact every aspect of life. We help clients identify negative beliefs, build self-confidence, and embrace their worth.
21 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Dr. Brittany Jacobson
Psychologist, PhD, CST
Struggles with self-esteem often reflect deeper experiences of how you’ve been devalued or treated poorly by others. I offer a supportive space to process these experiences, explore relationship patterns, and how they continue to shape the way you talk to yourself. Together, we will help you find compassion and love for yourself that will leave you feeling more confident and empowered!
10 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Lora Proia/ Centered Village LLC Counseling & Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, LCPC, LPC
As a therapist specializing in self-esteem building, I help clients reconnect with their inherent worth and challenge the inner critic that distorts their self-image. Low self-esteem often stems from early experiences, societal pressures, or chronic self-doubt—and I guide individuals in rewriting those narratives through compassion, cognitive restructuring, and strengths-based reflection. My approach encourages clients to recognize their value beyond achievements or external validation, fostering a more resilient and authentic sense of self. Confidence isn’t about being perfect—it’s about embracing who you are, flaws and all.
16 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Rachel Honaker, Depth Counseling Services
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
How we think and feel about ourselves impacts everything in our lives, even when we're not consciously aware of it. When we feel negatively about who we are, it's going to be challenging to make meaning, find joy, maintain mutual relationships, and access peace and rest. Asking the "why?" is an important first question. The next step can be to find a safe place to search for the pieces. Therapy can be that space, not because the therapist is going make you feel good, but because it can provide a supportive environment to explore your story and how your brain arrived to the conclusion that there is something inherently negative about you. Through the process we can deconstruct the narrative that has you stuck, begin to understand yourself differently, and move towards integration and wellbeing.
10 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Beck Gardner
Pre-Licensed Professional, M.A.
Difficulties with self esteem, whether you find it to consistently low or osculating between high and low, can be very damaging to a variety of areas in one's life. I work with folks to find a more positive and stable sense of self.
3 Years Experience
Online in Des Plaines, IL
Self Esteem therapists in Des Plaines, Illinois Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Des Plaines, Illinois average 16 years of experience and charge around $207 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Self Esteem (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Depression (80%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$207
Gender ID
| 67% |
Female |
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| 29% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 55% |
In Person and Online |
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| 45% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 80% | Depression |
| 76% | Stress |
| 63% | Social Anxiety |
| 62% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 62% | Loss or Grief |