Online Infidelity therapists in Illinois
Browse online Infidelity therapists in Illinois. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Infidelity can shake the foundation of trust in a relationship, but recovery is possible. We help individuals and couples process the pain, rebuild communication, and work toward healing and understanding.
21 Years Experience
Angela Nguyen
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infidelity ruptures the trust, safety, and connection in a relationship. Injuries and conflicts, being as painful and shocking as they are, are also opportunities for deeper intimacy when we put in the work to heal, repair, understand. I've helped a lot of couples better understand and re-build after emotional and physical affairs, and I can definitely be a supportive detective for your difficult situation too.
6 Years Experience
Online in Illinois
(Online Only)
Nostos Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PsyD
We work with individuals and couples to help them be able to work through the pain of infidelity and work towards rebuilding a sense of trust and connection within the relationship.
12 Years Experience
In-Person in Chicago, IL 60661
Online in Illinois
Cultivate Your Essence
Registered Psychotherapist, LPC, LCPC, MFT
The discovery of infidelity can create profound emotional pain, confusion, and loss of trust. At Cultivate Your Essence, we support individuals and couples navigating betrayal trauma, relationship repair, and difficult decisions about the future. Our goal is to provide a safe space for healing, communication, and emotional restoration.
8 Years Experience
Alan Brandis, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
I have worked with many couples where this has been an issue. The first thing that must be handled, if the partner who was cheated on wants the relationship to continue, is to determine if there is real commitment on both sides, and if both are willing and able to have real, meaningful discussions about what was not working for each of them prior to the affair.
36 Years Experience
In-Person in Roswell, GA 30076
Online in
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
Dr. Brian Weir
Psychologist, PsyD
Often, couples find an affair to be the most devastating. They often feel that there is no way they can recover. In the case of various forms of infidelity, you would be surprised by what can be overcome and how learning from it can actually build a stronger and healthier relationship. Our work will be focused on healing, building back trust and bolstering the trust with a stronger connection and sense of deep caring for each other. This doesn't have to be the end. It can be the beginning of a better and stronger love.
23 Years Experience
In-Person in Hinsdale, IL 60521
Online in
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
Bloom Behavioral Health Ptrs
Treatment Center, Psy'D, LPC, LMSW, CAADC, CCS
We help individuals and couples navigate the emotional impact of infidelity with compassion and honesty. We provide support for rebuilding trust, improving communication, processing betrayal, and exploring healing and relationship repair.
14 Years Experience
In-Person in Grand Rapids, MI 49506
In-Person in Grand Rapids, MI 49544
Rachael Keyser, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD
Infidelity can deeply damage trust, but healing is possible with the right support. I work with couples to understand the roots of infidelity, rebuild trust, and repair emotional bonds. Together, we explore open communication, forgiveness, and strategies to move forward, whether that means rebuilding the relationship or parting ways.
4 Years Experience
In-Person in Paoli, PA 19301
Online in
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
Dr. Mike Strand
Psychologist, PsyD
Infidelity shatters trust, leaving a trail of betrayal and hurt that challenges the very foundation of a relationship. The aftermath brings waves of confusion, anger, and grief, making it hard to see a way forward for both partners. My therapy for infidelity offers a space for healing, understanding, and rebuilding, providing the tools to navigate this difficult journey together, toward a future of renewed trust and connection.
18 Years Experience
In-Person in Austin, TX 78746
Online in
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
Alan Jacobson, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist, Nationally Registered Health Service Provider
I work with couples where infidelity has been an issue, helping them find a path to forgiveness and navigate the emotional aftereffects. I also work with individuals who want to sort out the emotional impact of infidelity. For individuals, even when forgiveness is not possible, therapy can help people overcome and understand the feelings it produces in order to emerge stronger.
25 Years Experience
Online in California, Massachusetts, New York,
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
(Online Only)
Fatima Mohammad, Avec Counselling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I support individuals and couples navigating the impact of infidelity with compassion and honesty. Together, we work to process betrayal, rebuild trust, improve communication, and create clarity around what healing and moving forward can look like.
5 Years Experience
Online in Illinois,
British Columbia (Online Only)
Philadelphia Couples Therapy
Psychologist, PsyD
There was a period of time in our country where partners were expected to stay with their spouse after an affair. It was considered deeply shameful to divorce. The tables seem to have turned, however, as we now live in a more autonomous and self-realizing culture; it’s often expected that the ‘victim’ of an affair will leave the unfaithful spouse in order to make a statement of self-respect. Now, if you stay with your partner after they’ve had an affair, you may feel ashamed and humiliated, as though you’re not strong enough to leave. You may even hear from well-meaning friends and family that “you deserve better.”
Although the therapists at PCT are by and large hopeless romantics, we are also realists. We are under no illusions that romantic partnerships are easy, but we also know affairs happen for a multitude of reasons. Many cases of infidelity can be mended, repaired, and used as a growth opportunity for the couple. We are here to walk this excruciating journey with you- we know where the guideposts are, we know what recovery looks like. Sometimes you will feel like you’re backsliding, but it’s only a product of healing. It’s a confusing and painful experience, but often, in the end, absolutely worth it. We are here to help.
23 Years Experience
In-Person in Philadelphia, PA 19109
Online in
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
Dr. Evelyn Comber
Psychologist, L.C.P.C., Ph.D., M.A., M.P.C., M.H.S., B.G.S.
Breaking trust is a major injury to relationships. Whether that relationship is a marriage, couple, friendship, parent/child, coworker - you need someone who will not be judgmental, someone who is safe to talk to about infidelity. Call me to discuss your situation.
31 Years Experience
Online in Illinois
(Online Only)
Mary Mesiha
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LICSW
Discovering or disclosing infidelity can be one of the most painful experiences in a relationship. The feelings of betrayal, confusion, and loss can leave both partners unsure of how to move forward. In therapy, I provide a supportive and nonjudgmental space to help you process the hurt, rebuild trust, and decide what healing looks like for you—whether that means repairing the relationship or finding peace on your own path.
27 Years Experience
Online in Multiple States
Connecticut, Florida, Illinois, Massachusetts
(Online Only)
Transformations Counseling PLLC
Counselor/Therapist
We help couples and individuals navigate the pain of betrayal, rebuild trust, and decide what healing looks like for them.
11 Years Experience
Tim Jenkins
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
Through the twenty year private practice career as a counselor, I have had a special interest in helping couples that were on the brink of divorce or separation. Many of them found themselves here due to infidelity. It is a special thing to help people to first understand infidelity; why it happens and what to do about it. Primarily, partners often feel that infidelity is their fault: that they did not do something well enough or that they are not attractive, pretty or handsome enough. That is the furthest thing from the truth. Infidelity most often happens due to sexual addiction, or due to the lack of feeling happy with one's self. When another shines their warm light of attention on you, and pays you lots of compliments, it can be very addictive to achieve that dopamine rush. There is also the element of the Coolidge effect. There is a biological thing that happens in animals. Males, (and to some extent females of the species) experience renewed sexual interest whenever a new partner is introduced.
This phenomenon comes about from an anecdote about Calvin Coolidge when he was President. The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown around an experimental government farm walking with two separate groups of reporters. When the first lady, whom was known to have a lot of moxie, came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told this, President Coolidge asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." President: "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."
26 Years Experience
Juliette Grantham
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
I'm Juliette Grantham, a psychoanalytic psychotherapist specializing in infidelity.
The aftermath of infidelity is rarely simple, whichever side of it you are on. If you were betrayed, you may be replaying details you wish you did not know, unable to decide whether to stay or go, or shaken by how much you no longer trust your own read on things. If you were the one who strayed, you may be trying to understand what you did and why, alongside shame that makes it hard to think clearly at all.
I work psychoanalytically, which means the question is not only what happened but what it meant. An affair usually has an unconscious logic worth understanding: something it expressed, protected against, or made possible. In sessions we take that up honestly, without a predetermined verdict about what you should do next.
If infidelity has upended your sense of your relationship or yourself, I would be glad to talk.
2 Years Experience
In-Person in Chicago, IL 60603
Online in Illinois
Bergen Counseling Collective
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
The discovery changes everything. Trust that took years to build is shattered in a moment, and now you're both trying to figure out what comes next. Whether you're the one who was betrayed or the one who strayed, the path forward is painful and confusing. Can this be repaired? Should it be? How do you even begin? Our Gottman-trained clinicians specialize in helping couples navigate the aftermath of infidelity. We won't rush you toward forgiveness or push you toward divorce. We'll help you understand what happened, process the pain honestly, and make a clear-eyed decision about your future. Telehealth throughout Illinois. BCBS PPO and Aetna accepted.
20 Years Experience
In-Person in Chicago, IL 60640
Online in Illinois
MN Couples & Family Therapy
Psychologist, Ph.D., L.P.
Infidelity creates a trauma in the relationship that subsequently creates a form of PTSD in the injured partner. I use the Gottman Method for Infidelity as the process for helping couples heal from the devastation of infidelity. As painful as infidelity is, I have seen many many couples heal and create a relationship that is stronger and more mutually satisfying after they have done the hard work of accountability, trust building and relationship repair.
30 Years Experience
In-Person in Edina, MN 55439
Online in
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
The Caruso Wellness Center PLLC
Marriage and Family Therapist, DMin, MART, MA, ALMFT
Infidelity can be one of the most painful experiences a couple faces, often leaving behind deep feelings of betrayal, anger, shame, and uncertainty about the future. As an Adlerian couples therapist, I help partners understand not only what happened, but also the relationship dynamics that made healing so difficult. Whether your goal is to rebuild trust and reconnect or to gain clarity about the future of your relationship, I provide a structured, compassionate, and nonjudgmental environment where honest conversations can take place. Together, we work toward rebuilding accountability, forgiveness when appropriate, healthier communication, and a renewed foundation of mutual respect, cooperation, equality, intimacy and desire, and hope.
3 Years Experience
In-Person in Schaumburg, IL 60173
Online in Illinois