Online Codependency therapists in Detroit Lakes, Minnesota MN
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Codependency
Brent Peak
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Codependency can feel like you’re constantly managing other people’s emotions, needs, and reactions—while your own get pushed aside. You may feel guilty when you say no, anxious when someone is upset with you, or responsible for making sure everyone around you is okay. Maybe you find yourself over-explaining, avoiding conflict, or bending over backward to keep the peace. Deep down, you might wonder, “Who am I if I’m not needed?” or “Why do I always end up in one-sided relationships?” These patterns didn’t appear out of nowhere—they were learned in childhood, often in environments where love, approval, or safety felt tied to how well you could care for others. When you were young, putting others first may have been necessary for survival—but now, it’s keeping you stuck in exhaustion, resentment, and self-doubt.
But you don’t have to keep living this way. Healing from codependency isn’t about becoming selfish—it’s about learning that your needs, emotions, and boundaries matter just as much as everyone else’s. Using Post-Induction Therapy (PIT), I help clients heal the childhood wounds that created these patterns, so they can stop seeking self-worth through overgiving and start building relationships based on mutual respect and emotional balance. Therapy helps you stop feeling responsible for other people’s happiness, set boundaries without guilt, and finally put yourself on your own priority list. You don’t have to prove your worth by constantly doing for others—you are already enough, just as you are.
11 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN
Codependency
Dr. Shelley Sommerfeldt
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Codependency often involves losing yourself in relationships, putting others’ needs above your own, struggling with boundaries, or tying your self-worth to how others feel. I help individuals recognize these patterns, rebuild a strong sense of self, and develop healthier, more balanced relationships. Together, we’ll work to create emotional independence, stronger boundaries, and a deeper sense of confidence and self-respect.
24 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Candace Plattor
Drug and Alcohol Counselor, M.A. in Counselling Psychology from Adler University
When we keep trying to put other people's needs ahead of our own, we lose ourselves in terms of our self-care and our self-respect. Often families do this with the addicts they love - and it creates a lose-lose situation for everyone concerned,
35 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Sharon Davern MSED, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed in Minnesota, Tennessee
Co-dependency is a very common pattern for people but can become quite debilitating over time. It leads us to destructive relationships and life patterns. Understanding how that impacts our lives and how to establish healthier patterns of living is extremely important.
37 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Jeannine Pablo
Psychologist, LP, LCMHC, MLADC
Chronic people-pleasing, fear of abandonment, and a habit of prioritizing others' needs over your own can quickly drain your mental well-being. Using evidence-based cognitive behavioral strategies, I help individuals identify the origins of codependent habits and break free from toxic relationship cycles. Our clinical work focuses heavily on establishing healthy personal boundaries, building secure attachment styles, and shifting the therapeutic lens back to your own self-worth, autonomy, and identity.
23 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Tara Murphy
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Codependency can feel like being trapped in over-responsibility for others while neglecting yourself. Using IFS, attachment-focused work. I help clients understand the parts of them driving these patterns and build healthier boundaries. Narrative and experiential therapies further support reclaiming self-worth and agency. I also offer diagnostic clarity when codependent patterns overlap with trauma, depression, or personality features.
29 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Know Thyself Healing & Therapy
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LICSW, LPCC, LGSW
Codependency can lead to unhealthy relationship patterns, difficulty setting boundaries, and loss of personal identity. Our codependency therapy helps you develop self-awareness, establish healthy boundaries, and build stronger, more balanced relationships. We support you in reconnecting with your own needs and sense of self.
28 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN
Codependency
Dr. Lyndsay Elliott
Psychologist, PsyD.
Codependency often develops so gradually that most people don't recognize it until they are completely exhausted — emotionally drained by relationships that consistently prioritize everyone else's needs over their own. As a licensed clinical psychologist with 20+ years of experience, I help adults identify and break codependent relationship patterns, rebuild healthy boundaries, and develop a stronger, more secure sense of self. Using cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychodynamic insight, and trauma-informed care, I work with clients to untangle the deep-rooted beliefs driving codependent behavior and build genuinely healthier relationships. Telehealth therapy for codependency available across 40+ states.
21 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Peg Beattie MA, LPCC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC
Helping the client gain understanding of their wants and needs.
22 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN
Codependency
Embodied Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MA, LPCC, CIEC, CCTP
Codependency is rooting to our family dynamics and attachment styles. I enjoy supporting clients to feel securely connected to themselves, their intrinsic knowing, and showing up in this world in ways that are aligned to your values.
3 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
MindOverHealing Therapies
Hypnotherapist, CHt
Codependency is a complex and often misunderstood psychological condition characterized by an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, friend, or family member. It frequently occurs in relationships where one person may have an addiction, mental illness, or other chronic condition. Hypnotherapy offers a unique and holistic approach to addressing the underlying issues of codependency, promoting healing and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships.
3 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Melissa LaCour
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Codependency shows up quietly — in the habit of prioritizing everyone else's needs before your own, in the anxiety that comes when you try to set a boundary, in the way your emotional state rises and falls with someone else's. Many of my clients don't initially name it as codependency. They just know that they feel responsible for people in a way that exhausts them, and that saying no feels dangerous. Therapy gives you space to examine where those patterns came from, what they're costing you, and how to build relationships that feel genuinely mutual rather than one-sided.
8 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN
Codependency
Daniel Johnson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC, NCC
Let's examine your relationship patterns, identify sources of symptoms, and then rebuild that inner ally which leads to confidence and greater independence.
6 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Omni Mental Health, Inc.
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, LICSW, DBT IOP
Codependency can make it difficult to set healthy boundaries, prioritize your own needs, and maintain balanced relationships. At Omni Mental Health, we help individuals recognize patterns of codependency and understand the underlying emotional dynamics. Through compassionate therapy, we work with you to build self-awareness, strengthen boundaries, and develop healthier ways of relating to yourself and others. Our goal is to support you in creating more fulfilling, balanced relationships and fostering greater emotional independence.
12 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN
Codependency
Inner World Counseling Services PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Codependency often develops as a brilliant survival strategy in response to past trauma or unpredictable environments. If you find yourself constantly reading the room, managing everyone else’s moods, or feeling an intense wave of guilt whenever you try to say 'no,' you are likely trapped in a codependent loop. I help chronic peacekeepers and over-functioners dismantle the 'fawn' response that keeps them neglecting their own needs. Together, we will work to untangle your identity from the burdens of others, quiet the fear of conflict, and build the confidence to set firm, healthy boundaries without the crushing weight of guilt
9 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. George Lough
Psychologist, Ph.D., S.E.P.
Codependency and people-pleasing can be an adaptation to the environment in which we grew up. Understanding that our own needs are our legitimate concern, and setting boundaries so that these needs are met, is necessary to prevent burnout.
48 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Panoramic Perspectives Therapy and Training
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPCC, LADC
Do you struggle with people-pleasing or constantly prioritizing other people's needs above your own? Do you wish you had a healthy sense of self? We can help you develop healthy boundaries and be operate confidently without sacrificing too much of yourself just to be in a relationship.
19 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN
Codependency
Dr. Amy Schullery
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I support clients struggling with codependency issues in their relationships.
19 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN
Codependency
Jordan Johnson, Creating Connection PLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC(WI), LPC(VA), LPCC(MN)
I bring a research-backed attachment theory framework to codependent relationship dynamics to help those who are struggling with feeling that their relationship is toxic or unhealthy.
15 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Restored Counseling & Wellness Center, PLLC
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, NMD
Codependency often develops as a survival strategy — and it works, until it doesn't. At Restored, we help clients recognize the relational patterns rooted in early attachment wounds that lead to over-functioning, people-pleasing, and losing themselves in relationships. Through compassionate, attachment-based work, we help you rebuild a healthier relationship with yourself so you can show up in your relationships from a place of genuine choice rather than fear or obligation.
14 Years Experience
Online in Detroit Lakes, MN
Codependency therapists in Detroit Lakes, Minnesota Statistics
Codependency therapists in Detroit Lakes, Minnesota average 18 years of experience and charge around $204 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (89%), and Depression (84%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$204
Gender ID
| 58% |
Female |
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| 35% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 50% |
In Person and Online |
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| 50% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 89% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 84% | Depression |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 70% | Loss or Grief |
| 70% | Stress |
| 61% | Trauma and PTSD |