Online Codependency therapists in Oakdale, Minnesota MN
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Codependency
Shelley Klammer
Counselor/Therapist, MTC, REACE, FOT, CHyp
If you are a heart-centred, empathic woman, you might have challenges setting healthy boundaries with people and could be stuck in fawning, pleasing, and appeasing patterns to feel safe and connected. I can support you in defining your values and setting either flexible or non-negotiable boundaries, depending on the circumstances. I can help you move through self-doubt and into your authentic self-expression. The therapy that I offer is in-depth and often involves going back to the inner child, where your inner defense patterns and relationship patterns began, to initiate deep emotional healing and safety.
20 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Omni Mental Health, Inc.
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, LICSW, DBT IOP
Codependency can make it difficult to set healthy boundaries, prioritize your own needs, and maintain balanced relationships. At Omni Mental Health, we help individuals recognize patterns of codependency and understand the underlying emotional dynamics. Through compassionate therapy, we work with you to build self-awareness, strengthen boundaries, and develop healthier ways of relating to yourself and others. Our goal is to support you in creating more fulfilling, balanced relationships and fostering greater emotional independence.
12 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Embodied Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MA, LPCC, CIEC, CCTP
Codependency is rooting to our family dynamics and attachment styles. I enjoy supporting clients to feel securely connected to themselves, their intrinsic knowing, and showing up in this world in ways that are aligned to your values.
3 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Peg Beattie MA, LPCC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC
Helping the client gain understanding of their wants and needs.
22 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Jordan Johnson, Creating Connection PLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC(WI), LPC(VA), LPCC(MN)
I bring a research-backed attachment theory framework to codependent relationship dynamics to help those who are struggling with feeling that their relationship is toxic or unhealthy.
15 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
GRIS ALVES
Counselor/Therapist, Compassionate Inquiry, Trauma Informed Mindfulness Teacher
I help clients struggling with codependency understand how early attachment experiences and relational patterns shape overgiving, people-pleasing, and boundary challenges. Using a trauma-informed, compassionate approach, we work to build self-awareness, emotional autonomy, and healthier, more balanced relationships. Therapy provides a safe space to break old patterns and reconnect with your authentic self.
11 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Brent Peak
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Codependency can feel like you’re constantly managing other people’s emotions, needs, and reactions—while your own get pushed aside. You may feel guilty when you say no, anxious when someone is upset with you, or responsible for making sure everyone around you is okay. Maybe you find yourself over-explaining, avoiding conflict, or bending over backward to keep the peace. Deep down, you might wonder, “Who am I if I’m not needed?” or “Why do I always end up in one-sided relationships?” These patterns didn’t appear out of nowhere—they were learned in childhood, often in environments where love, approval, or safety felt tied to how well you could care for others. When you were young, putting others first may have been necessary for survival—but now, it’s keeping you stuck in exhaustion, resentment, and self-doubt.
But you don’t have to keep living this way. Healing from codependency isn’t about becoming selfish—it’s about learning that your needs, emotions, and boundaries matter just as much as everyone else’s. Using Post-Induction Therapy (PIT), I help clients heal the childhood wounds that created these patterns, so they can stop seeking self-worth through overgiving and start building relationships based on mutual respect and emotional balance. Therapy helps you stop feeling responsible for other people’s happiness, set boundaries without guilt, and finally put yourself on your own priority list. You don’t have to prove your worth by constantly doing for others—you are already enough, just as you are.
11 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Know Thyself Healing & Therapy
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LICSW, LPCC, LGSW
Codependency can lead to unhealthy relationship patterns, difficulty setting boundaries, and loss of personal identity. Our codependency therapy helps you develop self-awareness, establish healthy boundaries, and build stronger, more balanced relationships. We support you in reconnecting with your own needs and sense of self.
28 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Sharon Davern MSED, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed in Minnesota, Tennessee
Co-dependency is a very common pattern for people but can become quite debilitating over time. It leads us to destructive relationships and life patterns. Understanding how that impacts our lives and how to establish healthier patterns of living is extremely important.
37 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with young adults and adults who have learned to orient themselves around other people’s needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of their own. This can look like being the reliable one, the steady one, the person others turn to, while privately feeling depleted, unseen, or unsure where your own preferences begin. Many people I see have spent years managing relationships, smoothing conflict, or carrying more than their share because it felt safer than disappointing someone or risking disconnection.
Codependent patterns often develop in situations where you had to stay attuned to others to keep the peace, where your worth was tied to being helpful or accommodating, or where expressing your own needs led to tension, withdrawal, or criticism. Over time, this can make it hard to trust your internal signals, set boundaries without guilt, or believe that your needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
In our work together, we look at how these patterns formed, what they have protected you from, and how they show up in your relationships today. We make space for the part of you that learned to stay small, agreeable, or over responsible in order to feel safe, and for the part of you that is tired of doing so much emotional labor. From there, we explore what it means to move through relationships with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice, without abandoning the parts of you that have worked so hard to keep things stable. Supporting people who have organized themselves around others for a long time is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how much you have carried.
26 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Bold Expressions Therapy
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Codependency is a circular pattern that emerge in relationships when one person needs another person to need them in order to keep the relationship going. This is an unhealthy pattern and often leads to unhappiness and toxic patterns in relationships. I approach these relationships from a place of empathy and concern for all parties involved. It is my goal to illuminate these patterns and teach individuals to set healthy boundaries that will allow them to break free of codependent relationships and live healthier and happier lives with friends and family.
6 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Jason Holland
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency often involves over-functioning, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions and choices. We will sort through where these patterns came from, what they have cost you, and why they have been so hard to change. I help clients build healthier boundaries, stronger self-trust, and more balanced relationships that do not depend on guilt, fear, or over-responsibility.
25 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Paul W Anderson, PhD
Psychologist, Licensed counseling psychologist, Licensed Addictions counselor, PsyPact
How much better to put your mind and energy to taking care of your self and depending on your own efforts than to believe you can't be OK unless you qualifier (addict) gets sober. I can help and guide you on how to get into your own recovery and long lasting sobriety.
45 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Hannah Muetzelfeld
Psychologist, PhD
I offer a compassionate, nonjudgmental space to explore and heal patterns that no longer serve you. Whether you find yourself constantly prioritizing others at the expense of your own well-being, struggling with boundaries, or feeling responsible for others’ emotions, I can help you reconnect with your own needs and develop healthier relationship patterns. My approach integrates evidence-based practices with a deep understanding of attachment and family systems to support lasting change.
12 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Daniel Johnson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC, NCC
Let's examine your relationship patterns, identify sources of symptoms, and then rebuild that inner ally which leads to confidence and greater independence.
6 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Amy Schullery
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I support clients struggling with codependency issues in their relationships.
19 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Panoramic Perspectives Therapy and Training
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPCC, LADC
Do you struggle with people-pleasing or constantly prioritizing other people's needs above your own? Do you wish you had a healthy sense of self? We can help you develop healthy boundaries and be operate confidently without sacrificing too much of yourself just to be in a relationship.
19 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Chad T. Allen
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MA, LPCC
I am a psychoanalyst in private practice in the Minneapolis–St. Paul area, working with adults who find themselves consistently prioritizing others’ needs at the expense of their own or feeling overly responsible for the emotional well-being of those around them. Patterns often described as codependency frequently develop in response to earlier relational experiences and can lead to difficulty setting boundaries or maintaining a stable sense of self within relationships.
My work is grounded in the belief that these patterns have understandable emotional origins. Psychoanalytic psychotherapy offers a space to explore how these relational dynamics developed and how they continue to shape current relationships. Through increased understanding, individuals can begin to experience greater freedom in balancing closeness with autonomy and in developing relationships that feel more mutual and sustainable.
I also work with couples who wish to better understand how these patterns affect communication and intimacy.
12 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Codependency
Inner World Counseling Services PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Codependency often develops as a brilliant survival strategy in response to past trauma or unpredictable environments. If you find yourself constantly reading the room, managing everyone else’s moods, or feeling an intense wave of guilt whenever you try to say 'no,' you are likely trapped in a codependent loop. I help chronic peacekeepers and over-functioners dismantle the 'fawn' response that keeps them neglecting their own needs. Together, we will work to untangle your identity from the burdens of others, quiet the fear of conflict, and build the confidence to set firm, healthy boundaries without the crushing weight of guilt
9 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Peg Roberts
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
My latest book, "Reclaiming Your Lost Soul: A Soul Seekers Life Guide to Healing Codependency." It's a comprehensive guide to understanding what losing your soul means, how it develops and how to heal from it. Lives can change, boundaries can be set, and building self-esteem happens when you follow the guide. It's easy to order at my website Spiritofhopecc.com.
28 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Oakdale, Minnesota Statistics
Codependency therapists in Oakdale, Minnesota average 18 years of experience and charge around $204 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (89%), and Depression (84%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$204
Gender ID
| 58% |
Female |
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| 35% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 50% |
In Person and Online |
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| 50% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 89% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 84% | Depression |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 70% | Loss or Grief |
| 70% | Stress |
| 61% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |