Online Perfectionism therapists in New York City, New York NY
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Madeline Salerno
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Madeline works with clients struggling with perfectionism, self-pressure, and fear of failure to develop greater flexibility, self-compassion, and balance.
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Fufan Chiang
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Perfectionism isn't just a drive to do well; it is an exhausting survival strategy that tells you your worth is only earned by performing, pleasing, and never letting anyone down. Carrying the invisible burden of "never good enough" leaves you hypervigilant, deeply self-critical, and entirely disconnected from your own needs. Through specialized, body-centered trauma therapy, we will move past these rigid standards and quiet your inner critic. You can transition away from constant overextension and step into real, lasting self-trust and genuine, physical calm.
17 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Carmen Ceballos
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R
We provide therapy for perfectionism to support working women who feel stuck in cycles of self-pressure, overworking, and never feeling “good enough.” Perfectionism often shows up as fear of making mistakes, constant self-criticism, difficulty slowing down, and tying your worth to productivity or achievement. Using evidence-based approaches, we help you challenge rigid standards, shift unhelpful thought patterns, and develop a more balanced, sustainable way of approaching your goals. Together, we focus on building self-compassion, setting realistic expectations, and helping you move forward with confidence—without the constant pressure to be perfect.
22 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Sally Roesch
Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
I'm experienced in working with those who may be struggling with relationship issues, Narcissistic tendencies, mood disorders, impulse behavior, and anxiety. I help clients improve communication, assertiveness, and self-worth. My goal is to help you clarify desires, address obstacles, and achieve your goals. I'm committed to providing direct, effective support; no tiptoeing around.
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Taylor Lee
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP, Ed.M., M.A.
I specialize in working with clients struggling with perfectionism, especially those who feel driven by self-criticism, fear of mistakes, or pressure to meet high expectations. Many of my clients have spent years holding themselves to rigid standards or tying their worth to achievement. Together, we explore the roots of these patterns, soften harsh inner dialogue, and build a more compassionate, flexible way of relating to yourself.
2 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Dr. Christopher Lowery, DHSc, CLCP
Clinical Health Practitioner, Board-Certified Life Care Planner
This component assist with the management of self-criticism, reduce anxiety, and develop healthier standards, self-compassion, and balanced coping strategies.
24 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Farzana Rahman
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-D
As the eldest daughter and child of South Asian immigrants, I have worked extensively with Asian American clients who are recovering people pleasers and perfectionists. Perfectionism often overlaps with depression and anxiety, and part of the work we will do together is understanding and identifying which ingrained beliefs are contributing towards specific habits or patterns.
11 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Elizabeth Harwood
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, EMDRIA-Certified EMDR Therapist and Consultant-in-Training
Perfectionism is a pattern that can get in the way in many areas of our lives, including relationships, body image, anxiety and stress. We are here to help you find more flexibility in your thinking and a new pathway forward.
12 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Angie Yemma
Therapist, LCAT, BCDMT
You set high standards for yourself, but no matter how much you accomplish, it never feels like enough. Perfectionism can lead to anxiety, self-doubt, overthinking, and burnout. Together, we'll work to quiet your inner critic, build self-compassion, and help you feel confident without constantly chasing perfection.
16 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Elizabeth Pritchett
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-D
My expertise in perfectionism enables clients to break free from unrealistic standards and self-criticism. I provide practical tools to cultivate self-acceptance, resilience, and balanced achievement. My goal is to help individuals embrace growth and find satisfaction beyond perfection.
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Danielle Esses
Psychologist, PsyD
Perfectionism can look like high standards on the surface, but often comes with anxiety, self-criticism, and difficulty feeling satisfied or at ease. Therapy helps you understand the function of these patterns and develop a more flexible, sustainable way of approaching achievement and self-worth.
8 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Cicek Erdem
Psychologist, PhD
Perfectionism is often less about high standards and more about fear—fear of failure, disappointing others, losing control, or not feeling worthy. You may find yourself overworking, overthinking, people-pleasing, procrastinating, or struggling to feel satisfied with yourself no matter how much you accomplish. While perfectionism may once have helped you feel safe, accepted, or in control, over time it can become exhausting and isolating. Therapy can help you better understand what drives these patterns while creating more space for self-compassion, authenticity, balance, and a more flexible relationship with yourself.
12 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Therapy With You
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW, LCSW
We provide treatment for a wide range of mental health concerns, tailoring care to each individual’s unique needs and experiences.
6 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Chrissie Chua- Ly van manh
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC-D, LPC
I work with many high-achieving, hardworking individuals who often define their identity, worth, and sense of meaning through productivity, performance, and external success. While these strengths can lead to accomplishment and reliability, they can also create pressure, burnout, and a persistent sense of never feeling “enough,” no matter how much is achieved.
Perfectionism often shows up as self-criticism, difficulty resting, fear of failure, people-pleasing, or feeling anxious even during moments of success. Many clients come to me feeling exhausted by their own standards, yet unsure how to slow down or step away from the patterns that have helped them succeed.
In our work together, we explore the deeper roots of perfectionism- often shaped by past experiences, family expectations, or learned beliefs about worth and achievement. At the same time, we focus on practical ways to challenge rigid thinking patterns, reduce anxiety, and develop a more balanced and compassionate relationship with oneself.
My goal is to help clients begin to separate their identity from their productivity, reconnect with what actually matters to them, and build a life that feels not only successful on the outside, but also grounded, sustainable, and meaningful on the inside.
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Merry Alijoski
Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist -LMFT
I truly enjoy working with perfectionism and treating it at it’s core with deeper insight to reach unperfectionism ⚡️Is that a word? lol
3 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Liberation Therapy
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
Perfectionism is often driven by fear, shame, and a belief that you are only worthy if you do things perfectly. Together we work on understanding the roots of perfectionism, reducing the anxiety around mistakes, and helping you build a life that is more flexible, creative, and humane.
5 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Clara Kuntz
Psychologist, PhD
Anxiety and perfectionism often go hand in hand. Setting unrealistically high standards can lead to persistent worry, self-criticism, and stress that interfere with daily life and relationships. Therapy can help you build self-compassion, realistic goals, and practical coping strategies to reduce anxiety and break the cycle of perfectionism.
7 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Jonathan Schnapp
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Perfectionism can create constant pressure to get things “just right,” often leading to stress, self-criticism, and difficulty feeling satisfied or at ease. In therapy, we’ll look at what drives these patterns and how they’ve taken shape over time. By developing a more flexible, compassionate way of relating to yourself, you can begin to ease the pressure, take healthier risks, and engage with your work and relationships in a way that feels more balanced and sustainable.
15 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Adrian Pinckney
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with clients to improve emotional regulation, strengthen interpersonal relationships, and foster lasting personal growth and self-awareness.
4 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Molly Stern
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, MFT
I help clients unpack the pressure to “get it right” and the fear of making mistakes. Together, we explore the roots of perfectionism, challenge rigid expectations, and build a more compassionate, flexible approach to goals, self-worth, and success.
3 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City has the largest and most diverse therapy community in the world, with practitioners representing virtually every therapeutic modality, cultural background, and specialty area. The city's pace, density, and cost of living generate pervasive anxiety and burnout, while its diverse boroughs mean therapists fluent in dozens of languages serve communities from every corner of the globe. Columbia University Irving Medical Center, NYU Langone Health, and Weill Cornell Medicine anchor an extensive academic mental health infrastructure, supplemented by thousands of independent practitioners across Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, and Staten Island. New York's therapy culture is deeply embedded — many residents maintain years-long therapeutic relationships and consider finding the right therapist one of the more important decisions they make.
Perfectionism therapists in New York City, New York Statistics
Perfectionism therapists in New York City, New York average 11 years of experience and charge around $218 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Perfectionism (100%), Anxiety or Fears (91%), and Depression (79%).
Average years in practice
11 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$218
Gender ID
| 69% |
Female |
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| 18% |
Male |
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| 8% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 52% |
Online Only |
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| 48% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Perfectionism |
| 91% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 79% | Depression |
| 67% | Life Transitions |
| 67% | Women's Issues |
| 64% | Stress |
| 58% | Trauma and PTSD |