Online Codependency therapists in Selma, Texas TX
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Codependency
Emily Stone
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, MDiv, PhD, LMFT-S
Co-Dependency: From Self-Sacrifice to Self-Sovereignty
Untangling Your Identity from the Needs of Others
Co-dependency is often the "noble" struggle. It is the exhaustion that comes from being the primary emotional caretaker, the peacekeeper, and the one who anticipates everyone else’s needs while ignoring your own. In my practice, we view co-dependent patterns as deeply ingrained attachment strategies—behaviors that were likely necessary for safety in the past but are now leading to burnout, resentment, and a loss of self.
Recognizing the Systemic Loop
Co-dependency doesn't happen in a vacuum; it is a relational "dance" that we explore through a systemic lens:
The Caretaker’s Burnout: Addressing the physical and emotional collapse that occurs when your "worth" is tied to your "usefulness."
Fear of Disconnection: Understanding the roots of the anxiety that arises when you try to set a boundary or say "no."
Emotional Enmeshment: Moving from a state where you "feel" the emotions of others more intensely than your own, toward a healthy, defined sense of self.
The Path to Relational Freedom
Using over 20 years of experience and specialized training in Attachment Theory and Systems Theory, I help you navigate the transition from enmeshment to autonomy:
Attachment Repair: We look at the "why" behind the "need to be needed," using EFT to help you develop a secure attachment to yourself first.
Internal Family Systems (IFS): We get curious about the "Protector" parts of you that believe you must be "perfect" or "helpful" to be loved.
Somatic Boundary Work: We learn to listen to the body’s signals of overwhelm and resentment, using them as a compass for where a boundary needs to be drawn.
Reclaiming Your Narrative
Whether you are navigating a relationship with a partner, a parent, or a child, the goal is not to stop caring—it is to care from a place of choice rather than a place of fear. Together, we work to build a life where you are no longer a "supporting character" in someone else’s story, but the conscious author of your own.
21 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Jamie Heavey
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ATR
As a therapist specializing in codependency, I understand the unique challenges and struggles that can come with this pattern of behavior. Codependency can manifest in many different ways, but it often involves an unhealthy reliance on others for validation and self-worth, a lack of boundaries, and difficulty prioritizing one's own needs and desires.
Through a combination of therapy techniques, I help clients gain a deeper understanding of their codependent patterns and develop new coping skills to break free from these negative patterns. Together, we work to identify the underlying causes of codependency and explore strategies for establishing healthy boundaries, improving self-esteem, and fostering healthy relationships.
Whether you are struggling with codependency in your romantic relationships, family dynamics, or other areas of your life, I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your feelings and work towards lasting change. My goal is to help clients build a more fulfilling and authentic life, free from the constraints of codependency.
If you're ready to break free from codependency and build healthy, fulfilling relationships, contact me today to schedule a consultation. Let's work together to help you achieve greater self-awareness, self-compassion, and personal growth.
21 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
Edward Flatow
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
CODEPENDENCY is often confused with interdependency, and it is not the same. The best way I can describe CODEPENDENCY is as an addiction to a person, the same way people become addicted to a drug or behavior. I treat it as such.
10 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
Kristin Wright
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Relationships are a fun and important aspect to life. But they can sometimes become toxic or difficult, and setting boundaries becomes a necessity. Whether you are wanting to end a relationship or make one better, working on codependency with a safe and non-judgmental outsider can be the change you are needing!
10 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Jason Carlettini
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
I have the privilege of seeing tremendous results using my training, experience, and resources with those I have the honor of working with who have the challenge of codependency.
6 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
Crystal Williamson
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-S
Co-dependent relationships may come in different forms but they are destructive for both parties involved. I explore the unique aspects of your relationship dynamic and help teach healthier boundaries, empathy and personal responsibility, and a focus on self-acceptance according to the needs of the client in front of me. EMDR can help with prior trauma that may have contributed to recurrent patterns of behavior and responses.
7 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
Cowtown Christian Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCSW
Codependency is very common. We help clients understand their identity and practical tips to grow in love for each other. Our counselors have found this to be very helpful for those who struggle with codependency.
11 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with young adults and adults who have learned to orient themselves around other people’s needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of their own. This can look like being the reliable one, the steady one, the person others turn to, while privately feeling depleted, unseen, or unsure where your own preferences begin. Many people I see have spent years managing relationships, smoothing conflict, or carrying more than their share because it felt safer than disappointing someone or risking disconnection.
Codependent patterns often develop in situations where you had to stay attuned to others to keep the peace, where your worth was tied to being helpful or accommodating, or where expressing your own needs led to tension, withdrawal, or criticism. Over time, this can make it hard to trust your internal signals, set boundaries without guilt, or believe that your needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
In our work together, we look at how these patterns formed, what they have protected you from, and how they show up in your relationships today. We make space for the part of you that learned to stay small, agreeable, or over responsible in order to feel safe, and for the part of you that is tired of doing so much emotional labor. From there, we explore what it means to move through relationships with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice, without abandoning the parts of you that have worked so hard to keep things stable. Supporting people who have organized themselves around others for a long time is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how much you have carried.
26 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
Tammy Desko
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Are you in a relationship where one person enable another person's self-destructive behavior? Is it hard to say no? Come to counseling as we learn where these behaviors come from and how to turn them around. Also, in counseling we will work on implementing healthy boundaries in any relationship.
14 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Kevin Brown, Therapy in Mindfulness
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Codependency often arises from prioritizing others’ needs over our own, sometimes making it easier to care for others than to advocate for ourselves. While this pattern may have developed as a way to maintain connection or safety, it can lead to exhaustion, resentment, and a loss of personal identity. In our work together, we will explore what you feel and need, cultivate self-awareness, and develop the boundaries that allow you to meet your own needs while maintaining healthy relationships. Through a somatic and compassionate approach, we’ll support your journey toward greater self-trust, balance, and authentic connection.
18 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Amber McKinney-Morgan
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LICSW
If you find yourself over-giving, over-functioning, or losing yourself in relationships, you’re not alone. Codependency often develops as an adaptive way to stay connected and safe. Together, we explore these patterns with compassion, helping you reconnect with your own needs, set boundaries, and build relationships that feel mutual, grounded, and authentic.
8 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Avery Wageman Passion Flower Therapy
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Codependency patterns can leave you feeling overly responsible for others, struggling to set boundaries, or disconnected from your own needs and identity. You may find yourself prioritizing others at the expense of your well-being, feeling stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics, or having difficulty saying no without guilt.
Avery provides a supportive, nonjudgmental space to help you explore these patterns and understand where they come from. Together, you’ll work on building healthier boundaries, strengthening self-worth, and reconnecting with your own needs, values, and sense of identity. The goal is to help you create more balanced, fulfilling relationships where you can show up for others without losing yourself in the process.
2 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Courtney Loyola
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Codependency often develops as a survival strategy in unpredictable or emotionally unsafe environments. I help clients untangle patterns of over-functioning, people-pleasing, and losing themselves in relationships. Together we build healthier boundaries, increase self-worth, and shift from survival-based attachment to secure, balanced connection.
13 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
Happy Camper Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, RPT-S, EMDR Consultant, TBRI Educator
You may find yourself putting others first, struggling to set boundaries, or feeling responsible for how others feel. Through a combination of EMDR and reflective, nature-based work, we’ll explore these patterns and help you build a stronger sense of self and healthier relationships.
10 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
Daniel Gowan
Counselor/Therapist, LPC-S, LCDC, CSAT
Codependency can quietly drain the joy from relationships. With compassion and practical tools, I support individuals in reclaiming their identity, setting healthy boundaries, and building respectful, loving connections.
24 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
RGV Cross Over Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, M. Ed., LPC (AL), LPC (TX)
Codependency may affect and cause unhealthy relationships within families, relationships, and coworkers. When codependency starts to affect you emotionally, mentally, behaviorally, and physically, or those around you, this may have negative consequences for your well-being. You are taking steps to break destructive patterns, and you are not alone. You may reach out to me and we will set new goals for freedom from destructive patterns and peace.
22 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Kim Salinger
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, MBA, MSN, PMHNP, FNP, AHN
Codependency often shows up as chronic worry about others, difficulty setting boundaries, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions. My approach focuses on understanding the emotional and biological factors that contribute to these patterns, including anxiety, mood, and nervous system stress. Visits emphasize insight, support, and practical guidance, with psychiatric care integrated when appropriate, to help individuals feel more grounded, balanced, and self-directed.
14 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
Gregg Unterberger
Licensed Professional Counselor, M.Ed., LPC
John Lee once said, "Recovery from codependency is like kicking heroin, only harder." Our need to please, to fix, to control can take us to the brink of insanity & drive everyone around us crazy, too! But we can learn new ways to think & feel about ourselves so we can step back from enmeshment.
28 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX
Codependency
Kelli Hall
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with individuals who find themselves over-functioning or over-accommodating in relationships.
This often includes difficulty saying no, feeling responsible for others, or prioritizing others’ needs over your own.
Together, we focus on developing boundaries, clarifying needs, and building more balanced, authentic relationships.
13 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
The Empowering Space PLLC
Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Break Free from Codependency & Build Healthier Relationships
Do you find yourself constantly putting others’ needs before your own, struggling with boundaries, or feeling like your self-worth depends on others’ approval? Codependency can keep you stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. At The Empowering Space, we help you identify codependent behaviors, build self-confidence, and develop healthier, more balanced relationships—whether with a partner, family member, or friend.
Using Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), boundary-setting techniques, and self-empowerment strategies, we work together to help you gain clarity, set healthier boundaries, and prioritize your well-being without guilt. You deserve relationships that are mutually fulfilling, not one-sided.
Let’s help you reclaim your independence, self-worth, and emotional freedom.
7 Years Experience
Online in Selma, TX (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Selma, Texas Statistics
Codependency therapists in Selma, Texas average 16 years of experience and charge around $179 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Depression (83%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$179
Gender ID
| 63% |
Female |
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| 31% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 56% |
In Person and Online |
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| 44% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 83% | Depression |
| 75% | Stress |
| 73% | Self Esteem |
| 69% | Loss or Grief |
| 68% | Trauma and PTSD |