Online Codependency therapists in Purcellville, Virginia VA
We are proud to feature top rated online Codependency therapists in Purcellville. We encourage you to review each profile to find your best match.
Dr. Lyndsay Elliott
Psychologist, PsyD.
Codependency often develops so gradually that most people don't recognize it until they are completely exhausted — emotionally drained by relationships that consistently prioritize everyone else's needs over their own. As a licensed clinical psychologist with 20+ years of experience, I help adults identify and break codependent relationship patterns, rebuild healthy boundaries, and develop a stronger, more secure sense of self. Using cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychodynamic insight, and trauma-informed care, I work with clients to untangle the deep-rooted beliefs driving codependent behavior and build genuinely healthier relationships. Telehealth therapy for codependency available across 40+ states.
21 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA (Online Only)
Michelle Bloom, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD, PsyPact
Setting healthy boundaries is something many of us did not effectively learn in childhood, even in the most well meaning and loving of families. We have, instead, learned to live life to serve others and to prioritize the needs of others, even when doing so harms ourselves. My approach is to help my clients create healthy boundaries, advocate for the self, learn to communicate our needs clearly and directly, and then learn to act upon the needs we have outlined to those we love so we can cultivate healthy and mutually effective relationships. Cutting the ties of codependency is central to this process: staying in one's own lane, letting others solve their own problems, offering compassion and help when asked, letting go of the rescue fantasy, living without an emotional hangover, and learning to accept that there is much we cannot control.
29 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA (Online Only)
Amanda Cummings Brandenburg
Psychologist, PhD
Survivors of trauma often seek to overcome patterns of codependency in their relationships. I employ an empowerment approach to helping people focus on developing better self-esteem and self-awareness engage in healthier relationship patterns.
11 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCMHC, LCAS
Helping clients develop healthier boundaries and more balanced, fulfilling relationships.
7 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Dr. Brian M. Berman
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I specialize in the treatment of codependency and utilize elements of self-compassion, communications skills and emotion focused therapy (EFT) to help clients improve boundary setting .
22 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
LEGACY MENTAL HEALTH CONSULTING SERVICES
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Legacy Mental Health Consulting Services provides supportive, insight‑driven care for individuals struggling with codependency and patterns of over‑giving, people‑pleasing, or losing themselves in relationships. We help clients understand the emotional roots of these behaviors, including attachment wounds, fear of abandonment, and difficulty setting boundaries. Through approaches such as CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and psychodynamic exploration, clients learn to build healthier relationship dynamics, strengthen self‑worth, and develop confidence in expressing their needs. Whether codependency shows up in romantic relationships, family systems, or friendships, we offer a safe, empowering space to break old cycles and create connections that feel balanced, respectful, and emotionally fulfilling.
12 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Shelley Klammer
Counselor/Therapist, MTC, REACE, FOT, CHyp
If you are a heart-centred, empathic woman, you might have challenges setting healthy boundaries with people and could be stuck in fawning, pleasing, and appeasing patterns to feel safe and connected. I can support you in defining your values and setting either flexible or non-negotiable boundaries, depending on the circumstances. I can help you move through self-doubt and into your authentic self-expression. The therapy that I offer is in-depth and often involves going back to the inner child, where your inner defense patterns and relationship patterns began, to initiate deep emotional healing and safety.
20 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA (Online Only)
Mind Body Connections
Counselor/Therapist
As an underlying issue that so many individuals struggle with, education around this is imperative followed by psychoeducation around how to set healthy boundaries with others.
28 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Dr. Megan Marks
Psychologist, PhD
You might be the one everyone leans on—always available, endlessly supportive, and quick to smooth things over. But underneath that strength, there’s a quiet exhaustion. Maybe you’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own voice. You may struggle to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, or feel okay when someone else is upset. Maybe you define your worth through how much you give or help, but deep down, you’re craving space to just be… without performing, fixing, or proving.
At The Momentum Practice, I help clients untangle patterns of codependency that often start early—growing up in families where your worth was tied to being helpful, agreeable, or emotionally attuned to others. These patterns can show up in adult life in all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, friendships, caregiving roles, family systems, and even the workplace, where over-functioning often gets mistaken for excellence. You might find yourself constantly people-pleasing, second-guessing your instincts, or feeling panicked at the thought of being left behind. They can be especially layered for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks who’ve had to mask parts of themselves to stay safe, loved, or accepted.
We’ll explore how these ways of relating helped you survive—and how they might be keeping you stuck now. Together, we’ll work on building boundaries that feel empowering (not selfish), tuning into your own needs and desires, and letting go of the belief that your value comes from how much you give. We’ll also look at how systemic pressures may have reinforced these patterns over time. Our work might include unlearning perfectionism, quieting the inner critic, and cultivating self-trust that isn’t tied to how much you do for others.
With over 15 years of experience, I offer a compassionate space to reconnect with your own voice and needs. You don’t have to keep disappearing in your relationships. Whether we’re working one-on-one or navigating these dynamics in couples therapy, you’ll have a space to explore what healthier, more mutual connection can look like. If you're ready to show up more fully for yourself and build connections that don’t come at the cost of your own well-being, I’d be honored to journey alongside you. Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation!
21 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Paws2Heal Mental Health Counseling Services
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC
Codependency often develops through relationships where your own needs were overlooked. Therapy helps strengthen boundaries, cultivate self-worth, and create healthier, more balanced connections
8 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Dr. Jeff J. Rocker
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, PH.D, NCC, LMHC, LCPC, LPC
Rocker Health has experienced and competent staff to deal with these issues.
15 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Friendly Psychology, LLC ~ Rachel W. Friendly, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
So many of us have been socialized to center other people's emotions at the expense of our own needs. We do this without thought, without understanding the consequences to ourselves because for so long, it has just felt like What We Are Supposed To Do. But it doesn't have to be like this. You are the main character in your life after all! As such, your responsibilities are simple: (1) be clear, and (2) be kind. You are not responsible for how others respond to your boundaries, but you ARE responsible for communicating them (hard!) and for holding them (harder!). Together, we can work on helping you to start noticing these patterns as they play out, experimenting with different ways of relating, and building healthier boundaries that allow you to care for both yourself and your loved ones more wholeheartedly.
15 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Kaylie Groenhout
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, EMDRIA Certified Therapist
It's easy to lose the map to your own needs when you're constantly focused on the well-being of others. Healing from codependency involves Self recovery, that central part of yourself that knows your worth is not tied to your productivity or your sacrifices. We work to establish healthy boundaries and rebuild a relationship with yourself that feels balanced and restorative.
4 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Allison Bernardo
Pre-Licensed Professional, Resident in Counseling
Do you find yourself putting everyone else’s needs before your own? Together we’ll explore patterns of people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and seeking validation from others while helping you develop healthier relationships built on mutual respect and self-worth.
1 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
The Wellness Sanctuary
Counselor/Therapist, Behavioral Health
Experienced in Pre-Marital Counseling, Post-Marital counseling, Behavior Couples Therapy and Family Education
23 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Heedful Resolutions Behavioral Health Services, LLC
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
At Heedful Resolutions, our clinicians provide support for individuals navigating the challenges of co-dependency. This often shows up in difficulty setting boundaries, people-pleasing behaviors, or feeling defined by the needs of others. Together, we help clients build healthier relationships with themselves and those around them.
Latoya Harris, LCSW works with clients across the lifespan, integrating trauma-informed and parts-based approaches to strengthen self-worth and autonomy.
Cathy Merchut-Kruger, LCSW focuses on adults, guiding them in establishing balance, self-compassion, and more authentic connections.
Christine Trotta, LCSW, supports individuals in recognizing unhealthy patterns and developing skills for healthier emotional bonds.
Our shared goal is to empower clients to move from cycles of dependency toward resilience, self-awareness, and meaningful relationships.
5 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Aaron Kapin
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, SEP, LMT
I use Somatic Experiencing to help you tune into your own wants and needs so you can start learning to have a clearer sense of your boundaries, as well as the strength to set them.
A lot of relationships are labeled as 'codependent', but sometimes it can be more accurate to say that it's become easier for you to guess at what your partner wants than it is to know what you want.
Once you get more connected to what you want, it can become easier to have those conversations with your partner, and easier to stand strong in your needs.
11 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA (Online Only)
Washington Psychological Wellness
Counselor/Therapist
Washington Psychological Wellness is passionate about helping people live the lives they have envisioned by bringing values of honesty, kindness, humor, and compassion to the practice. Therapy can inspire change, create greater self-awareness, and improve one's life and relationships. Our clinicians provide a comfortable and collaborative environment where you can take risks and explore different ways of thinking, feeling, and being. We aim to help you gain clarity about the underlying causes of problems, provide strategies to help you cope, and empower you to trust your inner voice and live each day authentically. Washington Psychological Wellness believes in respect and equality for all regardless of race, ethnicity, nationality, class, caste, religion, belief, sex, gender, language, sexual orientation, gender identity, sex characteristics, age, health, or status. We are currently accepting new clients. Telehealth (online) therapy options are available. Call now to schedule your appointment!
12 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Dr. Ylenia Martinez
Counselor/Therapist, PsyD
Codependency often looks like taking care of everyone else while abandoning your own needs. Together, we untangle old survival patterns, people‑pleasing, over‑functioning, struggling to say no! and practice boundaries, self‑trust, and more mutual, sustainable relationships.
6 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA
Rebecca Castle-Waller
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
How did I get here? In some ways, it feels like I just woke up one day to find out I was taking care of everyone around me; it also feels true that I've always been taking care of others and that I've always needed others to take care of me.
Welcome, I have training in both trauma and relationships so I love to help folks unravel the puzzle of codependency versus interdependency. It's not unhealthy to need people, that's part of being a person! But where does it go too far? How can you tell, how can you set boundaries to make sure? I'm happy to work with you to help you build these skills and more as we're working on examining this pattern in your life!
7 Years Experience
Online in Purcellville, VA (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Purcellville, Virginia Statistics
Codependency therapists in Purcellville, Virginia average 16 years of experience and charge around $196 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (84%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$196
Gender ID
| 63% |
Female |
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| 28% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 56% |
In Person and Online |
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| 44% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 88% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 84% | Depression |
| 71% | Stress |
| 71% | Self Esteem |
| 70% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 68% | Loss or Grief |