Online Codependency therapists in Everett, Washington WA
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Dr. Megan Marks
Psychologist, PhD
You might be the one everyone leans on—always available, endlessly supportive, and quick to smooth things over. But underneath that strength, there’s a quiet exhaustion. Maybe you’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own voice. You may struggle to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, or feel okay when someone else is upset. Maybe you define your worth through how much you give or help, but deep down, you’re craving space to just be… without performing, fixing, or proving.
At The Momentum Practice, I help clients untangle patterns of codependency that often start early—growing up in families where your worth was tied to being helpful, agreeable, or emotionally attuned to others. These patterns can show up in adult life in all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, friendships, caregiving roles, family systems, and even the workplace, where over-functioning often gets mistaken for excellence. You might find yourself constantly people-pleasing, second-guessing your instincts, or feeling panicked at the thought of being left behind. They can be especially layered for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks who’ve had to mask parts of themselves to stay safe, loved, or accepted.
We’ll explore how these ways of relating helped you survive—and how they might be keeping you stuck now. Together, we’ll work on building boundaries that feel empowering (not selfish), tuning into your own needs and desires, and letting go of the belief that your value comes from how much you give. We’ll also look at how systemic pressures may have reinforced these patterns over time. Our work might include unlearning perfectionism, quieting the inner critic, and cultivating self-trust that isn’t tied to how much you do for others.
With over 15 years of experience, I offer a compassionate space to reconnect with your own voice and needs. You don’t have to keep disappearing in your relationships. Whether we’re working one-on-one or navigating these dynamics in couples therapy, you’ll have a space to explore what healthier, more mutual connection can look like. If you're ready to show up more fully for yourself and build connections that don’t come at the cost of your own well-being, I’d be honored to journey alongside you. Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation!
21 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Nicole Waters (Flowing Waters Counseling)
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
When your sense of worth depends on others’ approval or happiness, it can feel exhausting and you can lose sight of your own needs. Therapy can help you find balance by setting healthy boundaries, develop self-trust, and rediscover your own voice. Together, we’ll work toward relationships that are mutually supportive and emotionally fulfilling.
7 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA (Online Only)
Amanda Cummings Brandenburg
Psychologist, PhD
Survivors of trauma often seek to overcome patterns of codependency in their relationships. I employ an empowerment approach to helping people focus on developing better self-esteem and self-awareness engage in healthier relationship patterns.
11 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Sally Roesch
Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
I'm experienced in working with those who may be struggling with relationship issues, Narcissistic tendencies, mood disorders, impulse behavior, and anxiety. I help clients improve communication, assertiveness, and self-worth. My goal is to help you clarify desires, address obstacles, and achieve your goals. I'm committed to providing direct, effective support; no tiptoeing around.
10 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA (Online Only)
Finley Anderson
Therapist, LMFT
If you’ve spent most of your life focused on others — their moods, their needs, their approval — you may have lost touch with what you actually feel, want, or need. Codependency isn’t a flaw. It’s something that was learned, usually early, in relationships where love felt like something you had to earn. We’ll explore where these patterns came from and what they’ve been protecting you from.
3 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA (Online Only)
Clear Path Counseling and Wellness Center
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA. LPC
I work with clients who struggle with Codependency issues. During our sessions, we will collaborate to create a plan for addressing them that helps you resolve such issues in a meaningful manner to restore functioning enabling and empowering you to move beyond your past. I practice from a Holistic perspective and commonly employ EMDR and other effective modalities with helping clients achieve balance and purpose in their lives and creative solutions to their problems. This includes exploring past issues and trauma that may be a factor presently. Our goal is to make lasting and desired changes to promote healthy relationships and positive interactions.
28 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA (Online Only)
Erica Hart
Psychologist, PhD in Clinical Psychology
Understanding our relational and attachment patterns helps get at the root of codependency issues. Through therapy, I can help you understand the origins of your current challenges with balancing dependence and independence.
17 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Lisa Calderwood / New Dawn Counseling, LLC
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LICSW
With addiction or family dysfunction come codependence. With over 30 years of experience with addiction and substance abuse, I understand that this creates codependency and work with people on understanding what it means to be codependent and how to change from people pleaser to a more confident person who lives for themselves with others in their lives.
26 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA (Online Only)
Dr. Brittany Jacobson
Psychologist, PhD, CST
You may find yourself prioritizing others’ needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of your own. Together, we explore the patterns that keep you overextended or disconnected from yourself, often rooted in early relationships or learned roles. I will help you honor your own needs and voice, develop clearer boundaries, and connect to others without abandoning yourself.
10 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Tacoma Wellness Collective
Licensed Clinical Social Worker
If you've spent most of your life making sure everyone else is okay — and quietly losing yourself in the process — you're not broken. You're running a pattern that made sense at some point. It just may not be serving you anymore.
Codependency often looks like being the reliable one, the peacekeeper, the person who holds everything together. It can feel like love. It can feel like strength. But underneath, there's often a deep fear of conflict, rejection, or not being enough.
At TWC, we help adults untangle those patterns — where they came from, how they show up in relationships today, and what it looks like to show up for others without abandoning yourself in the process.
This work takes honesty and time. We think it's some of the most meaningful work there is.
When you're ready, we're here.
13 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Kate Mageau (she/her)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, ADHD-CCSP, NCC, CIMHP, C-DBT
Codependency is a key component of emotional abuse, toxic relationships, and domestic violence. It is often a precursor to all of these, so I help people to understand how codependent relationships form and how they last, how to notice signs of them turning into toxic relationships, and how to choose and keep healthy relationships. If you subscribe to my website, you can get a free handout on codependency! I have a book series, a workbook, and a course on this to help you learn and heal through the methods that work best for you. I currently only have these self-led supports for this.
4 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA (Online Only)
Nadia Amjoun
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LSWAIC, SUDP
Navigating codependency, people-pleasing, and patterns of overextending themselves in relationships can be difficult to do alone. Therapy focuses on increasing self-awareness, setting healthy boundaries, and strengthening your sense of self.
2 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA (Online Only)
MindOverHealing Therapies
Hypnotherapist, CHt
Codependency is a complex and often misunderstood psychological condition characterized by an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, friend, or family member. It frequently occurs in relationships where one person may have an addiction, mental illness, or other chronic condition. Hypnotherapy offers a unique and holistic approach to addressing the underlying issues of codependency, promoting healing and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships.
3 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA (Online Only)
Relationship Therapy Center - serving individuals and couples in CA online and in the Sacramento area
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Certified Gottman Therapist
How to not be a people pleaser and stop being a pushover! Codependency therapy helps you overcome codependency in marriage. Learn to break free from codependency whether you are with an alcoholic or drug user or just have behavior patterns based on your upbringing of putting yourself last, having low self-esteem, finding relationships where you need to be needed.
12 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Tracy L. Morris
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS LMFT
My perspective on Codependency is informed by prior years of 12-step recovery work with the addition of more recent advancements in thought around such labels.
11 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Jason Holland
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency often involves over-functioning, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions and choices. We will sort through where these patterns came from, what they have cost you, and why they have been so hard to change. I help clients build healthier boundaries, stronger self-trust, and more balanced relationships that do not depend on guilt, fear, or over-responsibility.
25 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Family Dynamics Counseling Services, INc
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC, CDPT, CCTP
Over 10 years understanding and reseaching Codependency and it's effects on people
15 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Alignwell Modern Therapy
Counselor/Therapist
If you often feel responsible for others’ emotions or struggle to set boundaries, you may be experiencing patterns of codependency. Therapy focuses on building self-trust, healthier boundaries, and more balanced relationships.
20 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Celeste Tomasulo
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency is not the opposite of independence. It is the chronic neglect of oneself for the sake of others. This can look like saying yes to things you'd rather say no to for fear of upsetting someone. Or for not expressing your needs for fear of another person's reaction. Together, we work on identifying the uncomfortable parts around conflict and step deeper into developing your sense of self and honoring your own emotions and needs.
5 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA
Eric Olsen
Life Coach, PTSD, Trauma Triage, BSc Social Sciences, DoD Career Councilor, SARC, DAPA, Pre Licensed Human Intelligence / Psychology, Life Coach. | Professional Support: LSSBB, PgM, Bluestone PMP,
We work through your codependency issues and behaviors and start to correct them.
17 Years Experience
Online in Everett, WA (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Everett, Washington Statistics
Codependency therapists in Everett, Washington average 16 years of experience and charge around $193 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (85%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$193
Gender ID
| 64% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 55% |
Online Only |
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| 45% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 92% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 85% | Depression |
| 77% | Self Esteem |
| 72% | Stress |
| 65% | Loss or Grief |
| 65% | Trauma and PTSD |