Relationship and Marriage Counseling in San Diego, CA
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Hayden Dover
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT, CST
My work with couples focuses on helping partners create more honest, connected, and fulfilling relationships. I work with communication problems, recurring conflict, emotional distance, resentment, desire differences, sexless relationships, infidelity, trust repair, and major life transitions. As a Certified Sex Therapist, I also help couples talk more directly and respectfully about sexuality, desire, intimacy, and the patterns that keep them disconnected.
22 Years Experience
In-Person in San Diego, CA 92116
Online in San Diego, CA
A Place of Growth
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
We do have therapists that provide relationship and marriage counseling and will work with you to resolve current struggles within your relationship.
15 Years Experience
In-Person in San Diego, CA 92108
Online in San Diego, CA
Matthew Bishop
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Doctorate in Behavioral Health Leadership
Couples therapy is not about deciding who’s right — it’s about learning how to hear each other and rebuild trust. I help partners slow down their conflicts, identify recurring cycles, and practice new ways of connecting that strengthen the relationship.
10 Years Experience
In-Person in San Diego, CA 92102
Online in San Diego, CA
Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
I have extensive training and experience in providing by Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy for partners at any stage of their relationship.
12 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Whole Wellness Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Whole Wellness Therapy believes that change and growth happen most through relationships. Relationships bring out the best and the worst in us. In order to understand ourselves and our partner in the context of our relationships, it's essential that we are able to recognize the patterns that contibute to any disconnectedness, disagreements, hurt or betrayals that occur. Our therapists use a wide variety of approaches to assist our couples in healing their relationship and themselves from the inside out.
8 Years Experience
In-Person in San Diego, CA 92108
Online in San Diego, CA
Su Boudreau, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Domestic Violence Counselor
A Marriage and Family Therapist has an extensive knowledge on the relational aspects in a family unit. Relationships take much effort as it takes both parties to work toward establishing a healthy relationship as well as maintaining and making further progress in a long-term relationship. The main modalities that can be used are Gottman Methods and Attachment-Based Systemic Therapy. Also a certified domestic violence therapist can help identify warning signs in the relationship to help mitigate or prevent potentially dangerous situations and/or build a healthy relationship if you have been in an unhealthy codependent relationship.
11 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Saralee Kramer Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I value loving marriage as a challenging and satisfying personal growth path. I also believe raising children is important and a challenge. Parents need a strong relationship for themselves and their children.
And it's a joy for me help women find their forever person. I work with them through their dating process to assess possible partners, and choose a good person. I teach tools like the Myers Briggs Personality Indicator, Attachment style assessment, and Effective Communication Skills to help them strengthen their relationship toolkit.
With my married couples, I help them develop communication and intimacy skills within their marriage to create the positive relationship that will thrive in our current culture and last forever.
26 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Patricia Fahmy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Relationships can bring immense joy and connection, but they can also be a source of pain, conflict, and frustration. You may find yourselves stuck in the same arguments, feeling emotionally disconnected, struggling with trust, or having difficulty communicating your needs effectively. I help individuals and couples understand the patterns driving these challenges, strengthen emotional connection, improve communication, and create healthier, more secure relationships. Together, we work toward building greater understanding, trust, and connection while addressing the underlying issues that keep couples feeling stuck.
7 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Elvina Inzano (legal name: vincent inzano)
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 164356
I work with relationships to cultivate emotional closeness and embracing of each person’s fullest expression.
6 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Claire Babbitt, LMFT, JD
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, J.D.
Meeting with couples can be helpful to reduce immediate tension, anger and confusion. In some cases where individuals are experiencing divorce or separation it can be very helpful to gain perspective from a third party who presents a non judgemental, empathic, and goal oriented approach to the immediate problem. My legal training is often helpful in presenting a practical, non emotional approach to the ongoing conflict or
immediate crisis
16 Years Experience
In-Person in San Diego, CA 92127
Online in San Diego, CA
Dr. Tracy Mallett
Psychologist, Psy.D., L.M.F.T., Licensed Psychologist
Relationships are some of the most rewarding parts of life—but they can also bring stress, frustration, and conflict. I specialize in helping couples and partners navigate challenges such as communication difficulties, trust issues, emotional disconnection, infidelity, and differing values or expectations.
In therapy, couples gain a safe, structured space to explore underlying dynamics, improve understanding, and develop skills for healthy communication and problem-solving. My approach blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Family Systems Theory, helping partners identify negative interaction patterns, manage emotional reactivity, and create new ways of relating that foster connection, empathy, and mutual respect.
Whether you are looking to repair a struggling relationship, navigate major life transitions together, or strengthen an already healthy partnership, therapy focuses on both insight and action—teaching practical strategies that partners can implement in daily life. I also support blended families, co-parenting couples, and couples navigating significant stressors such as relocation, career changes, or family illness.
My goal is to help couples build resilience, deepen intimacy, and create a relationship foundation that is not only functional but also fulfilling.
22 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Mary Karlan
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Work
Do you feel like you are stuck in an impasse with your partner? Have you are your partner experienced infidelity? Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples is a short-term treatment formulated by Drs. Sue Johnson and Les Greenberg. The focus on treatment is on rebuilding trust and intimacy and helping individuals feel safe and secure in their attachment to their partner. EFT is one othe most highly effective treatment modalities available for couples. Enhanced CBT for couples focuses on improving communication skills more directly and, like EFT treatment works to change the maladaptive interactions one experiences with his/her partner.
14 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Laura Fleming
Pre-Licensed Professional, Associate Marriage and Family Therapist
I love working with couples because our partners often reflect the parts of ourselves we struggle to see (or don't want to see!) on our own. Relationships bring up deep emotions, tender wounds, and protective patterns which makes this work both challenging and incredibly meaningful. In couples therapy, I help partners slow down, understand what’s happening beneath conflict, and create new, authentic ways to show love and support each other.
2 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Yukiko K Hartman
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MS, LPCC, LMHC
Why are relationships so sweet some time and so difficult other time? It's because we have emotional connection with our loved ones. In fact, building close relationship and maintaining it require a lot of awareness of what's happening in you and your partner, and between two of you. Also, knowing how to maintain emotional connection and how to repair the connection quickly when it's broken is the key for you to keep your important relationship going. In my therapy, we will look into your relationship to see what is not working and how it has affected you and your partner. I will introduce to you many elements of healthy relationship and have you learn new skills and behaviors. Relationship issues are often complicated and take time before you see the improvement. So, you may need to commit to therapy, but I believe it is worth your time and effort if you think your relationship is important for you.
15 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Chris 'Bucky' Bateman
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Strong marriages don't happen by accident, they're built intentionally, one conversation at a time. We help couples at every stage understand the patterns keeping them stuck, rebuild trust and emotional intimacy, and develop the skills for a relationship that genuinely thrives. Whether you're in crisis or simply wanting more, we provide a calm, structured space to do the work.
21 Years Experience
In-Person in San Diego, CA 92037
Online in San Diego, CA
Jessica Dominguez
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Therapy can help us find the path that will help us feel more confident, capable, and rooted in ourselves; help us learn to manage life's challenges, and connect us to our resilience and strengths in a way that honor our values, culture, and highlights that we have all we need to heal and grow. Life can be extremely difficult, and at some point, we all need support in helping navigate it. I actively center culture in my life and therapeutic work, and believe that connecting to our culture can promote healing, growth, self-acceptance, help us shed internalized oppressive views, as well as foster self-awareness and a deeper connection to our more authentic selves. I'm passionate about social justice and working with BIPOC women & Latine communities. Se habla espanol.
15 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Sue De Santo
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I help individuals who feel stuck in painful relationship patterns—people‑pleasing, conflict avoidance, repeating the same dynamics, or feeling unseen and alone even when partnered. As you grow more connected to your own needs, boundaries, and inner wisdom, you can begin to create relationships that feel safer, more reciprocal, and deeply nourishing.
35 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Tendril Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Communication struggles, unresolved conflicts, and growing apart can weigh on even the strongest relationships. Here at Tendril, we provide a space for couples to explore these challenges, rebuild connection, and nurture understanding.
7 Years Experience
In-Person in San Diego, CA 92127
Online in San Diego, CA
Douglairian psychology apc
Marriage and Family Therapist, Lmft
Whether you are seeking premarital counseling or require a mediator, we are here to help with compassion, tools, and a judgment-free approach.
5 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
Frankie Santiago
Life Coach, Professional Life Coach
I help men and women strengthen their relationships and marriages through practical life coaching focused on real connection and lasting improvement. Whether you’re working through conflicts, rebuilding trust, improving communication, setting healthy boundaries, or navigating major transitions together, we develop actionable strategies tailored to your unique situation. My collaborative, no-judgment style supports both partners (or individuals) in creating deeper understanding, greater intimacy, and a healthier dynamic. If you’re ready to invest in a stronger relationship, I offer a free 15 minute initial consultation to explore how we can work together.
15 Years Experience
Online in San Diego, CA (Online Only)
San Diego's identity as a major military and biotech hub creates dual demand for therapists specializing in veteran trauma and PTSD on one hand, and the high-functioning anxiety and burnout of the life sciences industry on the other. The city's large active-duty population at Naval Base San Diego and Camp Pendleton means therapists with military specialty training are consistently sought after, and many practices are specifically oriented toward service members and their families. San Diego's border location and large Latino population drive demand for bilingual therapists and culturally affirming care for immigrant and mixed-status families. Scripps Health and UC San Diego Health provide institutional mental health anchors across the county.
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in San Diego, CA Statistics
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in San Diego, CA average 16 years of experience and charge around $202 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (65%), Psychodynamic Therapy (45%), and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (41%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$202
Accept insurance
33%
Offer sliding scale
48%
Gender ID
| 64% |
Female |
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| 31% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 68% |
In Person and Online |
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| 32% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 65% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 45% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 41% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 37% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 36% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 35% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 31% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 60% | Young Adult |
| 57% | Senior |
| 53% | Teen |
| 27% | Children |
Client Focus
| 55% | Women |
| 41% | LGBTQ+ |
| 39% | Men |
| 28% | Christian |
| 24% | Hispanic / Latino |