Perfectionism Therapists in Illinois

Perfectionism

Brittany Statler, Intuitive Wellness Therapy Group

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW

Headline: When "Doing it All" Still Feels Like Falling Behind The Burden of Being "The Best" To the world, you have it together. You are the high-achiever, the reliable one, the one who doesn't miss a detail. But internally, the "inner critic" is never satisfied. Whether it’s at work, in your relationships, or in your own self-image, you feel like you are one mistake away from being "exposed." This relentless drive for perfection isn't just a habit—it’s a survival strategy that has left you burnt out and disconnected. My Approach: From Performance to Presence In my private-pay practice, we don't just "talk" about your stress. We work to dismantle the rigid rules that keep you stuck. I help high-achieving perfectionists move from a life of constant performance to one of authentic presence. Using an integrated approach, we will: Neutralize the Inner Critic: Learn to hear the perfectionist voice without letting it drive your decisions. Embrace "Good Enough": Build the psychological flexibility to prioritize your well-being over an impossible standard. Reconnect with Values: Pivot your energy away from external validation and toward the things that actually bring you fulfillment.

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20 Years Experience

Online in Portugal, United Kingdom, Illinois (Online Only)

Perfectionism

Paulina Birgiolaite

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW, LCSW, CMNCS

Perfectionism often presents as high standards, but underneath it is fear, pressure, and self-criticism. I specialize in helping clients understand the roots of perfectionism and how it contributes to anxiety, burnout, and avoidance. Using structured, evidence-based approaches, we work on developing more flexible thinking and healthier ways of striving.

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8 Years Experience

Online in Illinois (Online Only)

Perfectionism

Stephanie Kaufman Wolken

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW

Stephanie is passionate about providing evidence-based treatments including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Exposure & Response Prevention (ERP) and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) for older adolescents, young adults and adults with OCD, depression, anxiety and related disorders. Stephanie received her Masters in Social Work from the University of Chicago School of Social Service Administration, one of the top training institutions in the field of social work. Prior to that, she graduated cum laude from Northwestern University with a double major in Psychology and Science in Human Culture. Stephanie has provided individualized treatment across outpatient and school settings, serving patients of all ages. Additionally, she gained extensive training and experience providing evidence-based treatment across outpatient clinics specializing in OCD, anxiety and related disorders.

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8 Years Experience

Online in Illinois (Online Only)

Perfectionism

Mun & Mind Therapy PLLC

Psychologist

Perfectionism often develops as a way to seek approval, avoid criticism, or maintain a sense of control. While it can drive achievement, it can also lead to burnout, anxiety, shame, and difficulty feeling satisfied. For many individuals, cultural and familial expectations play a significant role in perfectionistic patterns. Therapy can help you challenge unrealistic standards, embrace self-compassion, and cultivate a healthier relationship with success and self-worth.

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2 Years Experience

Online in Iowa, PSYPACT states Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming (Online Only)

Perfectionism

Nicole Houde

Pre-Licensed Professional

I work with individuals struggling with perfectionism by helping them understand the patterns of high self-criticism, fear of mistakes, and pressure to meet unrealistic standards. Perfectionism often leads to procrastination, burnout, and difficulty feeling satisfied, even when you are doing well. In therapy, we focus on challenging rigid thinking patterns, building flexibility, and developing a more balanced and compassionate approach to achievement. I use CBT and ACT-based strategies to address unhelpful beliefs, reduce the impact of self-critical thoughts, and support you in taking action without being held back by the need to be perfect.

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1 Years Experience

In-Person in Chicago, IL 60657

Online in Illinois

Perfectionism therapists in Illinois

Brittany Statler, Intuitive Wellness Therapy Group

Paulina Birgiolaite

Stephanie Kaufman Wolken

Mun & Mind Therapy PLLC

Nicole Houde

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