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Perfectionism therapists in New York

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New York City, New York therapist: Liberation Therapy, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Liberation Therapy

Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
Perfectionism is often driven by fear, shame, and a belief that you are only worthy if you do things perfectly. Together we work on understanding the roots of perfectionism, reducing the anxiety around mistakes, and helping you build a life that is more flexible, creative, and humane.  
5 Years Experience
Online in New York (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Michael Brustein, psychologist
Perfectionism

Michael Brustein

Psychologist, Psy.D
I have spent an extensive amount of time researching, writing and working with patients with perfectionism. I am aware and address the many challenges perfectionists face when entering therapy. In general, perfectionists may be prone to terminating therapy prematurely. For example, a self-oriented perfectionist may interpret seeking help as though they are flawed and end the relationships quickly. Socially oriented perfectionists may want to please their therapist and thus not reveal thoughts and feelings and feel dissatisfied with the therapy process. By discussing the therapy relationship and monitoring thoughts and feelings throughout the process premature termination can be avoided. Through the therapy relationship perfectionists may also develop and internalize new coping skills to manage expectations. For example, new relationship experiences that occur in the therapy relationship (ex: expressing needs or being vulnerable) may generalize to other social settings. Other oriented perfectionists who can learn to accept the imperfections of their therapist can learn to possibly be more tolerant of others. I also work with perfectionist patients on learning to manage anxiety regarding expectations and teach self-acceptance and compassion skills using mindfulness and Buddhist influenced interventions. I also help perfectionists identify and manage maladaptive cognitions and patterns that lead to distress. I help perfectionists develop more balanced thinking. I help teach self-oriented perfectionists how to set boundaries and say “no” to others. Many perfectionists, particularly self-oriented perfectionists are reluctant to let go of expectations fearing this will impair performance. Managing perfectionism however, does not necessarily mean desiring less, but changing one’s relationship and response to when expectations are not met.  
22 Years Experience
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Deer Park, New York therapist: Carmen Ceballos, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Carmen Ceballos

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R
We provide therapy for perfectionism to support working women who feel stuck in cycles of self-pressure, overworking, and never feeling “good enough.” Perfectionism often shows up as fear of making mistakes, constant self-criticism, difficulty slowing down, and tying your worth to productivity or achievement. Using evidence-based approaches, we help you challenge rigid standards, shift unhelpful thought patterns, and develop a more balanced, sustainable way of approaching your goals. Together, we focus on building self-compassion, setting realistic expectations, and helping you move forward with confidence—without the constant pressure to be perfect.  
22 Years Experience
Online in New York (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Taylor Lee, pre-licensed professional
Perfectionism

Taylor Lee

Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP, Ed.M., M.A.
I specialize in working with clients struggling with perfectionism, especially those who feel driven by self-criticism, fear of mistakes, or pressure to meet high expectations. Many of my clients have spent years holding themselves to rigid standards or tying their worth to achievement. Together, we explore the roots of these patterns, soften harsh inner dialogue, and build a more compassionate, flexible way of relating to yourself.  
2 Years Experience
Online in New York (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Jamilet Calderon, licensed mental health counselor
Perfectionism

Jamilet Calderon

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-D
We will work collaboratively to quiet the constant need to "have it all together" and replace relentless self-criticism with self-compassion and realistic growth.  
14 Years Experience
Online in Connecticut, New York (Online Only)

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