Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Brookhaven-Amesbury, Ontario ON, Canada CA
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Victoria Lorient-Faibish
Registered Psychotherapist, MEd, RP, CCC, RPE
My second book Connecting: Rewire Your Relationship-Culture is devoted to all things "relationship". I find that couples become unhappy in their relationships often not because of the big things like infidelity... it is all about the accumulations of little things that over time simply destroy the relationship.
We tackle the "pre-marital" checklist to ensure that their relationship-culture remains healthy. I think this work is essential since, in my experience, so many couples end up in couples’ therapy because they did not do this kind of due diligence early on. Getting real about why you chose this person, what your inner motivations are and what your family-culture influences may be are so important to ensure a successful marriage and relationship-culture.
When one enters the realm of long-term relationships and marriage, it seems that despite good intentions to not be influenced by their family of origin’s dysfunction, the autopilot “marriage personality” seems to crop up.
We work with how to fight fairly, how to communicate when triggered, micro aggressions and the the Gottman "turning away versus turning towards" principles that left unchecked will deteriorate the foundation of the relationship.
We tackle Relationship Rescue 911 when the relationship is in crisis and unpack Gottman's four horseman of destruction of a relationship and the way out of those patterns. (Dr. Gottman named four negative behavior patterns that can predict divorce. He called these destructive patterns “The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse.” ,
• Criticism: Passing judgments. Nitpicking. Constantly finding fault in the other person. Using “you” sentences; for example, “You need to go on a diet” or “You dress like a child.” Using the words “always” and “never” in sentences describing your partner; for example, “You always think only about yourself,” “You never do things the right way” or “You never do anything for me.”
• Contempt: Feeling that the other person is inferior to you. Feeling that you are superior to the other person. Having no respect for the other person. Feeling disgusted with the other person; for example, saying, “What’s wrong with you?” “You’re disgusting!” “I can’t believe I’m even with you.”
• Defensiveness: The communication is coming from a perceived feeling of an attack. Feeling like the victim in the dynamics. Feeling as though you have to constantly protect yourself. The communication comes off as angry, corrective, protective; for example, “It’s not my fault that we don’t communicate well.”
• Stonewalling: Completely shutting the other person out. No longer interacting with the other person. Emotionally amputating the other person. Ignoring them. Behaving as though the other person does not exist. Freezing the other person out as a punishment for not doing what you want them to do or behaving the way you want them to behave.
We tackle coping with Conflict and Anger in a Healthy Way through powerful communication techniques including "Initiate and Reflect".
32 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Courtney Mann
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MACP
All relationships require effort. Therapy can be an effective tool to help you break painful patterns in your relationships. By finding new ways of connecting and practicing effective communication we can strengthen your relationship and make it more fulfilling.
6 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Kayla Schofield
Registered Psychotherapist, RP
Healthy relationships and marriage take work. Each person needs to feel seen and heard. What may work for one couple may not work for another. It's important to learn about each other and create a relationship that works for both fo you.
4 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Sarah Butterworth
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Psychotherapist
Reaching out to a couples therapist can be uncomfortable... but living out the same issues day in and day out is probably more so! I help individuals and couples heal and repair relationship issues using the Gottman Method approach. Couples often appreciate my warm and non-judgmental approach to this work. Couples counselling is not about figuring out 'who is right' but about figuring how to move relationships to a place of greater harmony, peace, and enjoyment together. I offer a free initial consult call.
4 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Riki Stopnicki
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
I provide help for individuals seeking to improve their relationship. I have a special interest in helping adults with ADHD navigate and improve common relationship challenges that come up with this disorder.
1 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Life in Harmony Counselling Services
Counsellor/Therapist
Couples therapy can be beneficial at any point in your relationship journey. Whether you're experiencing relationship difficulties or seeking to enhance your relationship further, there are always opportunities to strengthen your bond. By learning to communicate effectively, fostering trust, and receiving healthy guidance, your relationship can flourish.
We encourage you to take a proactive approach to your relationship by investing in it before it encounters severe problems. Building a strong and lasting relationship requires conscious effort and a willingness to prioritize your relationship's growth.
21 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Jane Husak
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, YTT, RP, CRPO
I am a sex positive therapist. I believe relationships are a great vehicle for growth and have the potential to teach us who we truly are. I am a Gestalt trained psychotherapist and work from a relational and embodied perspective. Together we will address your goals for therapy. In order to move closer together you must understand how you are each different. How your individual behaviors have an impact on the other and visa-versa. We will address foundational communication skills, your individual comfort with vulnerability, and how you both deal with conflict. I am always thrilled to see couples create meaningful change by strengthening friendship, restoring intimacy, and living with joy!
10 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Gwen Schauerte
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, M.Ed.
When you are not sure whether to stay or go, or you want to find better ways of dealing with conflicts, talking to a professional can help. I've worked with couples for over 20 years, and trained with well-known marital therapy trainers like John Gottman and Harville Hendrix-trainers. I work with improving communication and fostering a better connection with your partner.
31 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Fran Grove-White
Registered Psychotherapist, R.P. Dip Ish, CGPA, CHTA
Over 25 years of years working with couples, Emotionally Ficus Couples Therapy (EFT) and my own personal experience helps cut to the chase and assist couples in the recreation of safety and close bonds.
31 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
David Rockman
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW RSW BA psych hon
Are you and your partner struggling to communicate effectively? Do you find yourselves in constant conflict and unable to resolve issues? As a Relationship, Marital and Family therapist specializing in monogamous, open and poly relationships, I use the Imago Therapeutic approach to help couples navigate their differences and strengthen their connection. Through safe and structured sessions, we work on building non-reactive communication skills and cultivating empathy for one another. By identifying your relationship's hot spots and learning how to transform reactivity, we can find solutions to your challenges and foster a healthier, more fulfilling partnership. Communication is key in any relationship and learning how to effectively express your needs and emotions can make a world of difference. By practicing active listening, empathy and vulnerability, couples can create a strong foundation of trust and understanding, leading to a more fulfilling and satisfying partnership.
If you are ready to invest in your relationship and take it to the net level, I am here to help. Let's work together to create a stronger, more loving bond that will stand the test of time.
30 Years Experience