Infidelity therapists in Eugene, OR
Browse Infidelity therapists in Eugene, Oregon. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Ingrid Sthare
Life Coach, CTLC, BCC
Let’s explore your relationship to find the root cause. Infidelity does not have to end your marriage.
15 Years Experience
Online in Eugene, OR
Roderic Burks - Integrative Mental Health
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MS, MS HSc, MA, LMHC, LPC
Infidelity can leave deep emotional wounds and shake trust in yourself and your relationships. I help clients process the emotions, patterns, and relational dynamics involved, whether you’ve been hurt or have hurt someone else. Together, we work toward healing, understanding, and making choices that align with your values and emotional well-being.
26 Years Experience
Online in Eugene, OR (Online Only)
Chuck Chapman
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Infidelity creates a rupture that changes everything. Whether you were the one who stepped outside the relationship or the one who discovered the betrayal, the impact is profound. Trust is shaken, identity is questioned, and the future suddenly feels uncertain. Many men feel overwhelmed by guilt, shame, anger, confusion, or the fear that they have destroyed something that mattered. Others feel blindsided, devastated, and unsure how to make sense of what happened or how to move forward. Infidelity is not just about the act—it is about the loneliness, unmet needs, emotional disconnection, and silent suffering that often existed long before.
My work in this area is grounded in honesty, compassion, and slow, steady repair. We begin by understanding what was happening before the infidelity—what was missing, what was avoided, what went unspoken, and what pain or patterns were already living beneath the surface. For the partner who betrayed, we work with accountability that is rooted in courage, not self-condemnation. For the partner who was betrayed, we create space to grieve, express anger, and rebuild a sense of personal safety and self-worth. The goal is not to erase what happened or rush toward a false sense of forgiveness. The goal is to understand, heal, and make choices with clarity and integrity.
Healing from infidelity is possible, but it requires presence. It requires being willing to face the pain instead of running from it. Whether the relationship continues or not, this work is about helping you reclaim your voice, your truth, and your capacity to love—yourself and others—with greater depth and honesty. You do not have to navigate this alone. We walk this slowly, together.
16 Years Experience
Online in Eugene, OR (Online Only)
Amber McKinney-Morgan
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LICSW
Recovering from infidelity can feel disorienting and painful, whether you’re the one who was hurt or the one who caused harm. I work with individuals and couples to process the rupture, understand contributing factors, and rebuild trust—if that is the goal. Our work is structured, compassionate, and focused on creating clarity, accountability, and healing.
8 Years Experience
Online in Eugene, OR (Online Only)
Dr. Shelby Kittinger
Psychologist, PsyD
I help partners and individuals process the pain and disorientation that follow betrayal or broken trust. Using an attachment and emotionally focused lens, we work to understand underlying needs, restore safety, and rebuild (or redefine) connection with honesty and care.
10 Years Experience
Online in Eugene, OR (Online Only)
Eugene is home to the University of Oregon and has a strong progressive, arts-driven identity, with a notably high density of therapists relative to its population and a community that generally holds therapy in high regard. The city's significant homelessness crisis, economic inequality, and substance use challenges sit in some tension with its progressive reputation, and therapists in Eugene often work across the full spectrum of economic circumstance. Lane County Behavioral Health provides publicly funded services, while a robust private therapy sector caters to university faculty, students, healthcare workers, and the outdoor recreation and arts communities. Common therapy concerns include anxiety, depression, trauma, identity and life transitions, and the stresses of living in a city grappling openly with housing insecurity and addiction alongside an otherwise strong quality of life.
Infidelity therapists in Eugene, OR Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Eugene, OR average 14 years of experience and charge around $184 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (52%), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (35%), and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (30%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$184
Accept insurance
26%
Offer sliding scale
39%
Gender ID
| 58% |
Female |
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| 42% |
Male |
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Session Type
| 65% |
Online Only |
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| 35% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 52% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 35% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 30% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 30% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 30% | Integrative Therapy |
| 30% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
| 30% | Somatic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 78% | Senior |
| 74% | Young Adult |
| 22% | Teen |
| 13% | Children |
Client Focus
| 78% | Men |
| 78% | Women |
| 74% | LGBTQ+ |
| 57% | Christian |
| 57% | Military / Veterans |