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Portland, Oregon therapist: Lesley Lacny, licensed professional counselor
Perfectionism

Lesley Lacny

Licensed Professional Counselor, M.A, Psych.R, C.Psych, LPC
Perfectionism can look like high achievement on the outside while feeling like pressure, self-criticism, and never quite feeling enough on the inside. It often leads to anxiety, burnout, procrastination, and difficulty enjoying success or feeling satisfied. I can help you explore the deeper patterns underneath perfectionism, such as fear of failure, approval-seeking, and harsh inner standards, while also understanding how these show up in your thoughts, emotions, and nervous system. Together, we work to soften rigid patterns, build self-compassion, and develop more flexible, sustainable ways of relating to yourself and your goals, so you can feel more grounded, present, and at ease in your life.  
20 Years Experience
Online in Oregon (Online Only)
Happy Valley, Oregon therapist: Mountain Crest Counseling Services, LLC, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Mountain Crest Counseling Services, LLC

Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LCSW, and Register Associates
When “good enough” never feels good enough, perfectionism can turn everyday life into a constant pursuit of doing more, achieving more, and avoiding mistakes. What may look like high standards can sometimes come with anxiety, self-criticism, procrastination, burnout, or a persistent fear of falling short. Therapy provides a supportive, judgment-free space to understand where these patterns come from and how they may be affecting your life. Outpatient therapy can help you challenge unrealistic expectations, quiet the inner critic, manage anxiety, build self-compassion, and develop a healthier relationship with achievement and mistakes. Together, we can work toward greater flexibility, confidence, and balance—so your sense of worth doesn’t depend on getting everything exactly right.  
12 Years Experience
In-Person in Happy Valley, OR 97086
In-Person in Sherwood, OR 97140
Online in Oregon
Lake Oswego, Oregon therapist: Dr. Michael Marossy, psychologist
Perfectionism

Dr. Michael Marossy

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Perfectionism often involves far more than simply having high standards. Many individuals struggling with perfectionism experience chronic self-criticism, fear of failure, anxiety, procrastination, emotional burnout, shame, difficulty relaxing, or a persistent feeling that they are never “good enough” regardless of achievement or external success. I help clients better understand the emotional and relational roots of perfectionistic patterns while developing greater self-compassion, psychological flexibility, and a healthier relationship with achievement, performance, and self-worth. Therapy focuses on reducing rigid thinking and chronic pressure while helping clients build more balanced, meaningful, and emotionally sustainable ways of living.  
8 Years Experience
In-Person in Lake Oswego, OR 97035
Online in California, Oregon
Salem, Oregon therapist: Kaijah Bjorklund, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Kaijah Bjorklund

Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LMHC
Perfectionism isn't about caring too much about quality — it's usually about fear. Fear of failure, of judgment, of being exposed as not enough. It often began as a smart survival strategy in an environment where mistakes felt dangerous. But somewhere along the way, the inner critic that helped you stay safe started running the show, and now nothing you do ever quite feels like enough. I work with perfectionism through IFS — getting to know the parts that drive it with curiosity and compassion, rather than just trying to think your way out of patterns that live much deeper than thought.  
12 Years Experience
Online in Multiple States Florida, Georgia, New Jersey, Oregon, Washington (Online Only)
West Linn, Oregon therapist: Rose Snyder, EdM, PsyD, LLC, psychologist
Perfectionism

Rose Snyder, EdM, PsyD, LLC

Psychologist, PsyD
I generally view myself as a "recovering perfectionist" and would be happy to support you in your journey with this as well! I find that empathy and validation go a long way with this, as well as a focus on radical self-acceptance and self-compassion. We may work on direct coping skills, adjusting your internal self-dialogue, and developing mindful self-compassion skills in a more formalized way as needed. I strive for all of my clients to accept themselves as "perfectly imperfect humans," as we all are.  
23 Years Experience
In-Person in West Linn, OR 97068
Online in California, New York, Oregon

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