We are expecting children and teenagers to cope with and adjust to a a number of teenagers.  One main issue is the pandemic and Coronavirus.  They have had to deal with remote learning and then all of a sudden they are expected to go back to school.  In addition to the changes in school many teenagers are dealing with the deaths of parents, grandparents and other people close to them.  In addition they were locked in their houses for a year without being able to see friends.  This is a lot for children and teenagers to adjust to.

Now we are starting to reopen the Country and children and teenagers again have to cope with mass shootings again.  Therefore, they are dealing with more people dying and afraid that they may be killed too.  As of today, June 13th, there have been 270 Nass shootings.  This is a significant increase from 2019.  We have experienced a 65% increase in Nass shootings since 2019 and the year is only half over (Gun Violence Archive).

Teenagers and children are also seeing a tremendous increase in violence in our Country.  Hate crimes against Asian Americans have increased significantly and so have hate crimes against people who are Jewish (CDC).  In addition there is violence occurring around people having to wear face masks in certain situation.  A flight attendant on Southwest Airlines had her front teeth punched out of her mouth by a passenger because she asked him to wear a masks.  Besides people arguing about face masks, they are arguing about the Coronavirus vaccinations which ever Public Health Professional states we need to overcome this pandemic.  However, we are hearing people purpose crazy ideas such as the vaccinations will make you magnetic and Bill Gates has placed mico chips in the vaccines.  The pandemic is scary enough without people making up insane conspiracies that may scare children.

Add to these issues such things as the violent attack on the US Capital Building and we have children and teenagers living in a chaotic environment.  To add to the pressure we are expecting children and teenagers to simply adjust to all the chaos.  We expect them to ignore it and go on like nothing has changed.  Children and teenagers are expected to be able to achieve at school and not act out due to the chaos in their lives.

It’s not realistic and it’s not happening.  There is a significant increase in the number of teenagers and children reporting anxiety disorders and depression.  Additionally, we have seen an increase in the number of teenagers committing suicide and dying from drug overdoses.  Teenagers and children are desperately looking for a peaceful environment.  In my office we have seen an increase by a factor of 20 of teenagers and children seeking therapy due to the chaos.  We must provide teenagers and children with mental health care and sane gun laws to help them cope with this chaos they are experiencing.

I have included a link to an article which provides suggestions parents can try to help their children and teenagers cope with the chaos we are living in currently. https://www.kqed.org/mindshift/57946/striving-or-thriving-steps-to-help-kids-find-balance-and-purpose.

Dr. Michael Rubino is a psychotherapist with over 20 years experience treating children and teenagers and trauma victims.  For more information regarding his work visit his website www.RubinoCounseling.com or his Facebook page at www.Facebook.com/drrubino3 or his podcasts on Spotify or Apple.​