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Online Codependency therapists in Costa Mesa, CA

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San Diego, California therapist: Melissa Quinn Pollock, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Melissa Quinn Pollock

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Codependent relationships may look harmonious, but often feel anything but peaceful to be partnered in. If you are struggling with codependent feelings, and want to understand them more from a holistic standpoint as well as bbut needy toward your own life, I can help.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
San Francisco, California therapist: Ryan James Carroll, therapist
Codependency

Ryan James Carroll

Therapist, AMFT, APCC
We explore the patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, and enmeshment that keep codependency alive. Through parts work and emotional processing, I support you in reclaiming independence while building healthier, more fulfilling connections.  
3 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
Morris, Illinois therapist: Alicia Stalker-Gallichio LMFT, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Alicia Stalker-Gallichio LMFT

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
If you find yourself constantly prioritizing others' needs over your own, feeling responsible for other people's emotions or struggling to establish healthy boundaries, you are not alone. Codependency therapy is designed to help you break free from these patterns and cultivate a healthier more balanced approach to relationships.  
21 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
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Encino, California therapist: Sam Naimi, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Sam Naimi

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
Codependency, also known as unconscious accommodation, develops when we maintain important connections that require us to set aside our own needs or inner world to feel safe and still connected. Over time, this can lead to chronic self-sacrifice and uncertainty about where you end and others begin. In psychoanalytic work, we explore how these patterns took shape and what parts of you were set aside to preserve closeness. As this becomes clearer, many people begin to reclaim a stronger sense of inner authority and move toward relationships that allow for mutuality rather than self-erasure.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
Claremont, California therapist: Matthew Kijak, LCSW, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Matthew Kijak, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Codependency can be like a heavy burden, pulling us down and clouding our vision. But, together, we can learn to navigate our relationships and find balance. As a therapist, my goal is to be a compassionate guide on your journey towards understanding and transcending patterns of codependency. Together, we will explore the underlying causes of your behaviors, and develop effective strategies for healthy communication and boundaries. We'll use mindfulness and cognitive-behavioral therapy techniques to help you understand the impact of your actions on others, and work towards advocating for your own needs in social situations. My guidance will be gentle and understanding, as we work towards a brighter future, with healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Let's start this journey together, and take the first step towards inner peace and self-discovery.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: David Gumpert, psychologist
Codependency

David Gumpert

Psychologist, PsyD
Codependency is much more than spending a lot of time with someone else. It is being tangled up together like 2 sets of stringed lights and when one tries to pull away to do something independently, the other feels threatened, upset, abandoned, or a variety of other experiences. These are often rooted in a childhood where healthy boundaries were not modeled.  
5 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
San Diego, California therapist: Ross Kellogg, LMFT, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Ross Kellogg, LMFT

Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Codependents often report exhaustion and identity fusion (also called fragmentation). I have extensive experience and training to address codependent compulsions and help you find a consistent and confident sense of self.  
12 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
Carlsbad, California therapist: Jennifer Pudlo Therapy & Wellness Consulting, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Jennifer Pudlo Therapy & Wellness Consulting

Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Codependency often develops from a deep desire to care for others, yet it can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, disconnected from your own needs, and unsure of who you are outside of your relationships. Together, we'll explore the experiences and patterns that have shaped these dynamics, helping you develop healthier boundaries, greater self-awareness, and stronger self-worth. My goal is to empower you to build relationships that are balanced, authentic, and rooted in mutual respect rather than guilt, fear, or the need to please others.  
16 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
Brooklyn, New York therapist: Greta Klaber, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Greta Klaber

Marriage and Family Therapist, Ma, LMFT
When working with codependency, I often start by helping clients shift their attention inward—especially if they’ve spent much of their lives attuned to others' needs at the expense of their own. Codependent patterns can make it hard to locate a sense of self, to understand boundaries, or even to recognize one’s own desires and emotional cues. In our work, we slow down and begin to rebuild that connection to your internal experience. Through somatic awareness, parts work, and a focus on early relational dynamics, we explore how these patterns developed and gently begin to create space for a more grounded, self-connected way of relating to yourself and others.  
9 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
Raleigh, North Carolina therapist: Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCMHC, LCAS
Helping clients develop healthier boundaries and more balanced, fulfilling relationships.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Dr. Christina Charlotin, psychologist
Codependency

Dr. Christina Charlotin

Psychologist, Psy.D.
Challenges related to codependency both in the context of being in a relationship or single.  
14 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: Julie Anderson, psychologist
Codependency

Julie Anderson

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency can leave you feeling depleted and insecure and I can assist you in understanding its roots while also helping you learn to create more balance in caring for others and yourself.  
26 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
Westlake Village, California therapist: Sloane Fabricius, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Sloane Fabricius

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.  
29 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
Oceanside, California therapist: Jeanette Abney, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Jeanette Abney

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
I have many years of assisting individuals identify and reduce codependency issues.  
27 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: California Center for Change, psychologist
Codependency

California Center for Change

Psychologist, PhD
When someone you love is struggling with addiction, it is easy to lose yourself in the effort to help them. You may find yourself managing their crises, making excuses for their behavior, or putting your own needs so far aside that you can no longer remember what they were. Codependency is not a character flaw. It is a learned pattern and it can change. We work with partners, parents, and family members to help them set healthier boundaries, rebuild their own sense of self, and find more effective ways to support their loved one without sacrificing their own wellbeing in the process.  
17 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
Berkeley, California therapist: Kim Christine Stevens, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Kim Christine Stevens

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Love helping my clients work through and heal codependency issues, including developing excellent boundaries and finding more self empowerment.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
Berkeley, California therapist: Rebecca Rothberg, psychologist
Codependency

Rebecca Rothberg

Psychologist, Psy.D., M.A., R.Y.T.
I specialize in helping clients recognize their own voice, understand interpersonal dynamics keeping them stuck, and differentiate within close relationships in which they may feel themselves getting "lost."  
9 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Julie Levin, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Julie Levin

Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
When a family member struggles with addiction, mental illness, cognitive deficits or developmental differences, it’s normal to want to help. Codependency arises when we try to control the situation or the other person through care-taking. This happens a lot when the other person has impulse control or anger problems. We learn to overfunction and become hyper-responsible to compensate and make life a little more stable. Together we can look at new ways to find stability and ease so you don’t have to continue placating and people-pleasing. We can explore the boundaries that would give you true control - not trying to change the other person or get them to understand, but to decide what you will and won’t do, and then staying true to yourself.  
27 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
Nashville, Tennessee therapist: Emily St. Amant, licensed professional counselor
Codependency

Emily St. Amant

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-MHSP-S (TN), LPCC (CA)
I enjoy working with people who have codependency, people-pleasing tendencies, as well as people who experience the fawning response to stress and abuse.  
18 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
Campbell, California therapist: Elizabeth Essner, LCSW, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Elizabeth Essner, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
The relationship between the therapist and the client is the most important factor in providing "successful" therapy. I provide a safe, nonjudgmental environment where you can explore codependency issues. Likely you are experiencing pain that you want to end. I can help you gain freedom from the cycle of codependency.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA

Codependency therapists in Costa Mesa, California Statistics

Codependency therapists in Costa Mesa, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (81%).

Average years in practice

14 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$205

Gender ID

69% Female
25% Male
3% Non-Binary
3% Gender Fluid

Session Type

65% In Person and Online
35% Online Only

Top Specialties

100% Codependency
88% Anxiety or Fears
81% Depression
76% Trauma and PTSD
71% Stress
71% Self Esteem
61% Loss or Grief

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