Online Self Esteem therapists in Goleta, California CA
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Self Esteem
Saralee Kramer Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Self esteem is a term often tossed around, but what does it mean? It's learning to take excellent care of ourselves physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually so we can share with our friends and family from our overflow, instead of being selfish and needy. It's the job of adults to take care of ourselves first, so we can take care of others. Sometimes people were raised in families that were very stressed and their was trauma that got in the way of this learning. That's ok. I can help. Learning how to take care of your adult self isn't that difficult and doesn't take much time. Then you just practice and grow.
26 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Chris 'Bucky' Bateman
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Low self-esteem quietly shapes everything, how we show up in relationships, how we handle conflict, how we talk to ourselves when things go wrong. Therapy helps you understand where those patterns came from and begin replacing them with something healthier. We work with clients to build genuine confidence rooted in self-awareness, self-compassion, and a clearer sense of who they are.
21 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Higher Sights Counseling
Counselor/Therapist
We have a staff of psychotherapists and med prescribers that work with clients who have self esteem struggles. We offer CBT, DBT, EMDR, IFS (to name a few treatment modalities) and medication in addition to many problem-solving therapies to help you learn new coping skills to improve your life.
16 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Brooke Taylor
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT
Struggling with low self-esteem can make you feel unworthy, insecure, and disconnected from your true potential. If you're constantly doubting your value or comparing yourself to others, it can be hard to break free from the cycle of self-criticism. In our work together, I’ll help you explore the root causes of your low self-esteem, challenge negative beliefs, and develop a more compassionate, empowered relationship with yourself. Through support and practical tools, you’ll learn how to embrace your strengths, set healthy boundaries, and cultivate the confidence you deserve. You are worthy of love, respect, and success, and I’m here to guide you on your journey toward self-acceptance.
5 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Marcelle Little
Marriage and Family Therapist, MPH, MA
According to research, self-compassion is a considered a better marker for how we view ourselves in relation to the world. Through this framework, I guide you on practices to enhance inner compassion.
9 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Hannah Nyznyk Christian
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT #133278
We support clients in rebuilding confidence and a healthier relationship with themselves. Therapy focuses on reducing self-criticism and strengthening self-worth.
7 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Eve Angela Fritsch
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A.
How you see yourself influences every part of your life. The way you have learned to see yourself over time influences the relationships you make and decisions in your life. Therapy can help you understand where your self- doubt began, challenge the beliefs that no longer serve you, and develop a healthier relationship with yourself.
9 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Karen Queller
Art Therapist, M.A Expressive Arts Therapy
Reconnect with the you that is already there. Explore your strengths, and lean into self-compassion, so you can embrace all of who you are.
7 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D
Psychologist, Clinical Psychologist, Certified in Holistic Health
I can help support improving self esteem with CBT techniques and behavior and lifestyle changes.
17 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Dorit Saberi-Thrive Psychological Services
Psychologist, Ph.D, Diplomate-Academy of Cognitive Therapy; Trainer- Prolonged Exposure for PTSD- CTSA
Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy informed therapy
24 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Patricia Fahmy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
The way you see yourself can have a powerful impact on your relationships. When self-worth has been shaped by criticism, rejection, inconsistency, trauma, or difficult relationship experiences, it can become harder to trust yourself, express your needs, set boundaries, or feel secure in your connections with others. You may find yourself people-pleasing, seeking validation, staying in unhealthy relationships, questioning your worth, or feeling like you are never quite enough. I help you understand the experiences that shaped these patterns, develop a stronger sense of self, and build healthier relationships rooted in authenticity, self-respect, and connection.
7 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
New Beginnings Counseling Center (NBCC)
Pre-Licensed Professional
We support youth and adults facing self-esteem difficulties in their lives and relationships.
66 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
New Beginnings Christian Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Low self-esteem can make you feel unworthy, insecure, or constantly second-guessing yourself. Often, it develops from early experiences, criticism, or unrealistic expectations. In therapy, we help clients uncover the root of these beliefs, challenge negative self-talk, and build a stronger, healthier sense of self. Through evidence-based strategies and Christ-centered guidance, you’ll learn to embrace your inherent worth, develop self-compassion, and step into life with confidence, clarity, and emotional resilience.
15 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Lois Lorback
Hypnotherapist, CCHt
Together we will get to the cause of low self-esteem and re-frame the negative thought patterns to positive ones.
12 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Mia Turner
Therapist, MA, RYT, ASDCS, LMFT, NPT-C, CMNCS, CMIP
Self-esteem is often shaped by far more than confidence alone. It can be deeply influenced by trauma, marginalization, neurodivergence, family messages, culture, ableism, racism, and experiences of feeling unseen, misunderstood, or not enough.
I support in exploring the stories you have inherited or internalized about your worth and begin cultivating a more compassionate, authentic, and grounded relationship with yourself. Our work centers self-trust, self-acceptance, and reconnecting with strengths, values, and identities that may have been obscured beneath years of criticism, survival, or adaptation.
10 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Stephanie Morfitt, LCSW More Fit Mental Health
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
When You Feel “Not Enough”
You may look like you have it all together — capable, caring, successful — yet underneath it all, you’re often questioning yourself. You replay conversations, worry you’ve disappointed someone, or feel like you’re falling short no matter how hard you try. Even small mistakes can feel huge, and compliments are hard to believe. If you’re stuck in cycles of perfectionism, self-criticism, or people-pleasing, I can help you change how you relate to yourself from the inside out.
Using a structured, evidence-based approach called TEAM-CBT, we’ll uncover the beliefs that fuel low self-worth and learn how to replace them with compassion, confidence, and emotional balance. Together, we’ll work to:
Quiet the inner critic that keeps moving the goalpost
Identify and challenge distorted thoughts about your value and competence
Build emotional resilience so your mood isn’t dependent on others’ approval
Strengthen your sense of identity and confidence in your choices
Experience genuine self-respect — not the temporary kind that fades with praise or performance
You’ll gain tools you can use daily to shift from feeling “not enough” to knowing you are already whole. Therapy becomes less about “fixing yourself” and more about discovering your worth that’s been there all along.
I BELIEVE:
You can be both confident and a work in progress.
Self-compassion creates change faster than self-criticism ever will.
You deserve relationships that mirror your true worth — not your self-doubt.
Confidence is a skill you can learn, not a personality trait you either have or don’t.
Growth happens when we replace judgment with curiosity and kindness.
Also Integrated In Our Work:
• Interpersonal Work – to strengthen connection and empower you to be yourself using The 5 Secrets of Effective Communication
• Mindful Self-Compassion – to cultivate a gentler, kinder inner voice through the work of Dr. Kristin Neff
• Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) – to regulate the nervous system and support trauma recovery alongside cognitive tools for a well-rounded approach
10 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Holly Hall, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Low self-esteem can permeate every area of your life—affecting your relationships, career decisions, daily interactions, and overall sense of fulfillment. When you struggle with self-doubt, negative self-talk, or feelings of inadequacy, it becomes difficult to pursue your goals, set healthy boundaries, or believe you deserve good things.
I help clients understand and transform their relationship with themselves. Using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), we'll identify the negative thought patterns and core beliefs that undermine your self-worth—those critical inner voices that tell you you're not good enough, capable enough, or worthy enough. Together, we'll challenge these distorted beliefs and replace them with more balanced, compassionate perspectives grounded in reality. My goal is to help you develop genuine self-confidence, practice self-compassion, and recognize your inherent worth. You'll learn practical skills to quiet your inner critic, celebrate your strengths, and build a healthier, more authentic relationship with yourself.
6 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Sloane Fabricius
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.
29 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Daniel Slavin
Marriage and Family Therapist
I help clients understand and shift the inner beliefs that shape their sense of self-worth. Therapy focuses on reducing self-criticism, building self-acceptance, and developing a kinder, more confident relationship with oneself.
41 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Self Esteem
Dr. Marco Fekrat
Psychologist, Psy.D.
My primary goal is to help you connect with your inner most authentic self while helping you actualize your highest potential.
15 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Self Esteem therapists in Goleta, California Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Goleta, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Self Esteem (100%), Anxiety or Fears (89%), and Stress (75%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Gender ID
| 71% |
Female |
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| 25% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 59% |
In Person and Online |
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| 41% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 89% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 75% | Stress |
| 74% | Depression |
| 71% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 58% | Loss or Grief |
| 57% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |