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Online Codependency therapists in Oakdale, CA

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San Jose, California therapist: Growth and Change Counseling, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Growth and Change Counseling

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
When my identity becomes wrapped up in what my partner thinks about me, I find myself in the codependant position. It becomes hard for me or my partner to feel anything because our feelings are so triggering to each other. If we were both healthy my partner could have a bad day or a bad mood and I could be fine. But when I am codependent, I need my partner to be happy all the time because if they mad, sad, or bad, it means there is something wrong with me and now I am in an identity crisis. If you can relate to this, reach out to us, we can help you engage principles of relational intelligence in your life that will support your emotional stability and relational well being.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA (Online Only)
San Francisco, California therapist: Eric Olsen, life coach
Codependency

Eric Olsen

Life Coach, PTSD, Trauma Triage, BSc Social Sciences, DoD Career Councilor, SARC, DAPA, Pre Licensed Human Intelligence / Psychology, Life Coach. | Professional Support: LSSBB, PgM, Bluestone PMP,
We work through your codependency issues and behaviors and start to correct them.  
17 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA (Online Only)
Santa Rosa, California therapist: Dr. Shawn V Giammattei, psychologist
Codependency

Dr. Shawn V Giammattei

Psychologist, PhD
One can't work with addictions and not also be well versed in co-dependency. We also have over 30 years experience working in this area.  
17 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA
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Rancho Mirage, California therapist: Dennis Sapire, psychologist
Codependency

Dennis Sapire

Psychologist, JD PhD
I work with codependent clients to help them understand how their behavior achieves the opposite of the healthy outcome they desire by creating an inverse motivational structure.  
24 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Patricia Fahmy, licensed professional counselor
Codependency

Patricia Fahmy

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Codependent patterns often develop as adaptations to earlier relationships and environments where love, approval, or emotional safety felt uncertain. You may find yourself prioritizing others' needs, struggling to set boundaries, feeling responsible for other people's emotions, or losing touch with your own needs. I help you understand the origins of these patterns, build healthier boundaries, strengthen your sense of self, and create relationships that feel more balanced, secure, and fulfilling.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA (Online Only)
Lake Oswego, Oregon therapist: Dr. Michael Marossy, psychologist
Codependency

Dr. Michael Marossy

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency often develops when a person becomes overly focused on the emotional needs, approval, behaviors, or wellbeing of others while losing connection with their own needs, identity, and emotional boundaries. Many individuals struggling with codependent patterns experience chronic guilt, people-pleasing, fear of rejection, difficulty setting boundaries, emotional exhaustion, or repeated involvement in unhealthy or one-sided relationships. I help clients better understand the relational and emotional patterns underlying codependency while developing greater self-awareness, emotional autonomy, assertiveness, and healthier interpersonal boundaries. Therapy focuses on helping clients build more balanced and authentic relationships without losing their sense of self in the process.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA
Oceanside, California therapist: Jeanette Abney, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Jeanette Abney

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
I have many years of assisting individuals identify and reduce codependency issues.  
27 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Ryan James Carroll, therapist
Codependency

Ryan James Carroll

Therapist, AMFT, APCC
We explore the patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, and enmeshment that keep codependency alive. Through parts work and emotional processing, I support you in reclaiming independence while building healthier, more fulfilling connections.  
3 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA
San Ramon, California therapist: Ever After Individual and Family Therapy, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Ever After Individual and Family Therapy

Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
When relationships become imbalanced, codependency can lead to emotional exhaustion and loss of self-identity. We help clients set healthy boundaries, build self-worth, and develop relationships based on mutual respect and independence.  
17 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA (Online Only)
Murrieta, California therapist: Empowered Path Clinical Counseling, PC, licensed professional counselor
Codependency

Empowered Path Clinical Counseling, PC

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, MA, CBIF, CAMS-II, CART, LMFT, AMFT, APCC
Codependency can leave you feeling drained, resentful, or disconnected from your own needs. We work with clients to recognize unhealthy patterns, establish boundaries, and cultivate self-respect. Our supportive approach helps you strengthen your sense of self while building healthier, more balanced relationships.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: San Francisco Counseling Collective, licensed professional counselor
Codependency

San Francisco Counseling Collective

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LMFT, LCSW
At San Francisco Counseling Collective ("SFCC"), when working with codependency issues, we help clients identify relational patterns rooted in overresponsibility, difficulty with boundaries, and self-sacrifice. Together we strengthen self-awareness, autonomy, and relational balance.  
9 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: Julie Anderson, psychologist
Codependency

Julie Anderson

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency can leave you feeling depleted and insecure and I can assist you in understanding its roots while also helping you learn to create more balance in caring for others and yourself.  
26 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Melissa Quinn Pollock, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Melissa Quinn Pollock

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Codependent relationships may look harmonious, but often feel anything but peaceful to be partnered in. If you are struggling with codependent feelings, and want to understand them more from a holistic standpoint as well as bbut needy toward your own life, I can help.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA (Online Only)
Brooklyn, New York therapist: Shayda Ewalt, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Shayda Ewalt

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency often develops as a survival strategy, especially for those who grew up needing to prioritize others' emotions or safety over their own. You may struggle with boundaries, guilt, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships. In therapy, we explore where these patterns began, strengthen your sense of self, and build capacity for relationships rooted in mutual respect rather than self-abandonment.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA (Online Only)
Rancho Santa Margarita, California therapist: Morgan Pemberton, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Morgan Pemberton

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, EMDR certified
At Full Brain Family Therapy, we help you heal the roots of codependency by addressing past wounds and teaching you how to set healthy, sustainable boundaries. Through compassionate, trauma-informed therapy, you’ll build the confidence to prioritize your own well-being—without guilt.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA (Online Only)
Brooklyn, New York therapist: Greta Klaber, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Greta Klaber

Marriage and Family Therapist, Ma, LMFT
When working with codependency, I often start by helping clients shift their attention inward—especially if they’ve spent much of their lives attuned to others' needs at the expense of their own. Codependent patterns can make it hard to locate a sense of self, to understand boundaries, or even to recognize one’s own desires and emotional cues. In our work, we slow down and begin to rebuild that connection to your internal experience. Through somatic awareness, parts work, and a focus on early relational dynamics, we explore how these patterns developed and gently begin to create space for a more grounded, self-connected way of relating to yourself and others.  
9 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Su Boudreau, LMFT, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Su Boudreau, LMFT

Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Domestic Violence Counselor
Codependency is common in relationships either in a couple's or familial relationships. First finding out unhealthy codependency and acknowledging it is the initial step toward building a healthier relationship. A therapist with certification in Domestic Violence would be the best person who can help the clients with the codependency issues in their relationship.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA (Online Only)
Bethesda, Maryland therapist: Louisa Lombard, licensed professional counselor
Codependency

Louisa Lombard

Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC, LPCC, PPS
If you notice that you tend toward people-pleasing, supporting others before yourself, experience variable levels of self-esteem based on what is happening in your life and what people say to you, and setting boundaries feels really, really hard...then it is possible that you want some support around ways of showing up that are not in your best interests.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA (Online Only)
Seattle, Washington therapist: Aaron Kapin, somatic experiencing practitioner
Codependency

Aaron Kapin

Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, SEP, LMT
I use Somatic Experiencing to help you tune into your own wants and needs so you can start learning to have a clearer sense of your boundaries, as well as the strength to set them. A lot of relationships are labeled as 'codependent', but sometimes it can be more accurate to say that it's become easier for you to guess at what your partner wants than it is to know what you want. Once you get more connected to what you want, it can become easier to have those conversations with your partner, and easier to stand strong in your needs.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA (Online Only)
Lafayette, California therapist: Nes Pinar Psychotherapy, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Nes Pinar Psychotherapy

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I help clients untangle patterns of codependency by slowing down, getting curious, and reconnecting with their own needs, boundaries, and inner wisdom. Together, we explore the stories and survival strategies that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck, making space for more choice, agency, and self‑trust. My approach is warm, relational, and steady—supporting you as you practice new ways of relating that feel authentic, mutual, and sustainable.  
15 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, CA

Codependency therapists in Oakdale, California Statistics

Codependency therapists in Oakdale, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (80%).

Average years in practice

14 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$205

Gender ID

69% Female
25% Male
3% Non-Binary
3% Gender Fluid

Session Type

65% In Person and Online
35% Online Only

Top Specialties

100% Codependency
88% Anxiety or Fears
80% Depression
75% Trauma and PTSD
70% Stress
70% Self Esteem
61% Loss or Grief

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