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Online Codependency therapists in Tarzana, CA

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San Diego, California therapist: Chris 'Bucky' Bateman, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Chris 'Bucky' Bateman

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency often develops quietly over years, saying yes when you mean no, losing yourself in other people's needs, and measuring your worth by how well you take care of everyone else. Therapy helps you recognize these patterns, understand where they came from, and build a healthier relationship with yourself and others, one where your needs matter too.  
21 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
Manly, New South Wales therapist: Oksana Pueschel, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Oksana Pueschel

Marriage and Family Therapist, Grad Dip Family Counselling
Using CBT, DBT and neurofeedback  
19 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
Westlake Village, California therapist: Sloane Fabricius, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Sloane Fabricius

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.  
29 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
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Yorba Linda, California therapist: New Beginnings Christian Counseling, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

New Beginnings Christian Counseling

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Codependency often develops from early attachment wounds, trauma, or environments where love felt conditional. You may find yourself over-functioning, people-pleasing, struggling with boundaries, or tying your worth to being needed. In therapy, we gently explore the roots of these patterns and help you build a stronger, more secure sense of self. Together, we work on developing healthy boundaries, emotional regulation, and self-worth grounded in truth—not performance—so you can experience balanced, life-giving relationships rather than exhausting ones.  
15 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
Pleasanton, California therapist: Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D, psychologist
Codependency

Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D

Psychologist, Clinical Psychologist, Certified in Holistic Health
I can support learning ways to foster independence and break codependent patterns.  
17 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
West Hollywood, California therapist: Dr. Ingrid Solano, psychologist
Codependency

Dr. Ingrid Solano

Psychologist, PhD
I provide couples/family/relational therapy for adolescents and adults both in the context of their relationships as well as through relationship-focused therapy for individuals who want to improve their interpersonal lives. Our relationships impact our thoughts, our feelings, and our behaviors. Relationships can be supportive, or they can weigh us down. How our relationships impact us can be obvious to us and everyone around us, or they can be insidious and live in the pit of our stomachs-- creeping up on us as feelings we can’t put the right words to. ...and anywhere in between… It can be difficult to understand and connect how these feelings slowly change what we do and who we are. ‘Relational’ therapy with more than one client aims to help improve interactions with each other, achieve relational goals, and cultivate value and meaning together.  
15 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
San Jose, California therapist: Russell Wilkie, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Russell Wilkie

Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
Growing up in a less than nurturing environment can lead to all sorts of codependent traits, resulting in struggles with: self-esteem, self-care, boundaries, controlling others, taking care of your adult needs, perfectionism, and emotional flooding, to name a few. I am well versed in the 12-step program of codependents anonymous and the issues that are helped through attending meetings. I recommend the program, but it is not required to understand or heal the above issues.  
34 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA (Online Only)
Sacramento, California therapist: Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay, pre-licensed professional
Codependency

Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay

Pre-Licensed Professional, Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee, Professional Clinical Counselor Trainee
I support people who feel stuck in people-pleasing or codependent patterns to set healthier boundaries, understand where these patterns began, and build more balanced, reciprocal relationships.  
0 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA (Online Only)
Pasadena, California therapist: Mona Saba Valeriano, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Mona Saba Valeriano

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Many clients who grew up with parental alcoholism, chronic rage, or narcissistic or borderline traits find themselves struggling with codependency in adult relationships. Early environments shaped by volatility or emotional unpredictability can create profound anxiety in children, threatening their sense of safety and attachment. In response, many learn to prioritize maintaining connection at any cost—often at the expense of their own needs, feelings, and boundaries. Using an integrative approach that includes IFS parts work, ISTDP, and the somatic processing of EMDR and Brainspotting, I help clients rebuild their relationship with themselves—strengthening self-esteem, self-trust, and assertiveness. As clients deepen their internal security, their external relationships often shift as well. They become more able to show up authentically, tolerate conflict, and make choices aligned with their well-being rather than fear.  
18 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: David Gumpert, psychologist
Codependency

David Gumpert

Psychologist, PsyD
Codependency is much more than spending a lot of time with someone else. It is being tangled up together like 2 sets of stringed lights and when one tries to pull away to do something independently, the other feels threatened, upset, abandoned, or a variety of other experiences. These are often rooted in a childhood where healthy boundaries were not modeled.  
5 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA (Online Only)
Los Angeles, California therapist: Julie Anderson, psychologist
Codependency

Julie Anderson

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency can leave you feeling depleted and insecure and I can assist you in understanding its roots while also helping you learn to create more balance in caring for others and yourself.  
26 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
Thousand Oaks, California therapist: Kristin Robert, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Kristin Robert

Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT
I work with codependency by helping clients recognize patterns of overfunctioning, people pleasing, and self-neglect that often develop in response to relational or emotional instability. Therapy focuses on strengthening boundaries, increasing self-trust, and supporting more reciprocal, balanced relationships.  
3 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
Campbell, California therapist: Robin Bates-Pualuan, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Robin Bates-Pualuan

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Do you find it difficult to say no? Do you always put the needs of others ahead of your own? Do you feel selfish when you take care of yourself? While many people who answer yes to these questions have a generous heart, they can end up feeling used up, taken advantage of, and burned out. Therapy can be a great place to learn to understand the importance of your own needs and how to meet them in a way that's self-nourishing, not selfish.  
14 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
Bethesda, Maryland therapist: Louisa Lombard, licensed professional counselor
Codependency

Louisa Lombard

Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC, LPCC, PPS
If you notice that you tend toward people-pleasing, supporting others before yourself, experience variable levels of self-esteem based on what is happening in your life and what people say to you, and setting boundaries feels really, really hard...then it is possible that you want some support around ways of showing up that are not in your best interests.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA (Online Only)
Newport Beach, California therapist: Emma Esper, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Emma Esper

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Codependency is an emotional and behavioral condition, often learned from our families-of-origin. We will work on increasing boundary setting, increasing self-worth, and processing feelings of guilt and shame that arise from making yourself a priority.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
West Linn, Oregon therapist: Rose Snyder, EdM, PsyD, LLC, psychologist
Codependency

Rose Snyder, EdM, PsyD, LLC

Psychologist, PsyD
Many of my clients find themselves in codependent relationships as a result of their lifelong attachment styles. Together we will look at these patterns and I will support you in gently shifting these patterns away from codependence towards effective interdependence. It is not about learning to be totally self-reliant either—it is more about having a secure attachment within yourself as a primary source of stability, and then reaching out for connection with others from a whole/healthy place. We are social creatures and we need one another, but we feel better when we can relate with others from a place of sturdiness as much as possible too. From that place, we can ask for our needs to be met and connection to be fulfilled, knowing deeply that we have the right to ask and deserve to be attuned to and met by those closest to us. And we can also learn to self-soothe in the moments that that is not available or possible with our loved ones.  
23 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
La Cañada Flintridge, California therapist: Ben Leddick, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Ben Leddick

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency can impact your sense of self as this often leads to a need for others to be okay and successful for your personal sense of stability. Through our work you will learn the gift of self regulation and the importance of having your feelings and experiences while allowing others their feelings.  
3 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA
Aptos, California therapist: Laurie Moore, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Laurie Moore

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, PhD, IFS, Certified Hypnotherapist, EMDR, Cyclical Pain Repatterning, Somatic, Expressive Arts
Co-dependency can feel like a snarly unhappy mess! Finding new ways to relate to your own feelings and thoughts will help you to form healthier bonds. Insight and guidance on how to arrive there will be given. You can be free of all this pain!  
27 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA (Online Only)
San Jose, California therapist: Growth and Change Counseling, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Growth and Change Counseling

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
When my identity becomes wrapped up in what my partner thinks about me, I find myself in the codependant position. It becomes hard for me or my partner to feel anything because our feelings are so triggering to each other. If we were both healthy my partner could have a bad day or a bad mood and I could be fine. But when I am codependent, I need my partner to be happy all the time because if they mad, sad, or bad, it means there is something wrong with me and now I am in an identity crisis. If you can relate to this, reach out to us, we can help you engage principles of relational intelligence in your life that will support your emotional stability and relational well being.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA (Online Only)
San Diego, California therapist: Su Boudreau, LMFT, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Su Boudreau, LMFT

Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Domestic Violence Counselor
Codependency is common in relationships either in a couple's or familial relationships. First finding out unhealthy codependency and acknowledging it is the initial step toward building a healthier relationship. A therapist with certification in Domestic Violence would be the best person who can help the clients with the codependency issues in their relationship.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Tarzana, CA (Online Only)

Codependency therapists in Tarzana, California Statistics

Codependency therapists in Tarzana, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (81%).

Average years in practice

14 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$205

Gender ID

69% Female
25% Male
3% Gender Fluid
3% Non-Binary

Session Type

65% In Person and Online
35% Online Only

Top Specialties

100% Codependency
88% Anxiety or Fears
81% Depression
76% Trauma and PTSD
71% Stress
71% Self Esteem
61% Loss or Grief

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