Online Codependency therapists in Middletown, Connecticut CT
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Jackie Roe
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I support clients in understanding relationship patterns that lead to people-pleasing and emotional burnout. Therapy focuses on developing assertiveness, emotional independence, and tools for building healthier connections.
8 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT (Online Only)
City Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Our clinicians work with individuals experiencing codependent relationship patterns using a trauma-informed, evidence-based approach. Treatment may address boundaries, attachment wounds, self-worth, emotional regulation, and co-occurring anxiety or depression. Care is individualized and collaborative.
2 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT
MJB Wellness LLC
Hypnotherapist, Certified Hypnotherapist and Coach, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Sex Educator, Certified Reiki
So many of my clients, no matter what issue they initially come in for, have issues related to setting boundaries, communicating with their partners, and consent. I find that before doing any other work with them, I must teach them about consent, setting boundaries, and understanding relationship dynamics. In my sexuality training, I had to learn Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent, which has become the gold standard worldwide for teaching about consent. Certainly, for clients I work with around sexual issues of relationship issues, teaching the Wheel of Consent is the first step. Understanding relationship dynamics for the first time in their lives puts many clients' problems into a new perspective and often resolves their issues without having to do any other work, though we usually do just to clear any residue of past hurts and anger. We often do hypnosis focused on strengthening boundaries and building internal resources so they go forward in a stronger more positive way.
8 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with young adults and adults who have learned to orient themselves around other people’s needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of their own. This can look like being the reliable one, the steady one, the person others turn to, while privately feeling depleted, unseen, or unsure where your own preferences begin. Many people I see have spent years managing relationships, smoothing conflict, or carrying more than their share because it felt safer than disappointing someone or risking disconnection.
Codependent patterns often develop in situations where you had to stay attuned to others to keep the peace, where your worth was tied to being helpful or accommodating, or where expressing your own needs led to tension, withdrawal, or criticism. Over time, this can make it hard to trust your internal signals, set boundaries without guilt, or believe that your needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
In our work together, we look at how these patterns formed, what they have protected you from, and how they show up in your relationships today. We make space for the part of you that learned to stay small, agreeable, or over responsible in order to feel safe, and for the part of you that is tired of doing so much emotional labor. From there, we explore what it means to move through relationships with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice, without abandoning the parts of you that have worked so hard to keep things stable. Supporting people who have organized themselves around others for a long time is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how much you have carried.
26 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT
Dr. Ingrid Solano
Psychologist, PhD
I provide couples/family/relational therapy for adolescents and adults both in the context of their relationships as well as through relationship-focused therapy for individuals who want to improve their interpersonal lives. Our relationships impact our thoughts, our feelings, and our behaviors. Relationships can be supportive, or they can weigh us down. How our relationships impact us can be obvious to us and everyone around us, or they can be insidious and live in the pit of our stomachs-- creeping up on us as feelings we can’t put the right words to. ...and anywhere in between… It can be difficult to understand and connect how these feelings slowly change what we do and who we are. ‘Relational’ therapy with more than one client aims to help improve interactions with each other, achieve relational goals, and cultivate value and meaning together.
15 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT
Salvadore Coaching LLC
Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
Codependency often begins as care, loyalty, or sensitivity—but over time it can become self-abandonment. And when you abandon yourself, you don’t actually protect the relationship—you weaken it.
Oftentimes, many people find themselves over-functioning, people-pleasing, managing another’s emotions, or staying in relationships that require them to shrink their needs in order to keep connection. The result is often a combination of anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, and a loss of clarity about what they actually want.
In our work together, we aim to de-escalate these patterns and explore what they’ve been protecting: perhaps a fear of conflict, abandonment, guilt, or the belief that love must be earned through sacrifice. We build practical skills for boundaries, self-trust, and direct communication, so you can stay connected without losing yourself. The goal is not to become “less caring,” but to create relationships that include you—relationships where care and reciprocity can coexist.
14 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT
Paul W Anderson, PhD
Psychologist, Licensed counseling psychologist, Licensed Addictions counselor, PsyPact
How much better to put your mind and energy to taking care of your self and depending on your own efforts than to believe you can't be OK unless you qualifier (addict) gets sober. I can help and guide you on how to get into your own recovery and long lasting sobriety.
45 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT (Online Only)
Total Wellness Center
Treatment Center, We have LCSWs and LPCs providing various talk therapies. It's key to find a provider who fits your unique needs.
Codependency: We guide individuals toward greater independence & healthier relationship dynamics, overcoming patterns of codependency.
11 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT
Jason Herr
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I help individuals recognize and shift codependent patterns that can lead to overgiving, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries. Through a supportive, insight-driven approach, we work to strengthen self-worth, develop healthy relationship skills, and foster greater independence and emotional balance.
16 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT (Online Only)
Dr. Brittany Jacobson
Psychologist, PhD, CST
You may find yourself prioritizing others’ needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of your own. Together, we explore the patterns that keep you overextended or disconnected from yourself, often rooted in early relationships or learned roles. I will help you honor your own needs and voice, develop clearer boundaries, and connect to others without abandoning yourself.
10 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT
Michael Lockwood of Scene Creative Life Solutions
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LMSW
Breaking free from the chains of codependency is a courageous journey towards reclaiming autonomy and building healthier relationships. I provide a compassionate space to untangle the intricate threads that bind unhealthy patterns. Together, we explore the roots of codependency, unraveling the dynamics that hinder personal growth. Together we focus on establishing boundaries, fostering self-awareness, and cultivating a strong sense of self.
11 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT (Online Only)
Aysha DeSilva
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I support individuals who struggle with codependency and patterns of losing themselves in relationships. Using psychodynamic therapy, interpersonal therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and EMDR, I enjoy helping clients understand the underlying experiences that add to these patterns while building healthier relationships and a stronger sense of self.
4 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT (Online Only)
Laura Silva, LicMHC - Online/Virtual Therapy
Counselor/Therapist, Traditional, Integrative, Heart Centered counseling. Coach, Educator, Depth Therapy.
Codependency may be known or unknown. Always looking to please the other, or not having value and belief in yourself over the opinions of others, or attracting wrong people into your life who drain you - these and much more are signs of codependency patterns. My work is a path of codependency recovery. While looking at deeper roots contributing to codependent behaviors and thinking. Email for free consultation call
46 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT (Online Only)
Beth Clardy Lewis
Counselor/Therapist, LPC-S
Codependency often comes from a lifetime of caretaking, people-pleasing, and struggling to set boundaries. I help clients untangle these patterns with compassion while teaching the emotional and relational skills needed to develop healthy autonomy. My approach is direct, empowering, and rooted in deep therapeutic experience. Through our work, you’ll learn to prioritize your needs without guilt and cultivate relationships that honor your worth.
22 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT (Online Only)
Soma Aloia, SoulWork Somatics & Somatic Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MS, LCST, HES
Many people learn early in life to care for others before caring for themselves. Therapy can help you understand your attachment style so you may strengthen healthy boundaries, reconnect with your own needs, make confident decisions, and build relationships that feel mutual rather than exhausting. You will learn how to resource yourself with embodying and self-care practices. Learning to love all the parts of you.
31 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT
Ms. ANNA C JEAN-GUILLAUME MARTIN
Therapist, BSW MSW LCSW
Codependency is a psychological and behavioral pattern between two or more people. This is also known as relationship addiction.
31 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT
Alistair Highet
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MA, LP, NCPsyA
Relationships are the bedrock of our identity, but sometimes we can be overwhelmed and get lost. Finding our own center is the key.
26 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT
Molly Toomey
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Folks can get "stuck" in a pattern of codependent relationships as a reaction or response to their relationships with caregivers from childhood. Your body and mind might be seeking reassurance, connection, safety, but you struggle with boundaries, feel constantly guilty or responsible for others' feelings, and have difficulty separating out your own self-worth and sense of self from that of the other person's. My relational approach focuses a lot on attachment (close relationships) and helps folks recognize their patterns, explore how they show up in their past and present relationships, experiment with different ways of connecting and communicating, and rewire themselves toward healthier relationships with others and themselves.
9 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT (Online Only)
Dr. George Lough
Psychologist, Ph.D., S.E.P.
Codependency and people-pleasing can be an adaptation to the environment in which we grew up. Understanding that our own needs are our legitimate concern, and setting boundaries so that these needs are met, is necessary to prevent burnout.
48 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT (Online Only)
Eagle Feather Psychotherapy
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LICSW
Natasha specializes in treating codependency, including caretaker burnout, intergenerational challenges and multicultural, generational challenges
12 Years Experience
Online in Middletown, CT (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Middletown, Connecticut Statistics
Codependency therapists in Middletown, Connecticut average 19 years of experience and charge around $198 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Depression (86%).
Average years in practice
19 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$198
Gender ID
| 61% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 51% |
Online Only |
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| 49% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 86% | Depression |
| 76% | Self Esteem |
| 71% | Loss or Grief |
| 69% | Stress |
| 59% | Trauma and PTSD |