Online Codependency therapists in Hornsey, England ENG, United Kingdom UK
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Lavinia May
Counsellor/Therapist, MNCPS (Acc.)
Hi, I'm Lavinia May, Psychotherapist & Life Coach | 14+ Years Experience.
I believe everyone has the potential to create meaningful change - sometimes you just need the right support to get there. With over a decade of experience helping individuals and couples heal, grow, and thrive, I offer a compassionate, results-driven approach tailored to your unique journey.
I specialise in:
Relationship therapy and couples counselling
Anxiety, stress, and emotional overwhelm
Personal growth and life transitions
Communication and conflict resolution
Healing from past trauma and emotional wounds
Building confidence and self-worth
Whether you're seeking deeper connection in your relationships, tools to overcome life's hurdles, or simply a safe space to be heard, I'm here to walk alongside you every step of the way.
12 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Kat Pachana-Pereira
Registered Psychotherapist, Integrative Therapist (CBT), Couples Therapist, EMDR Therapist
We will work on understanding causes of codependency and strengthening a sense of of self
9 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Jason Fletcher Hypnotherapy and Coaching
Hypnotherapist, FNCIP SQHP
Codependency often involves patterns of over-responsibility, people-pleasing, or losing a sense of self in relationships. I support people in exploring how these patterns developed and how they affect emotional wellbeing and boundaries. Codependency work focuses on building healthier autonomy, emotional stability, and more balanced relationships.
23 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Dr. Sonia Ovuehor Ovy
Counsellor/Therapist, Doctor of science in Counselling Psychology, Msc Conflict Resolution, Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapy, Counselling and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Certificate in Mental Health Studies, Suicide Prevention and Intervention, Diploma in Relationship and Family Counselling, CPD in Neuro Linguistic Programming.
By combining empathy and expertise, I help individuals overcome codependency by exploring:
- Trauma and attachment issues
- Family dynamics and patterns
- Emotional regulation and resilience
- Mindfulness and self-compassion.
9 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG (Online Only)
Saffron Marriner
Counsellor/Therapist, MBACP (Accred)
The way that I often work with clients in relation to codependency is by integrating a humanistic approach with the use of somatic approaches which focus on the body's role in storing and expressing trauma. These techniques help clients release trapped energy and build a sense of safety within their own bodies. Methods include:
- Body awareness exercises that help clients tune into physical sensations and identify areas of tension or discomfort.
- Breathwork and grounding techniques to regulate the nervous system and promote relaxation.
I work with codependent clients to help you recognise and change unhealthy relational patterns by:
- Exploring the origins of your codependent behaviours and the unmet needs driving them. We may use parts work if this feels helpful to you.
- Teaching assertiveness and communication skills to enable clients to express your needs and set healthy boundaries.
- Supporting clients in gradually shifting your focus from external validation to internal self-worth.
With integrating a Trauma-Informed Practice:
A trauma-informed approach ensures that therapy is sensitive to the impacts of trauma and prioritises the client's safety and empowerment. Key principles include:
- Recognizing the widespread impact of trauma and understanding its signs and symptoms.
- Avoiding re-traumatisation by being mindful of triggers and respecting the client's pace.
- Collaborating with clients to set goals and involve you actively in your healing process.
Working with codependent clients through an integrative humanistic and somatic trauma-informed approach offers a compassionate and effective pathway to healing. By addressing the deep-seated roots of codependency in trauma, therapists can help clients build healthier relationships, develop a stronger sense of self, and ultimately lead more fulfilling lives.
22 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Dr Grenville Major
Therapist, MBchB, MRCpsych, MSc psychological therapies
Your relationship constitutes a significant proportion of your life, and contributes immensely to well-being and happiness. Having a balanced relationship should be the goal, where you can give and take in equal measure. To be able to experience gratitude and the joy of helping someone you love. I would like to meet with you to see what can be done to help you. This will enable us to get to know each other and see if we can work together. It’s important for you to work with someone you trust and feel safe with.
45 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Adima Hawkes
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychotherapist, Spiritual Teacher, Gene Keys Guide, Trainer Tibetan Acupressure & Iridology
Spiritually speaking, we're all dependent on each other for our natural needs and according to the cosmic laws. Down to earth speaking, most of us experience dependencies with others in our daily life as limiting to our personal freedom. I invite you to find out what freedom really is or means. This enables us to discern the difference between an unavoidable natural dependency and a personal dream or even power trip. Above all, we need to learn to see our own blind spots! Not those of the other, which is always the easier thing to do.
30 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Emma Poxon
Counsellor/Therapist, MA Person-Centred Experiential Counselling
Codependency can feel completely overwhelming, like there's no way out and you cannot exist without the person, animal, or item you are bonded to. As your therapist I am here to be with you, reminding you that you are not alone. We can explore how codependency feels for you, when it is at its worst, and help you to gain more of a sense of control over this. You are not a problem to be fixed, my aim as your therapist is to try to provide the right conditions to allow you to explore whatever you want to bring to therapy to support your growth. This isn't a therapeutic approach wherein I will set a treatment plan or tell you what to do. We will work together as a partnership rather than me taking away your autonomy. I absolutely love the work I do, it is the biggest privilege being let into people’s personal worlds and seeing the immense growth of my clients. I hope to hear from you soon!
7 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG (Online Only)
Dr George Booty. The PsychoTRAUMA Clinic (Convergence College of Psychotherapy)
Registered Psychotherapist, Dr, DPsych, MA Couns, MA Psych, PG Dip Spvn
I deal with Codependency especially to help sufferers to stop rescuing unnecessarily and to uncover Love Avoidant Addicts and Love Seeker Addicts to gain a healthier lifestyle and to enjoy fuller healthier relationships with others.
31 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Dr. Claire Vines, Psy.D., Psychologist / Licensed /Psychotherapy / Psychoanalytic/
Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage, Couples, LMFT. Psy.D. Trauma-Focused CBT
We will focus on the motivations to co-dependence leading dual behaviors .We will discuss family attachment, past, disengaging verses detaching. You will learn self-validation of your inner-self. You will discover inner, innate strengths and how to function independently within balanced boundaries.
21 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Neil Coburn Relationship Therapy and Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist, BA (Hons), MA (Tavi Rels), MBACP (Accred)
I often work with couples or individuals on challenges they describe as co-dependent. Dependency is a reality of any relationship, but can be imbalanced or seen as destructive or threatening. I try to help people to change these patterns and become more at ease with their need for others in their lives.
11 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Louise Perry
Registered Psychotherapist, IFS UKCP HCCP BAAT
I work with adults who struggle with patterns often described as codependence, including over-responsibility for others, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and a sense of self that becomes organised around relationships. These patterns are usually adaptive responses developed over time, rather than personal failings.
My work draws on Integrative Art Psychotherapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering ways to understand how these relational strategies developed and what they may be protecting. Sessions focus on increasing clarity about needs, limits, and patterns of attachment, allowing different ways of relating to emerge. We may work through conversation, creative exploration, or a combination of both, depending on what feels most useful.
8 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
James Darby
Registered Psychotherapist, Postgraduate Diploma Core Process Psychotherapy, DCHyp, ABSCH, MBA
Co-dependency often involves deeply ingrained patterns of self-sacrifice, emotional dependency, and a lack of personal boundaries, rooted in unresolved emotional wounds from childhood development and relational dynamics. I can help individuals to explore and understand these patterns by helping people to understand how unmet needs from the past can be unconsciously reenacted in their current adult relationships. The intention being that with such understanding the clients I work with can begin to move towards healthier, more boundaried, collaborative and interdependent relationships with their friends and loved ones.
21 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Lisa Sanfilippo
Therapist, MA, MSc, UKCP, MBACP
Does the other person have to be ok for you to feel ok? You might find working with codependency helpful! Cycles of unhealthy relationships, love addiction, codependency, putting others first, "people pleasing", difficulty asserting boundaries, feeling unworthy of nourishing and healthy love relationships- all can lead us to therapy. While interdependence - working together and strong relationships are essential to a happy life, the dance of give-and-take can get confused and confusing. I can help you to work with existing relationships or even embark on dating in a new way, whether you're new to it or re-entering the process after a breakup, separation or divorce .
We can work together to understand what healthy relationships look and feel like- and to bring the relationships in your life into a nourishing balance. In this, we come to understand your attachment patterns, the role of trauma, learning your nervous system's responses to intimacy (physical and emotional). Working in tandem with a 12-step programme isn't for everyone, but can be a great help here if that appeals to you.
14 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Kylie Feller
Licensed Professional Counsellor, MA, CCC
You don’t have to lose yourself to be loved.
If you find yourself overgiving in relationships, struggling to set boundaries, or feeling anxious when you're not needed, you may be dealing with codependent patterns. These often come from early wounds and parts of us that equate love with self-sacrifice or people-pleasing. As someone who specializes in dating and relationships—and is currently writing a book on dating through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS)—I help you identify the parts of you that fear being alone, not enough, or too much. Together, we’ll untangle old patterns, heal the underlying wounds, and reconnect you with your True Self—so you can build relationships from a place of wholeness rather than need.
10 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG (Online Only)
Leonie M Dippenaar
Counsellor/Therapist, (BWRT) Master Coach, (CHT )Certified Hypnotherapist (EPP) Ethno Psychology Practitioner
Let go of the root cause of codependency and find your way back to your own power
18 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG (Online Only)
Karine Flynn
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPS
Codependency is fundamentally a nervous system pattern - a deep-rooted orientation toward others' emotional states that developed as a survival strategy and never got updated. Understanding this intellectually rarely shifts it. The work happens at the level of the body: learning to locate your own internal experience, to stay with it under relational pressure, and to build the felt sense of self that makes genuine boundaries possible.
23 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Rachel Bates
Registered Psychotherapist, M Phil - Counselling & Psychotherapy; M A Psychology
Codependance is basically a dependance (sometimes for reasons beyond one's control) on someone, often family member or members who is or are dysfunctional, leaving the co-dependant with a dminshed sense of self.
21 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Julie Kuhn - Counsellor & Supervisor
Counsellor/Therapist, Therapeutic Arts Counsellor BACP (Accred)
Counselling can provide that space for you to be able to get to know who you are and what you need and want. Counselling can also be challenging as you Re-evaluate your thoughts feelings and opinions. Getting to know yourself can build resilience and assertiveness which are tools that can help you become more dependent and build self-esteem. Counselling can help you to respond and communicate as well as helping you to take back control of your life.
9 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG
Sudeva Hawkes
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor, B.Couns., MNCPS Accred. , PACFA Reg.
Together we'll create a safe space to explore the patterns of codependency and revitalise your sense of self. My approach combines clinical expertience with trauma-informed techniques, incorporating mindfulness to help you establish healthy boundaries and cultivate self-worth. We'll work together on breaking free from unhealthy dynamics, fostering independence and emotional resilience. My goal is to empower you to find balance and strength, and to assist in realising and expressing your true potential.
29 Years Experience
Online in Hornsey, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Hornsey, England, United Kingdom Statistics
Codependency therapists in Hornsey, England, United Kingdom average 16 years of experience and charge around ¤131 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (84%), and Depression (80%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤131
Gender ID
| 76% |
Female |
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| 22% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 69% |
In Person and Online |
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| 31% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 84% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 80% | Depression |
| 76% | Stress |
| 73% | Self Esteem |
| 61% | Social Anxiety |
| 59% | Loss or Grief |