Online Codependency therapists in Minnetonka Mills, Minnesota MN
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Codependency
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with young adults and adults who have learned to orient themselves around other people’s needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of their own. This can look like being the reliable one, the steady one, the person others turn to, while privately feeling depleted, unseen, or unsure where your own preferences begin. Many people I see have spent years managing relationships, smoothing conflict, or carrying more than their share because it felt safer than disappointing someone or risking disconnection.
Codependent patterns often develop in situations where you had to stay attuned to others to keep the peace, where your worth was tied to being helpful or accommodating, or where expressing your own needs led to tension, withdrawal, or criticism. Over time, this can make it hard to trust your internal signals, set boundaries without guilt, or believe that your needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
In our work together, we look at how these patterns formed, what they have protected you from, and how they show up in your relationships today. We make space for the part of you that learned to stay small, agreeable, or over responsible in order to feel safe, and for the part of you that is tired of doing so much emotional labor. From there, we explore what it means to move through relationships with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice, without abandoning the parts of you that have worked so hard to keep things stable. Supporting people who have organized themselves around others for a long time is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how much you have carried.
26 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN
Codependency
MindOverHealing Therapies
Hypnotherapist, CHt
Codependency is a complex and often misunderstood psychological condition characterized by an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, friend, or family member. It frequently occurs in relationships where one person may have an addiction, mental illness, or other chronic condition. Hypnotherapy offers a unique and holistic approach to addressing the underlying issues of codependency, promoting healing and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships.
3 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Embodied Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MA, LPCC, CIEC, CCTP
Codependency is rooting to our family dynamics and attachment styles. I enjoy supporting clients to feel securely connected to themselves, their intrinsic knowing, and showing up in this world in ways that are aligned to your values.
3 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Megan Marks
Psychologist, PhD
You might be the one everyone leans on—always available, endlessly supportive, and quick to smooth things over. But underneath that strength, there’s a quiet exhaustion. Maybe you’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own voice. You may struggle to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, or feel okay when someone else is upset. Maybe you define your worth through how much you give or help, but deep down, you’re craving space to just be… without performing, fixing, or proving.
At The Momentum Practice, I help clients untangle patterns of codependency that often start early—growing up in families where your worth was tied to being helpful, agreeable, or emotionally attuned to others. These patterns can show up in adult life in all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, friendships, caregiving roles, family systems, and even the workplace, where over-functioning often gets mistaken for excellence. You might find yourself constantly people-pleasing, second-guessing your instincts, or feeling panicked at the thought of being left behind. They can be especially layered for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks who’ve had to mask parts of themselves to stay safe, loved, or accepted.
We’ll explore how these ways of relating helped you survive—and how they might be keeping you stuck now. Together, we’ll work on building boundaries that feel empowering (not selfish), tuning into your own needs and desires, and letting go of the belief that your value comes from how much you give. We’ll also look at how systemic pressures may have reinforced these patterns over time. Our work might include unlearning perfectionism, quieting the inner critic, and cultivating self-trust that isn’t tied to how much you do for others.
With over 15 years of experience, I offer a compassionate space to reconnect with your own voice and needs. You don’t have to keep disappearing in your relationships. Whether we’re working one-on-one or navigating these dynamics in couples therapy, you’ll have a space to explore what healthier, more mutual connection can look like. If you're ready to show up more fully for yourself and build connections that don’t come at the cost of your own well-being, I’d be honored to journey alongside you. Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation!
21 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN
Codependency
Dr. Lyndsay Elliott
Psychologist, PsyD.
Codependency often develops so gradually that most people don't recognize it until they are completely exhausted — emotionally drained by relationships that consistently prioritize everyone else's needs over their own. As a licensed clinical psychologist with 20+ years of experience, I help adults identify and break codependent relationship patterns, rebuild healthy boundaries, and develop a stronger, more secure sense of self. Using cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychodynamic insight, and trauma-informed care, I work with clients to untangle the deep-rooted beliefs driving codependent behavior and build genuinely healthier relationships. Telehealth therapy for codependency available across 40+ states.
21 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Sharon Davern MSED, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed in Minnesota, Tennessee
Co-dependency is a very common pattern for people but can become quite debilitating over time. It leads us to destructive relationships and life patterns. Understanding how that impacts our lives and how to establish healthier patterns of living is extremely important.
37 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Inner World Counseling Services PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Codependency often develops as a brilliant survival strategy in response to past trauma or unpredictable environments. If you find yourself constantly reading the room, managing everyone else’s moods, or feeling an intense wave of guilt whenever you try to say 'no,' you are likely trapped in a codependent loop. I help chronic peacekeepers and over-functioners dismantle the 'fawn' response that keeps them neglecting their own needs. Together, we will work to untangle your identity from the burdens of others, quiet the fear of conflict, and build the confidence to set firm, healthy boundaries without the crushing weight of guilt
9 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Erika Gray
Psychologist, Psy.D
If you have trouble differentiating yourself from others, if your needs are way down on the list of priorities...maybe we should talk.
15 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Peg Roberts
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
My latest book, "Reclaiming Your Lost Soul: A Soul Seekers Life Guide to Healing Codependency." It's a comprehensive guide to understanding what losing your soul means, how it develops and how to heal from it. Lives can change, boundaries can be set, and building self-esteem happens when you follow the guide. It's easy to order at my website Spiritofhopecc.com.
28 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Peg Beattie MA, LPCC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC
Helping the client gain understanding of their wants and needs.
22 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN
Codependency
Brent Peak
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Codependency can feel like you’re constantly managing other people’s emotions, needs, and reactions—while your own get pushed aside. You may feel guilty when you say no, anxious when someone is upset with you, or responsible for making sure everyone around you is okay. Maybe you find yourself over-explaining, avoiding conflict, or bending over backward to keep the peace. Deep down, you might wonder, “Who am I if I’m not needed?” or “Why do I always end up in one-sided relationships?” These patterns didn’t appear out of nowhere—they were learned in childhood, often in environments where love, approval, or safety felt tied to how well you could care for others. When you were young, putting others first may have been necessary for survival—but now, it’s keeping you stuck in exhaustion, resentment, and self-doubt.
But you don’t have to keep living this way. Healing from codependency isn’t about becoming selfish—it’s about learning that your needs, emotions, and boundaries matter just as much as everyone else’s. Using Post-Induction Therapy (PIT), I help clients heal the childhood wounds that created these patterns, so they can stop seeking self-worth through overgiving and start building relationships based on mutual respect and emotional balance. Therapy helps you stop feeling responsible for other people’s happiness, set boundaries without guilt, and finally put yourself on your own priority list. You don’t have to prove your worth by constantly doing for others—you are already enough, just as you are.
11 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN
Codependency
Omni Mental Health, Inc.
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, LICSW, DBT IOP
Codependency can make it difficult to set healthy boundaries, prioritize your own needs, and maintain balanced relationships. At Omni Mental Health, we help individuals recognize patterns of codependency and understand the underlying emotional dynamics. Through compassionate therapy, we work with you to build self-awareness, strengthen boundaries, and develop healthier ways of relating to yourself and others. Our goal is to support you in creating more fulfilling, balanced relationships and fostering greater emotional independence.
12 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN
Codependency
Dr. Brian M. Berman
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I specialize in the treatment of codependency and utilize elements of self-compassion, communications skills and emotion focused therapy (EFT) to help clients improve boundary setting .
22 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN
Codependency
Chad T. Allen
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MA, LPCC
I am a psychoanalyst in private practice in the Minneapolis–St. Paul area, working with adults who find themselves consistently prioritizing others’ needs at the expense of their own or feeling overly responsible for the emotional well-being of those around them. Patterns often described as codependency frequently develop in response to earlier relational experiences and can lead to difficulty setting boundaries or maintaining a stable sense of self within relationships.
My work is grounded in the belief that these patterns have understandable emotional origins. Psychoanalytic psychotherapy offers a space to explore how these relational dynamics developed and how they continue to shape current relationships. Through increased understanding, individuals can begin to experience greater freedom in balancing closeness with autonomy and in developing relationships that feel more mutual and sustainable.
I also work with couples who wish to better understand how these patterns affect communication and intimacy.
12 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN
Codependency
Daniel Johnson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC, NCC
Let's examine your relationship patterns, identify sources of symptoms, and then rebuild that inner ally which leads to confidence and greater independence.
6 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Know Thyself Healing & Therapy
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LICSW, LPCC, LGSW
Codependency can lead to unhealthy relationship patterns, difficulty setting boundaries, and loss of personal identity. Our codependency therapy helps you develop self-awareness, establish healthy boundaries, and build stronger, more balanced relationships. We support you in reconnecting with your own needs and sense of self.
28 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN
Codependency
Melissa LaCour
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Codependency shows up quietly — in the habit of prioritizing everyone else's needs before your own, in the anxiety that comes when you try to set a boundary, in the way your emotional state rises and falls with someone else's. Many of my clients don't initially name it as codependency. They just know that they feel responsible for people in a way that exhausts them, and that saying no feels dangerous. Therapy gives you space to examine where those patterns came from, what they're costing you, and how to build relationships that feel genuinely mutual rather than one-sided.
8 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN
Codependency
Dr. Christopher Lowery, DHSc, CLCP
Clinical Health Practitioner, Board-Certified Life Care Planner
This component offer the development of healthy boundaries, self-awareness, and interpersonal skills to build balanced and fulfilling relationships.
24 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN
Codependency
Aaron Kapin
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, SEP, LMT
I use Somatic Experiencing to help you tune into your own wants and needs so you can start learning to have a clearer sense of your boundaries, as well as the strength to set them.
A lot of relationships are labeled as 'codependent', but sometimes it can be more accurate to say that it's become easier for you to guess at what your partner wants than it is to know what you want.
Once you get more connected to what you want, it can become easier to have those conversations with your partner, and easier to stand strong in your needs.
11 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. George Lough
Psychologist, Ph.D., S.E.P.
Codependency and people-pleasing can be an adaptation to the environment in which we grew up. Understanding that our own needs are our legitimate concern, and setting boundaries so that these needs are met, is necessary to prevent burnout.
48 Years Experience
Online in Minnetonka Mills, MN (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Minnetonka Mills, Minnesota Statistics
Codependency therapists in Minnetonka Mills, Minnesota average 18 years of experience and charge around $204 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (89%), and Depression (84%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$204
Gender ID
| 58% |
Female |
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| 35% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 50% |
In Person and Online |
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| 50% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 89% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 84% | Depression |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 70% | Stress |
| 70% | Loss or Grief |
| 61% | Trauma and PTSD |