Online Codependency therapists in Stillwater, Minnesota MN
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Brent Peak
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Codependency can feel like you’re constantly managing other people’s emotions, needs, and reactions—while your own get pushed aside. You may feel guilty when you say no, anxious when someone is upset with you, or responsible for making sure everyone around you is okay. Maybe you find yourself over-explaining, avoiding conflict, or bending over backward to keep the peace. Deep down, you might wonder, “Who am I if I’m not needed?” or “Why do I always end up in one-sided relationships?” These patterns didn’t appear out of nowhere—they were learned in childhood, often in environments where love, approval, or safety felt tied to how well you could care for others. When you were young, putting others first may have been necessary for survival—but now, it’s keeping you stuck in exhaustion, resentment, and self-doubt.
But you don’t have to keep living this way. Healing from codependency isn’t about becoming selfish—it’s about learning that your needs, emotions, and boundaries matter just as much as everyone else’s. Using Post-Induction Therapy (PIT), I help clients heal the childhood wounds that created these patterns, so they can stop seeking self-worth through overgiving and start building relationships based on mutual respect and emotional balance. Therapy helps you stop feeling responsible for other people’s happiness, set boundaries without guilt, and finally put yourself on your own priority list. You don’t have to prove your worth by constantly doing for others—you are already enough, just as you are.
11 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN
Shelley Klammer
Counselor/Therapist, MTC, REACE, FOT, CHyp
If you are a heart-centred, empathic woman, you might have challenges setting healthy boundaries with people and could be stuck in fawning, pleasing, and appeasing patterns to feel safe and connected. I can support you in defining your values and setting either flexible or non-negotiable boundaries, depending on the circumstances. I can help you move through self-doubt and into your authentic self-expression. The therapy that I offer is in-depth and often involves going back to the inner child, where your inner defense patterns and relationship patterns began, to initiate deep emotional healing and safety.
20 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN (Online Only)
Gayle MacBride
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Codependency is a learned pattern of interacting. We can unlearn these patterns, too. First we are going to identify the needs and learn more accurate self talk around self-esteem and self-worth. We will talk about triggers that might cause you to fall back into old patterns and ways to act with love, but not entangled in someone else's distress.
20 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN
Peter Gould
Psychologist, Ph.D.
As a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in codependency, I provide compassionate and effective treatment for individuals involved in enmeshed relationships who seek to develop a stronger sense of self and establish healthier boundaries. My approach, informed by evidence-based therapies such as CBT and interpersonal therapy, is customized to address the unique needs of each individual.
22 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN (Online Only)
Dr. Ryan Kitts Schallon
Psychologist, PsyD
Codependency is not loving too much. It is having learned, very early, that your survival depended on monitoring someone else's emotional weather — that your needs were safest when they were invisible, even to you. The exhaustion of it is real. So is the terror of stopping. Therapy is not about learning to stop caring for others. It is about recovering the self that went underground in order to make all that caretaking possible.
3 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN
MindOverHealing Therapies
Hypnotherapist, CHt
Codependency is a complex and often misunderstood psychological condition characterized by an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, friend, or family member. It frequently occurs in relationships where one person may have an addiction, mental illness, or other chronic condition. Hypnotherapy offers a unique and holistic approach to addressing the underlying issues of codependency, promoting healing and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships.
3 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN (Online Only)
Know Thyself Healing & Therapy
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LICSW, LPCC, LGSW
Codependency can lead to unhealthy relationship patterns, difficulty setting boundaries, and loss of personal identity. Our codependency therapy helps you develop self-awareness, establish healthy boundaries, and build stronger, more balanced relationships. We support you in reconnecting with your own needs and sense of self.
28 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN
Daniel Johnson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC, NCC
Let's examine your relationship patterns, identify sources of symptoms, and then rebuild that inner ally which leads to confidence and greater independence.
6 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN (Online Only)
GRIS ALVES
Counselor/Therapist, Compassionate Inquiry, Trauma Informed Mindfulness Teacher
I help clients struggling with codependency understand how early attachment experiences and relational patterns shape overgiving, people-pleasing, and boundary challenges. Using a trauma-informed, compassionate approach, we work to build self-awareness, emotional autonomy, and healthier, more balanced relationships. Therapy provides a safe space to break old patterns and reconnect with your authentic self.
11 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN
Charles R. Davenport, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist
Dr. Charles R. Davenport provides specialized therapy for individuals struggling with codependency. Codependency often involves prioritizing the needs of others over one’s own, leading to unhealthy relationship dynamics and a loss of personal identity. Dr. Davenport utilizes evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help clients recognize and break free from these patterns.
Through cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and psychodynamic approaches, Dr. Davenport assists clients in understanding the root causes of their codependent behaviors. He helps them develop healthier boundaries, improve self-esteem, and foster more balanced and fulfilling relationships. Mindfulness techniques are also incorporated to enhance self-awareness and emotional regulation.
Dr. Davenport’s compassionate and supportive approach ensures that clients feel safe to explore their behaviors and make meaningful changes. By offering telehealth services in over 40 states, he makes it convenient for clients to access the care they need, regardless of their location. Dr. Davenport is dedicated to empowering individuals to reclaim their independence and build healthier, more satisfying relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN
Sharon Davern MSED, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed in Minnesota, Tennessee
Co-dependency is a very common pattern for people but can become quite debilitating over time. It leads us to destructive relationships and life patterns. Understanding how that impacts our lives and how to establish healthier patterns of living is extremely important.
37 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN (Online Only)
South Psychology
Psychologist, PhD
Are you caught in a cycle of codependency, where your well-being is entangled with others? At South Psychology, we specialize in providing compassionate mental health services to break free from these patterns and foster healthier relationships.
Our Approach:
Understanding Codependency: Our experienced therapists recognize the signs of codependency. We explore the roots of these behaviors and guide you toward healthier dynamics.
Individualized Treatment: We tailor our interventions to your unique needs. Whether you’re struggling with boundary-setting, low self-esteem, or caretaking tendencies, we’re here to support you.
Holistic Healing: Our holistic approach considers emotional, psychological, and relational aspects. We empower you to reclaim your identity and build resilience.
How We Can Help:
Therapy for Codependency: Through evidence-based therapy, we address distorted relationship dynamics, self-worth issues, and dependency patterns.
Skills Building: Learn healthy communication, assertiveness, and self-care techniques. Break free from the cycle of over-giving and neglecting your own needs.
Supportive Environment: South Psychology provides a safe space to explore vulnerabilities, heal past wounds, and create healthier connections.
8 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN
Melissa LaCour
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Codependency shows up quietly — in the habit of prioritizing everyone else's needs before your own, in the anxiety that comes when you try to set a boundary, in the way your emotional state rises and falls with someone else's. Many of my clients don't initially name it as codependency. They just know that they feel responsible for people in a way that exhausts them, and that saying no feels dangerous. Therapy gives you space to examine where those patterns came from, what they're costing you, and how to build relationships that feel genuinely mutual rather than one-sided.
8 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN
Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
Codependency often reflects early relational patterns in which emotional needs, boundaries, and self-worth became entangled with the needs of others. My work integrates psychoanalytic exploration and somatic awareness to understand how these patterns continue to shape adult relationships. Together, we work toward greater emotional autonomy, clarity, and the capacity to remain connected to oneself while being close to others.
7 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN (Online Only)
Restored Counseling & Wellness Center, PLLC
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, NMD
Codependency often develops as a survival strategy — and it works, until it doesn't. At Restored, we help clients recognize the relational patterns rooted in early attachment wounds that lead to over-functioning, people-pleasing, and losing themselves in relationships. Through compassionate, attachment-based work, we help you rebuild a healthier relationship with yourself so you can show up in your relationships from a place of genuine choice rather than fear or obligation.
14 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN
Embodied Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MA, LPCC, CIEC, CCTP
Codependency is rooting to our family dynamics and attachment styles. I enjoy supporting clients to feel securely connected to themselves, their intrinsic knowing, and showing up in this world in ways that are aligned to your values.
3 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN (Online Only)
Tara Murphy
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Codependency can feel like being trapped in over-responsibility for others while neglecting yourself. Using IFS, attachment-focused work. I help clients understand the parts of them driving these patterns and build healthier boundaries. Narrative and experiential therapies further support reclaiming self-worth and agency. I also offer diagnostic clarity when codependent patterns overlap with trauma, depression, or personality features.
29 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN (Online Only)
Denise Bike
Psychologist, PhD
What if you could be connected and also have boundaries? An in-depth intensive with Dr. Bike could support you on your journey to realigning with your inner compass — so your drive comes from self-trust, not self-sacrifice.
13 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN (Online Only)
Omni Mental Health, Inc.
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, LICSW, DBT IOP
Codependency can make it difficult to set healthy boundaries, prioritize your own needs, and maintain balanced relationships. At Omni Mental Health, we help individuals recognize patterns of codependency and understand the underlying emotional dynamics. Through compassionate therapy, we work with you to build self-awareness, strengthen boundaries, and develop healthier ways of relating to yourself and others. Our goal is to support you in creating more fulfilling, balanced relationships and fostering greater emotional independence.
12 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN
Peg Roberts
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
My latest book, "Reclaiming Your Lost Soul: A Soul Seekers Life Guide to Healing Codependency." It's a comprehensive guide to understanding what losing your soul means, how it develops and how to heal from it. Lives can change, boundaries can be set, and building self-esteem happens when you follow the guide. It's easy to order at my website Spiritofhopecc.com.
28 Years Experience
Online in Stillwater, MN (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Stillwater, Minnesota Statistics
Codependency therapists in Stillwater, Minnesota average 18 years of experience and charge around $204 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (89%), and Depression (84%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$204
Gender ID
| 58% |
Female |
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| 35% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 50% |
In Person and Online |
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| 50% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 89% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 84% | Depression |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 70% | Loss or Grief |
| 70% | Stress |
| 61% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |