Online Codependency therapists in Bayville, New Jersey NJ
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Codependency
Dr. Amy Schullery
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I support clients struggling with codependency issues in their relationships.
19 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Sam Naimi
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
Codependency, also known as unconscious accommodation, develops when we maintain important connections that require us to set aside our own needs or inner world to feel safe and still connected. Over time, this can lead to chronic self-sacrifice and uncertainty about where you end and others begin.
In psychoanalytic work, we explore how these patterns took shape and what parts of you were set aside to preserve closeness. As this becomes clearer, many people begin to reclaim a stronger sense of inner authority and move toward relationships that allow for mutuality rather than self-erasure.
8 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Dr. Megan Marks
Psychologist, PhD
You might be the one everyone leans on—always available, endlessly supportive, and quick to smooth things over. But underneath that strength, there’s a quiet exhaustion. Maybe you’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own voice. You may struggle to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, or feel okay when someone else is upset. Maybe you define your worth through how much you give or help, but deep down, you’re craving space to just be… without performing, fixing, or proving.
At The Momentum Practice, I help clients untangle patterns of codependency that often start early—growing up in families where your worth was tied to being helpful, agreeable, or emotionally attuned to others. These patterns can show up in adult life in all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, friendships, caregiving roles, family systems, and even the workplace, where over-functioning often gets mistaken for excellence. You might find yourself constantly people-pleasing, second-guessing your instincts, or feeling panicked at the thought of being left behind. They can be especially layered for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks who’ve had to mask parts of themselves to stay safe, loved, or accepted.
We’ll explore how these ways of relating helped you survive—and how they might be keeping you stuck now. Together, we’ll work on building boundaries that feel empowering (not selfish), tuning into your own needs and desires, and letting go of the belief that your value comes from how much you give. We’ll also look at how systemic pressures may have reinforced these patterns over time. Our work might include unlearning perfectionism, quieting the inner critic, and cultivating self-trust that isn’t tied to how much you do for others.
With over 15 years of experience, I offer a compassionate space to reconnect with your own voice and needs. You don’t have to keep disappearing in your relationships. Whether we’re working one-on-one or navigating these dynamics in couples therapy, you’ll have a space to explore what healthier, more mutual connection can look like. If you're ready to show up more fully for yourself and build connections that don’t come at the cost of your own well-being, I’d be honored to journey alongside you. Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation!
21 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Mona Lee Yousef
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R, CASAC-2, CADC, CCDC, MAC
Psychoanalyst with 33 years experience working with those grappling with the experience of being partnered with and/or family members of people with various forms of addictive/compulsive disorders.
35 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Christina Song
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT-S
I approach codependency not as a flaw or diagnosis, but as a set of learned relational strategies shaped by attachment, trauma, and survival. Many people who identify with codependent patterns are deeply attuned, responsible, and caring—often at the expense of their own needs. In therapy, we gently explore how these patterns developed, what they have protected, and how they may no longer be serving you.
Our work focuses on building awareness, strengthening boundaries, and increasing self-trust while honoring your desire for connection. Through a trauma-informed and relational approach, we work to untangle obligation from care, guilt from responsibility, and self-worth from over-functioning. Therapy becomes a space to practice new ways of relating—ones that allow for closeness without self-abandonment and support relationships that feel mutual, grounded, and sustainable.
10 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with young adults and adults who have learned to orient themselves around other people’s needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of their own. This can look like being the reliable one, the steady one, the person others turn to, while privately feeling depleted, unseen, or unsure where your own preferences begin. Many people I see have spent years managing relationships, smoothing conflict, or carrying more than their share because it felt safer than disappointing someone or risking disconnection.
Codependent patterns often develop in situations where you had to stay attuned to others to keep the peace, where your worth was tied to being helpful or accommodating, or where expressing your own needs led to tension, withdrawal, or criticism. Over time, this can make it hard to trust your internal signals, set boundaries without guilt, or believe that your needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
In our work together, we look at how these patterns formed, what they have protected you from, and how they show up in your relationships today. We make space for the part of you that learned to stay small, agreeable, or over responsible in order to feel safe, and for the part of you that is tired of doing so much emotional labor. From there, we explore what it means to move through relationships with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice, without abandoning the parts of you that have worked so hard to keep things stable. Supporting people who have organized themselves around others for a long time is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how much you have carried.
26 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Donna M Torbico - HEAL & GROW for ACoAs
Counselor/Therapist, Recovery Therapist in Private Practice 40 years
Co-dependency is an expression of the False Self developed in a narcissistic &/or alcoholic home. It's the compulsion to find one's identity through the eyes of other people, instead of from inside oneself. (Blog : 2017)
40 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Sonia Ovuehor Ovy
Counselor/Therapist, Doctor of science in Counselling Psychology, Msc Conflict Resolution, Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapy, Counselling and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Certificate in Mental Health Studies, Suicide Prevention and Intervention, Diploma in Relationship and Family Counselling, CPD in Neuro Linguistic Programming.
By combining empathy and expertise, I help individuals overcome codependency by exploring:
- Trauma and attachment issues
- Family dynamics and patterns
- Emotional regulation and resilience
- Mindfulness and self-compassion.
9 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ (Online Only)
Codependency
Clear Path Counseling and Wellness Center
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA. LPC
I work with clients who struggle with Codependency issues. During our sessions, we will collaborate to create a plan for addressing them that helps you resolve such issues in a meaningful manner to restore functioning enabling and empowering you to move beyond your past. I practice from a Holistic perspective and commonly employ EMDR and other effective modalities with helping clients achieve balance and purpose in their lives and creative solutions to their problems. This includes exploring past issues and trauma that may be a factor presently. Our goal is to make lasting and desired changes to promote healthy relationships and positive interactions.
28 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ (Online Only)
Codependency
Kaijah Bjorklund
Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LMHC
Codependency often develops as a brilliant survival strategy — if you focus on everyone else's needs, you stay safe, loved, or needed. But over time it can leave you feeling invisible, resentful, and unsure who you even are outside of taking care of others. In our work together, we use IFS to gently explore the parts of you that learned to over-give, and we begin rebuilding your relationship with your own needs, voice, and sense of self — so you can love others without losing yourself in the process.
12 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ (Online Only)
Codependency
MJB Wellness LLC
Hypnotherapist, Certified Hypnotherapist and Coach, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Sex Educator, Certified Reiki
So many of my clients, no matter what issue they initially come in for, have issues related to setting boundaries, communicating with their partners, and consent. I find that before doing any other work with them, I must teach them about consent, setting boundaries, and understanding relationship dynamics. In my sexuality training, I had to learn Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent, which has become the gold standard worldwide for teaching about consent. Certainly, for clients I work with around sexual issues of relationship issues, teaching the Wheel of Consent is the first step. Understanding relationship dynamics for the first time in their lives puts many clients' problems into a new perspective and often resolves their issues without having to do any other work, though we usually do just to clear any residue of past hurts and anger. We often do hypnosis focused on strengthening boundaries and building internal resources so they go forward in a stronger more positive way.
8 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Lauren Palumbo
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Do you find yourself prioritizing everyone else's needs while losing touch with your own? Perhaps saying no feels uncomfortable, you worry about disappointing others, or your sense of worth becomes tied to keeping those around you happy. Together, we'll explore the experiences that shaped these patterns, helping you reconnect with your own needs and build relationships grounded in authenticity, mutual care, and secure connection.
4 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ (Online Only)
Codependency
Anna Yu Lee
Life Coach, PhD, MPH, MA
I rely on scientific articles on the construct of codependency, as well as reasoning with clients regarding their concepts on the subject.
4 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Dr. Walter J. Matweychuk
Psychologist, Ph.D.
My approach teaches you to depend on yourself and to be self-directed. You can learn to help yourself if you improve your discomfort tolerance for doing things for yourself, taking calculated risks, and accept yourself even when you fail.
36 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Esra Nihan Bridge
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Codependent behaviors often stem from childhood trauma, especially in dysfunctional families with neglected emotional needs or constant management of a loved one’s addiction or mental illness. Together, we’ll process this trauma, build healthy relationship skills, and reconnect with your authentic self.
19 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ (Online Only)
Codependency
Lauren Bradley
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Patterns of overgiving, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships often develop for a reason—but they can become overwhelming over time. You might notice difficulty saying no, fear of conflict, or a strong need to keep others happy. In our work together, we’ll explore these patterns with curiosity and without judgment, while building the skills needed to feel more secure, confident, and grounded in your relationships.
10 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ (Online Only)
Codependency
XaHara A. MeGod
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC, R-DMT, CPT
Codependency often shows up as overgiving, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in others’ needs. I gently guide you back to yourself—your desires, boundaries, and worth. Using relational and somatic tools, we’ll heal the patterns that keep you stuck in caregiving at your own expense, and practice what it means to love without losing yourself.
8 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ (Online Only)
Codependency
Jonathan Schnapp
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Codependency can show up as a strong focus on others’ needs at the expense of your own, difficulty setting boundaries, or feeling responsible for how others think and feel. In therapy, we’ll explore how these patterns developed and what they’ve come to mean for you. By building greater awareness and a more balanced sense of self, you can begin to set clearer boundaries, feel more grounded in your own needs, and create relationships that feel more mutual and sustainable.
15 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Susan Estomin
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW, LCSW
Do you feel lost in your relationships?
24 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency
Roland Achtau
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCADC, ICGC-1, CSAT Candidate
Addiction does not only affect the addict but also those closest to him or her. If you are having feelings of hopelessness, anger, resentment, or self-pity about your situation or the situation of a loved one wrestling with addiction, my practice offers services to equip you with the tools needed to recover.
11 Years Experience
Online in Bayville, NJ
Codependency therapists in Bayville, New Jersey Statistics
Codependency therapists in Bayville, New Jersey average 16 years of experience and charge around $204 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Depression (89%), and Anxiety or Fears (88%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$204
Gender ID
| 61% |
Female |
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| 29% |
Male |
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| 6% |
Non-Binary |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 53% |
In Person and Online |
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| 47% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 89% | Depression |
| 88% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 69% | Stress |
| 67% | Loss or Grief |
| 63% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |