Online Relational Psychotherapy therapists in New York City, New York NY
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Lucas Saiter
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, M.A., LMHC
I offer virtual therapy sessions as a way to make care more accessible and adaptable to your life. Whether you're balancing a busy schedule, or simply prefer the comfort of your own environment, online therapy allows us to stay connected and consistent in our work together.
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Dr. Ingrid Solano
Psychologist, PhD
Therapy with me is active, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices—we are doing real work together, not just talking about your week. Each session is intentional and engaging, focused on creating meaningful insight and change you can feel in your daily life.
I see myself as a warm, intuitive, and deeply attentive therapist who believes that meaningful change happens when people feel truly safe, accepted, and understood. My goal is to offer a nonjudgmental space where you can exhale—where you don’t have to have the right words, the right story, or the right reason to be there. Therapy with me is about feeling heard, finding clarity where things have felt confusing or stuck, and reconnecting with yourself in a way that feels real and sustainable.
I am deeply passionate about relationships, emotional honesty, self-acceptance, and the quiet, often unseen struggles people carry. Many of my clients come to therapy feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure why they’re unhappy when, on the surface, life looks “fine.” I work with individuals and couples navigating anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, co-dependency, shame, guilt, and the lasting impact of past experiences or trauma. I also help people talk about things that are hard to name—topics that may feel embarrassing, stigmatized, or kept private for a long time.
I especially enjoy working with people who are curious about themselves and open to growth, even if they feel nervous or unsure at first. You don’t need to be “creative” or insightful to start—just willing to show up. Together, we gently explore your thoughts, emotions, and patterns, and look for more flexible, compassionate ways of relating to yourself and the people you care about. Therapy doesn’t have to feel heavy all the time; there can be space for curiosity, reflection, and even moments of lightness along the way.
My approach is grounded in evidence-based therapies, offered with warmth and humanity. While we honor your past, our work focuses on what’s happening now—and on helping you feel more present, more grounded, and more aligned with your values. I strive to help clients move through life with greater awareness, emotional balance, and self-trust, while reducing the anxiety, sadness, or self-criticism that may be getting in the way.
I primarily use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), the Unified Protocol for emotional difficulties, and mindfulness-based approaches, including Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) skills. In simple terms, this means we work together to notice patterns in thoughts, feelings, and behaviors—and gently shift what’s no longer serving you. These approaches are practical, supportive, and designed to help you feel better, not just understand why you feel the way you do.
At its heart, therapy with me is about building a genuine, supportive relationship—one that helps you feel more like yourself, more connected to others, and more confident in how you move through your life.
15 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Dr. Lois Horowitz
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Ph.D., LCSW
I offer a warm, affirming space where you can show up exactly as you are—without judgment or pressure to be anything else.
I work with individuals navigating anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, shame, and the lingering effects of early emotional wounds.
I treat individuals and couples. And as an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist, I also specialize in supporting clients through identity exploration, coming out, and the challenges of living authentically in a world that doesn’t always make it easy.
37 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Laura Potel
Therapist, LCAT, CST
I offer online therapy sessions via Zoom.
8 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Staci Des Rault
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC. M.Div
Insight alone does not create change, but without it, we're just bumping around in the dark. If you choose to work with me, we will work on both developing insight and self-awareness, as well as behavioral and emotional change. My style is warm and supportive, but I won't shy away from offering constructive feedback if you are open to it. My areas of expertise include helping people recover from alcohol/substance use issues, trauma, family of origin issues, spiritual abuse and religious trauma/deconstruction, grief, anxiety, relationship issues, ADHD management, and stages of life transitions.
14 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Sally Roesch
Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Some people struggle with impulsivity. Others struggle with too much control. Overthinking every decision, following rigid internal rules, and feeling like they have to perform a certain way in social situations. If you relate to the latter, therapy with me might be a good fit. You might be highly competent in many areas of life but find that when it comes to emotions and relationships, things feel frustratingly more complicated.
I also work with people navigating narcissistic personality dynamics. Whether you’ve been labeled "a narcissist" yourself or have spent years struggling in a relationship with someone who fits the description, we can sort through reality, break unhelpful patterns, and find a path to healthier relationships without losing yourself.
I am experienced in working with those who may be struggling with relationship issues, Narcissistic tendencies, mood disorders, impulse behavior, and anxiety. I help clients improve communication, assertiveness, and self-worth. My goal is to help you clarify desires, address obstacles, and achieve your goals. I am committed to providing direct, effective support; no tiptoeing around.
I am intensively trained in Radically-Open DBT (RO-DBT), a specialized treatment for Chronic Depression, Anorexia-Nervosa, and disorders of Over-Control (OC). Radically-Open DBT promotes openness, flexibility, and direct communication as well as other practical, evidence-based therapies. You’ll get clear feedback, collaboration, and usable skills - not endless past analysis or forced positivity. My goal is to identify the patterns that keep you stuck, learn new ways of approaching emotions and relationships, and move toward something different without losing who you are.
Top Specialties
Relationship Issues
Personality Disorders
Radically Open DBT (RO-DBT)
Issues:
Anxiety
Behavioral Issues
Borderline Personality (BPD)
Codependency
Coping Skills
Depression
Disorders of Overcontrol
Dissociative Disorders (DID)
Eating Disorders
Emotional Disturbance
Family Conflict
Infidelity
LGBTQ+
Marital and Premarital
Mood Disorders
Narcissistic Personality (NPD)
Oppositional Defiance (ODD)
Peer Relationships
Self Esteem
Self-Harming
Suicidal Ideation
Women's Issues
Mental Health
Impulse Control Disorders
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Journeys
Treatment Center, OASAS Certified
We offer a hybrid option for individual and group counseling sessions
9 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Dr. David Amarel
Psychologist, Ph.D.
After decades of providing psychotherapy and assessment in offices, I’ve moved recently (2019) into a different space: video. Active listening in a safe, private setting is foundational to this work. I’ve learned that the catalytic elements of good therapy can thrive via video too. Save yourself a trip away from work or home!
32 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Dr. Christopher Lowery, DHSc, CLCP
Clinical Health Practitioner, Board-Certified Life Care Planner
Dr. Christopher A. Lowery, DHSc, CLCP is board-certified, specializing in international telehealth life care planning with a focus on clinical health, rehabilitation counseling, biopsychosocial issues, and global health promotion and prevention issues through the use of holistic evidence-based approaches using a Biopsychosocial Health Consultation Model and the Universal Neurodiversity Continuum (UNC) Model™. Dr. Lowery is skilled in the use of targeted plans, assessments, and developing treatments for behavioral health disorders (e.g., anxiety, depression, employment, trauma, conduct disorder, ADHD, anger, Learning differences, substance use, cognitive functioning, etc.), medical conditions (e.g., chronic pain, burns, high blood pressure, inflammation, lung diseases, and diabetes, etc.), and health behavior changes (e.g., weight management, informed health decisions, occupational health prevention, physical activity, disparities, preventive nutrition, tobacco cessation, risky sexual activity, accident prevention, etc.). Other services also provided are catastrophic and disability case management, and non expert witness litigation support to individuals that suffers from associated disabilities and/or health impairments.
The Universal Neurodiversity Continuum (UNC) Model™ established by Dr. Lowery, is an evidence-informed framework that understands cognitive, emotional, and behavioral traits as existing along a continuum across all individuals. It shifts the focus from fixed diagnostic categories to how traits are expressed and how they impact daily functioning, allowing for more personalized practical, and inclusive approaches to support and well-being.
Dr. Lowery holds a board-certification in life care planning as a Certified Life Care Planner (CLCP) from the International Commission on Health Care Certification (ICHCC), which is accredited and recognized by the American National Standards Institute National Accreditation Board (ANAB). This prestigious certification attests to his qualifications and competence in the health care delivery systems. ANAB’s accreditation ensures that the certification process meets rigorous international standards, confirming his aptitude and expertise for his role as a practitioner.
24 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Manhattan Mental Health Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
We provide online therapy via video conference. You can talk to a therapist from the comfort of your home.
18 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Andy Lapides
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, BCD
I provide confidential, online therapy for clients in New Jersey and New York.
17 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Mary Gale Gurnsey
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I'm an LMFT specializing in helping people build healthier relationships after experiencing relationship trauma, narcissistic abuse, domestic violence, or attachment struggles. Using a trauma-informed, collaborative approach, I help you understand your patterns and reclaim your sense of self.
18 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Farzana Rahman
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-D
I offer weekly psychotherapy through Jane and in-person sessions at a reduced cadence.
11 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Elizabeth Harwood
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, EMDRIA-Certified EMDR Therapist and Consultant-in-Training
We specialize in providing online care for trauma, eating disorders, anxiety, and family therapy. We work to meet you where you are at and help you to facilitate the changes you would like to make in your life. We offer free 15 minute phone consultations, please reach out at our contact info below.
12 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
I work with adults who want to explore patterns in their emotional, relational, and embodied experience-whether related to anxiety, mood, chronic tension or pain, behavioral patterns, or concerns around intimacy, desire, and connection that feel blocked, conflicted, or no longer fully alive. I offer private-pay online services internationally as a psychoanalytic hypnotherapist and clinical sexologist, working within a reflective, depth-oriented process.
7 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Angie Yemma
Therapist, LCAT, BCDMT
You look like you have it all together on the outside, but inside you're exhausted from overthinking, self-doubt, and the pressure to always be "doing enough." Whether you're a teen navigating academic stress, a young adult facing a life transition, or someone struggling with anxiety and perfectionism, therapy can help.
I specialize in working with perfectionist teens and young adults who are tired of feeling like they're never enough. Together, we'll build confidence, manage overwhelming emotions, quiet your inner critic, and create a life that feels more balanced and authentic. My approach combines traditional talk therapy with creative, body-based techniques to help you gain insight, develop practical coping skills, and create meaningful change.
Online therapy offers a convenient and comfortable way to get support from wherever you are in New York State.
16 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Dr. Erica Gardner-Schuster
Psychologist, PhD
My ongoing online interpersonal process psychotherapy groups offer safe, supportive spaces for adults to find more fulfilling connection in their lives. Group focuses on practicing emotional honesty, authentic relating, and processing life stressors and mental health struggles with a therapeutic community of fellow travelers. An attachment and trauma-informed group approach focuses on gaining insight into interpersonal patterns in order to transcend loneliness and overcome obstacles to emotional closeness, belonging, and love. Group members support one another in transcending loneliness and suffering to create the life they want to be living and the relationships that sustain them.
16 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Mona Lee Yousef
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R, CASAC-2, CADC, CCDC, MAC
I am fully licensed as an LCSW-R and LCSW in both New York and New Jersey, respectively. I provide both in-person treatment as well as teletherapy visits in New York and also offer teletherapy sessions to New Jersey residents who work from home.
35 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
Lauren Palumbo
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Prioritizing your self-care and staying consistent is the fastest way to see real change. I offer virtual sessions with early morning availability, making it easy to fit therapy into your life.
4 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Danielle Esses
Psychologist, PsyD
You might find yourself reacting in ways you later regret, getting pulled into the same relationship dynamics, or feeling overwhelmed by emotions that seem to take over. Our sessions focus on helping you understand the functions of emotions or behavioral patterns that are hard to change, and supporting you in feeling equipped to experiment with new ways of being.
In sessions, I don’t just sit back and listen. I’m engaged, thoughtful, honest, and precise in my work - I value understanding your internal experience as accurately as possible and tailoring treatment to closely match your needs. I’ll help you slow things down, name what’s happening in real time, and connect it to larger patterns—while also building concrete skills to help you respond differently. My work is grounded in DBT and relational therapy, so we’re balancing insight with practical change.
I have particular expertise in emotion dysregulation and complex relationship patterns, including when things feel intense, confusing, or hard to control. I also work with people whose struggles are less obvious, but still leave them feeling stuck or dissatisfied. I offer telehealth sessions in California and New York.
8 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
New York City has the largest and most diverse therapy community in the world, with practitioners representing virtually every therapeutic modality, cultural background, and specialty area. The city's pace, density, and cost of living generate pervasive anxiety and burnout, while its diverse boroughs mean therapists fluent in dozens of languages serve communities from every corner of the globe. Columbia University Irving Medical Center, NYU Langone Health, and Weill Cornell Medicine anchor an extensive academic mental health infrastructure, supplemented by thousands of independent practitioners across Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, and Staten Island. New York's therapy culture is deeply embedded — many residents maintain years-long therapeutic relationships and consider finding the right therapist one of the more important decisions they make.
Relational Psychotherapy therapists in New York City, New York Statistics
Relational Psychotherapy therapists in New York City, New York average 15 years of experience and charge around $221 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Anxiety or Fears (77%), Depression (75%), and Trauma and PTSD (61%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$221
Gender ID
| 58% |
Female |
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| 27% |
Male |
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| 8% |
Non-Binary |
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| 7% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 52% |
In Person and Online |
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| 48% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 77% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 75% | Depression |
| 61% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 59% | Stress |
| 57% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 52% | Women's Issues |
| 51% | LGBTQ+ Issues |