Online Codependency therapists in Smithtown, New York NY
We are proud to feature top rated online Codependency therapists in Smithtown. We encourage you to review each profile to find your best match.
Nadira Jackson - TherapyWithDira
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
If you often feel responsible for other people’s emotions or lose sight of your own needs in relationships, you may be struggling with codependent patterns. Together, we’ll explore where these dynamics began, what they protect, and how to create healthier boundaries that honor both connection and self-respect. My approach supports you in finding balance, learning to love others without abandoning yourself.
5 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY (Online Only)
Ren Lee
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with clients through various relationship issues- including attachment wounds, codependency, and difficult relational dynamics.
I am here to support you in exploring connections to yourself, your communities, and the world around you. My approach is rooted in liberation, relational, and psychodynamic work through an anti-oppressive lens, and includes modalities such as somatics, narrative therapy, and mindfulness. I am passionate about working with intersectional identities of race, gender, sexuality, and neurodivergence and I find it incredibly fulfilling to continuously build relationships through empathy, curiosity, and compassion.
6 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY (Online Only)
Dr. Lyndsay Elliott
Psychologist, PsyD.
Codependency often develops so gradually that most people don't recognize it until they are completely exhausted — emotionally drained by relationships that consistently prioritize everyone else's needs over their own. As a licensed clinical psychologist with 20+ years of experience, I help adults identify and break codependent relationship patterns, rebuild healthy boundaries, and develop a stronger, more secure sense of self. Using cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychodynamic insight, and trauma-informed care, I work with clients to untangle the deep-rooted beliefs driving codependent behavior and build genuinely healthier relationships. Telehealth therapy for codependency available across 40+ states.
21 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY (Online Only)
Gregg Unterberger
Licensed Professional Counselor, M.Ed., LPC
John Lee once said, "Recovery from codependency is like kicking heroin, only harder." Our need to please, to fix, to control can take us to the brink of insanity & drive everyone around us crazy, too! But we can learn new ways to think & feel about ourselves so we can step back from enmeshment.
28 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Healing Space Therapy Collective
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-QS, CST
We support clients in breaking unhealthy relational patterns, setting boundaries, and developing a stronger sense of autonomy and self-worth.
11 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Chris Colasuonno
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R, MBA, CASAC
Chris has worked with hundreds of clients who are codependent with various areas of difficulty to set boundaries, self-esteem issues, putting their needs first, asking for help, control issues, etc. Chris has a codependent test on our website to see the level of codependency and wrote information about it. See our website for ways that we can help!
https://stressfreecounseling.com/codependency-counseling/
16 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Susana Scotti, Journey Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PhD
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, and unsure of your own needs or boundaries. You may find yourself prioritizing others at the expense of your well-being, feeling responsible for fixing or rescuing those around you, or experiencing guilt when you try to put yourself first. As a licensed psychologist with expertise in trauma, addiction, and mood disorders, I understand how codependent patterns often develop as a way to cope with past experiences and relational wounds. In therapy, we work together to uncover these underlying dynamics, build self-awareness, and strengthen your sense of identity and self-worth.
My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices. I help clients develop healthier boundaries, improve communication, and learn how to engage in relationships from a place of balance rather than obligation or fear. Whether codependency is connected to past trauma, substance use, or ongoing anxiety or depression, our work will focus on helping you create more fulfilling, stable, and authentic connections, starting with the relationship you have with yourself.
13 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY (Online Only)
MJB Wellness LLC
Hypnotherapist, Certified Hypnotherapist and Coach, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Sex Educator, Certified Reiki
So many of my clients, no matter what issue they initially come in for, have issues related to setting boundaries, communicating with their partners, and consent. I find that before doing any other work with them, I must teach them about consent, setting boundaries, and understanding relationship dynamics. In my sexuality training, I had to learn Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent, which has become the gold standard worldwide for teaching about consent. Certainly, for clients I work with around sexual issues of relationship issues, teaching the Wheel of Consent is the first step. Understanding relationship dynamics for the first time in their lives puts many clients' problems into a new perspective and often resolves their issues without having to do any other work, though we usually do just to clear any residue of past hurts and anger. We often do hypnosis focused on strengthening boundaries and building internal resources so they go forward in a stronger more positive way.
8 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Shayda Ewalt
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency often develops as a survival strategy, especially for those who grew up needing to prioritize others' emotions or safety over their own. You may struggle with boundaries, guilt, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships. In therapy, we explore where these patterns began, strengthen your sense of self, and build capacity for relationships rooted in mutual respect rather than self-abandonment.
10 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY (Online Only)
Total Wellness Center
Treatment Center, We have LCSWs and LPCs providing various talk therapies. It's key to find a provider who fits your unique needs.
Codependency: We guide individuals toward greater independence & healthier relationship dynamics, overcoming patterns of codependency.
11 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Denise Delph
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R
Codependency is something that we don't always realize is defining our relationship, if you have already acknowledged that there is codependency then let's see how we can work together on this issue.
18 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Wildflower Therapy Group
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, C-IAYT
At Wildflower Therapy Group, we help clients explore codependency patterns with compassion and without judgment. Therapy can support clients in understanding relational wounds, building healthier boundaries, reconnecting with their own needs, and developing a stronger sense of self within relationships.
6 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Robert dos Santos Teixeira
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, SMF, MPIA, MA, MSW, LCSW
A measure of codependency exists in ever kind or type of human relationship.
22 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Manhattan Mental Health Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
Our compassionate therapists specialize in relationship issues including codependency.
18 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Christie Roe
Therapist, LMSW
Whatever your experience with codependency, enmeshment, or traumatic bonding, I provide trauma-informed and tailored support with attention to root causes, unmet needs past and present, and resources for relational healing and harmony.
2 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY (Online Only)
Talking Works
Counselor/Therapist, LMSW, LMHC, LCSW
We have many therapists who are experienced in working with codependency issues. Please take a look at our general statement here and at our website: https://talkingworkscounseling.com/
14 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Rose Snyder, EdM, PsyD, LLC
Psychologist, PsyD
Many of my clients find themselves in codependent relationships as a result of their lifelong attachment styles. Together we will look at these patterns and I will support you in gently shifting these patterns away from codependence towards effective interdependence. It is not about learning to be totally self-reliant either—it is more about having a secure attachment within yourself as a primary source of stability, and then reaching out for connection with others from a whole/healthy place. We are social creatures and we need one another, but we feel better when we can relate with others from a place of sturdiness as much as possible too. From that place, we can ask for our needs to be met and connection to be fulfilled, knowing deeply that we have the right to ask and deserve to be attuned to and met by those closest to us. And we can also learn to self-soothe in the moments that that is not available or possible with our loved ones.
23 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Jessica Corea Private Practice
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
We have several practitioners who specialize in Codependency at the practice.
14 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Sam Naimi
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
Codependency, also known as unconscious accommodation, develops when we maintain important connections that require us to set aside our own needs or inner world to feel safe and still connected. Over time, this can lead to chronic self-sacrifice and uncertainty about where you end and others begin.
In psychoanalytic work, we explore how these patterns took shape and what parts of you were set aside to preserve closeness. As this becomes clearer, many people begin to reclaim a stronger sense of inner authority and move toward relationships that allow for mutuality rather than self-erasure.
8 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY
Mary Knoblock, DNH
Hypnotherapist, DNH, RTT Practitioner, Hypnotist, Holistic Naturopath Practitioner, Spiritual Counselor
I can help you work through codependency issues with a lot of different tools, specifically RTT, Emotion Code and many more.
11 Years Experience
Online in Smithtown, NY (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Smithtown, New York Statistics
Codependency therapists in Smithtown, New York average 15 years of experience and charge around $193 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Depression (93%), and Anxiety or Fears (93%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$193
Gender ID
| 59% |
Female |
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| 27% |
Male |
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| 9% |
Non-Binary |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 57% |
In Person and Online |
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| 43% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 93% | Depression |
| 93% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 69% | Stress |
| 67% | Self Esteem |
| 66% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 63% | Women's Issues |