Online Codependency therapists in El Paso, Texas TX
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Codependency
Avery Wageman Passion Flower Therapy
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Codependency patterns can leave you feeling overly responsible for others, struggling to set boundaries, or disconnected from your own needs and identity. You may find yourself prioritizing others at the expense of your well-being, feeling stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics, or having difficulty saying no without guilt.
Avery provides a supportive, nonjudgmental space to help you explore these patterns and understand where they come from. Together, you’ll work on building healthier boundaries, strengthening self-worth, and reconnecting with your own needs, values, and sense of identity. The goal is to help you create more balanced, fulfilling relationships where you can show up for others without losing yourself in the process.
2 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Marci Weinstein
Counselor/Therapist, LCSW
Taking on others emotions and feelings? Can't stay focused on yourself? Feeling like you need to take care of others? Staying self focused, accepting that you cannot change others and/or fix their problems can be hard. You might have learned these unhealthy patterns growing up. You have the choice now and I am here to help. Call me for a free consultation.
9 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Dr. Megan Marks
Psychologist, PhD
You might be the one everyone leans on—always available, endlessly supportive, and quick to smooth things over. But underneath that strength, there’s a quiet exhaustion. Maybe you’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own voice. You may struggle to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, or feel okay when someone else is upset. Maybe you define your worth through how much you give or help, but deep down, you’re craving space to just be… without performing, fixing, or proving.
At The Momentum Practice, I help clients untangle patterns of codependency that often start early—growing up in families where your worth was tied to being helpful, agreeable, or emotionally attuned to others. These patterns can show up in adult life in all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, friendships, caregiving roles, family systems, and even the workplace, where over-functioning often gets mistaken for excellence. You might find yourself constantly people-pleasing, second-guessing your instincts, or feeling panicked at the thought of being left behind. They can be especially layered for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks who’ve had to mask parts of themselves to stay safe, loved, or accepted.
We’ll explore how these ways of relating helped you survive—and how they might be keeping you stuck now. Together, we’ll work on building boundaries that feel empowering (not selfish), tuning into your own needs and desires, and letting go of the belief that your value comes from how much you give. We’ll also look at how systemic pressures may have reinforced these patterns over time. Our work might include unlearning perfectionism, quieting the inner critic, and cultivating self-trust that isn’t tied to how much you do for others.
With over 15 years of experience, I offer a compassionate space to reconnect with your own voice and needs. You don’t have to keep disappearing in your relationships. Whether we’re working one-on-one or navigating these dynamics in couples therapy, you’ll have a space to explore what healthier, more mutual connection can look like. If you're ready to show up more fully for yourself and build connections that don’t come at the cost of your own well-being, I’d be honored to journey alongside you. Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation!
21 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Nicole Zembery
Pre-Licensed Professional, LPC-Associate
If you find yourself putting others first at the expense of your own needs, struggling with boundaries, or feeling responsible for how others feel, you’re not alone. Codependency often comes from deep patterns that once helped you cope—but now leave you feeling drained or stuck. In therapy, we’ll work on strengthening your sense of self, setting healthier boundaries, and creating relationships that feel balanced, not overwhelming.
1 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Underwood Counseling & Consultation, PLLC / Lucy F. Underwood
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-S, NCC, ACS, BC-TMH, EMDRIA Certified, Qualified ART
Underwood Counseling & Consultation, PLLC works with clients to understand the impact of codependency in their life, create strategies to overcome, and accountability to implement new ways of interacting with others. Codependency is frequently seen within families affected by addiction, domestic violence, and spiritual abuse to name a few.
31 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Katrina Gary-Forte'
Counselor/Therapist, Ph.D., SAP, MAC, LCDC
Our staff specializes in co-occurring disorders
10 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I help individuals and couples who feel stuck in codependent patterns that leave them feeling overwhelmed, resentful, or disconnected from themselves or each other. Codependency can show up as difficulty setting boundaries, prioritizing others at the expense of your own needs, fear of conflict or abandonment, or feeling responsible for a partner’s emotions or behavior. Over time, these patterns can strain relationships and erode trust and intimacy.
In therapy, we work to identify how these patterns developed and how they continue to affect communication and emotional balance in your relationship. I help couples learn healthier ways to express needs, tolerate discomfort, and support one another without losing a sense of self. This often includes developing clearer boundaries, improving emotional regulation, and building more balanced and mutual connection.
The goal is not to create distance, but to strengthen relationships by helping each person feel more grounded, autonomous, and secure. As these changes take shape, many couples find that conflict becomes more manageable and intimacy feels more genuine and sustainable.
22 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Tammy Desko
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Are you in a relationship where one person enable another person's self-destructive behavior? Is it hard to say no? Come to counseling as we learn where these behaviors come from and how to turn them around. Also, in counseling we will work on implementing healthy boundaries in any relationship.
14 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Jason Carlettini
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
I have the privilege of seeing tremendous results using my training, experience, and resources with those I have the honor of working with who have the challenge of codependency.
6 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Crystal Williamson
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-S
Co-dependent relationships may come in different forms but they are destructive for both parties involved. I explore the unique aspects of your relationship dynamic and help teach healthier boundaries, empathy and personal responsibility, and a focus on self-acceptance according to the needs of the client in front of me. EMDR can help with prior trauma that may have contributed to recurrent patterns of behavior and responses.
7 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Natalie Frazier
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
We can sometimes loose ourselves in a relationship. Let's get you back on track to knowing your self-worth, finding your confidence, and maintaining healthy boundaries.
5 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Dr. Amy Schullery
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I support clients struggling with codependency issues in their relationships.
19 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Smee Wellness LLC
Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LCPC, LCMHC
If you've spent more energy managing other people's emotions than your own, it might be time to look at the patterns underneath that. We work on identifying where your boundaries blur, rebuilding a sense of self, and learning what healthy interdependence can actually feel like.
11 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
Sugar Land Counseling Center
Counselor/Therapist
Many psychological associates at Sugar Land Counseling Center treat codependency.
31 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Shaina Peng
Counselor/Therapist, LPC Associate, supervised by Frank Cohn (LPC-S)
Help for overfunctioning, rescuing, and losing yourself in relationships. We focus on boundaries, self-trust, and tolerating the discomfort of letting others be responsible for themselves.
1 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Dr. Ylenia Martinez
Counselor/Therapist, PsyD
Codependency often looks like taking care of everyone else while abandoning your own needs. Together, we untangle old survival patterns, people‑pleasing, over‑functioning, struggling to say no! and practice boundaries, self‑trust, and more mutual, sustainable relationships.
6 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Shawna Damiani
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
You're the one who holds everything together. You anticipate everyone's needs before they even ask. You say yes when you mean no, stay when you know you should go, and somehow always end up responsible for everyone else's feelings — while quietly wondering when it's going to be your turn.
Codependency isn't a character flaw. It's a learned way of relating to the world, usually born out of environments where love felt conditional, chaos was the norm, or taking care of others was the only way to feel safe or needed. It made sense once. The problem is that it tends to follow you long after the circumstances that created it are gone.
At Love Let Out, we work with people who are exhausted from over-functioning — those who have poured so much into others that they've lost track of themselves entirely. We help you explore where these patterns began, why they've been so hard to shake, and what it might look like to build relationships rooted in genuine connection rather than fear, obligation, or the need to be needed.
This work isn't about becoming less caring or less giving. It's about learning that your needs matter too. That you are allowed to take up space. That love — real love — doesn't require you to disappear into it.
You've spent a long time taking care of everyone else. It's okay to let this be for you.
8 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX (Online Only)
Codependency
The Recovery Room Therapy Services, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor
At The Recovery Room Therapy Services, PLLC; we provide compassionate therapy to help individuals break free from unhealthy relationship patterns and cultivate self-empowerment. Through supportive guidance, we assist clients in understanding their codependent behaviors, setting boundaries, and fostering emotional independence. Whether you're struggling with people-pleasing, self-worth, or attachment challenges, we offer a safe space for growth, healing, and lasting change.
11 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Daniel Gowan
Counselor/Therapist, LPC-S, LCDC, CSAT
Codependency can quietly drain the joy from relationships. With compassion and practical tools, I support individuals in reclaiming their identity, setting healthy boundaries, and building respectful, loving connections.
24 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
Codependency
Edward Flatow
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
CODEPENDENCY is often confused with interdependency, and it is not the same. The best way I can describe CODEPENDENCY is as an addiction to a person, the same way people become addicted to a drug or behavior. I treat it as such.
10 Years Experience
Online in El Paso, TX
El Paso's location directly on the US-Mexico border defines its mental health landscape, with a predominantly Hispanic population spanning both sides and bilingual Spanish-English therapists at the center of the city's therapy community. Fort Bliss — one of the largest Army installations in the country — creates strong demand for therapists specializing in military trauma, PTSD, and the challenges faced by active-duty families. The 2019 mass shooting at a Walmart in El Paso had a profound impact on the city's collective mental health, and therapists specializing in community trauma and grief have played an ongoing role in recovery. Texas Tech University Health Sciences Center El Paso and University Medical Center of El Paso provide institutional mental health resources for the broader Borderland region.
Codependency therapists in El Paso, Texas Statistics
Codependency therapists in El Paso, Texas average 16 years of experience and charge around $179 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Depression (83%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$179
Gender ID
| 63% |
Female |
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| 31% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 56% |
In Person and Online |
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| 44% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 83% | Depression |
| 75% | Stress |
| 73% | Self Esteem |
| 69% | Loss or Grief |
| 68% | Trauma and PTSD |