Online Infidelity therapists in Mercer Island, Washington WA
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Vanessa Hooper
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC, PMH-C
Infidelity shakes the ground under a relationship, whatever form that relationship takes. I help
individuals and couples, including those in ethically non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships, work through betrayal, rebuild trust, and decide what comes next.
6 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Bobby Newell
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, SEP
I specialize in supporting individuals navigating the impact of infidelity, whether you’re processing betrayal or trying to make sense of your own choices. Infidelity can bring up intense emotions—hurt, anger, confusion, and uncertainty about what comes next. Together, we focus on creating clarity, stabilizing emotions, and helping you move forward in a way that aligns with your values. Whether that means rebuilding trust, setting boundaries, or deciding what’s right for your future, my approach is grounded, nonjudgmental, and focused on helping you feel more clear, steady, and in control during a difficult time.
27 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Dr. Ryan Kitts Schallon
Psychologist, PsyD
Infidelity breaks the story a couple has been telling about themselves. That is what makes it devastating — not just the betrayal, but the revelation that the relationship you thought you were in was not the one that was actually happening. For the person who was betrayed, the ground disappears. For the person who strayed, there is usually something they went looking for that they could not name inside the marriage, and sometimes could not name at all. Therapy after infidelity is not about deciding whether to stay or leave. It is about telling the truth — finally, fully — about what the relationship was, what it wasn't, and whether both people are willing to build something honest on what remains.
3 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Lisa J. Taylor
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Relationships are challenging in the best of circumstances, and infidelity can rock a couple's world. Regardless of your situation, I am here to help you, whether you are making decisions about how to move forward or in the process of coping with the aftermath of an affair. Infidelity does not always mark the end of a relationship, so please note that I am supportive of all journeys and outcomes. In the event of family conflict or even eventual separation or divorce, I also provide coparenting counseling and other parenting support to moms and dads trying to manage their children's needs through this difficult time.
21 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Asher Lipner
Psychologist, Ph.D., SRT
Infidelity and broken trust can leave both partners feeling devastated, confused, angry, and emotionally disconnected. I work with individuals and couples dealing with the aftermath of secrecy, pornography use, affairs, compulsive sexual behavior, and betrayal trauma. My approach focuses on helping people move beyond defensiveness, shame, and blame toward greater honesty, emotional understanding, accountability, and rebuilding trust in a realistic and grounded way.
25 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Roderic Burks - Integrative Mental Health
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MS, MS HSc, MA, LMHC, LPC
Infidelity can leave deep emotional wounds and shake trust in yourself and your relationships. I help clients process the emotions, patterns, and relational dynamics involved, whether you’ve been hurt or have hurt someone else. Together, we work toward healing, understanding, and making choices that align with your values and emotional well-being.
26 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Julien Moe
Hypnotherapist, Diploma in Clinical and Applied Hypnosis, Diploma in Life Coaching
Patients with this disorder are getting resilient in no time. I will make sure you'll get it over. I will train you or your partner for loyalty. I use both therapies and hypnotherapies. Time to be a new you. Life is too short to lead a twisted, unheathy life. Let me straighten out your views and behaviors of infidelity.
Hypnotherapy is a valuable tool for treating the emotional, psychological, and behavioral impacts of infidelity. It helps individuals process trauma, release resentment, and rebuild trust by calming triggers, reducing anxiety.
How Hypnotherapy Helps After Infidelity:Healing Trauma: It addresses PTSD-like symptoms such as intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, and hypervigilance. Emotional Regulation: It helps release intense anger, resentment, and betrayal trauma.Rebuilding Trust: It can help both partners re-establish communication and emotional safety.Changing Perspectives: Clients often use hypnotherapy to change how they feel about the infidelity and stop rumination.Ending Affairs: It can be used to help individuals break the addiction to an affair.
10 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Kendall Matthews
Marriage and Family Therapist, MACFT, LMFTA
Affairs and breaches of trust can shake a relationship to its core. I help partners slow things down, make sense of what happened, and decide how to move forward, whether that’s rebuilding trust, creating new agreements, or finding clarity with care and honesty.
2 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Dr. Tracy Mallett
Psychologist, Psy.D., L.M.F.T., Licensed Psychologist
Infidelity can be one of the most painful and destabilizing experiences a couple can face. The discovery of an affair often brings intense emotions—shock, anger, sadness, guilt, confusion—and leaves both partners questioning what is real, what went wrong, and whether repair is possible.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the emotional aftermath of infidelity with honesty, compassion, and structure. Therapy provides a safe space to slow down the chaos, understand the deeper dynamics that contributed to the rupture, and begin to rebuild a sense of safety and clarity.
For couples seeking reconciliation, our work may include establishing emotional transparency, rebuilding trust through consistent and verifiable actions, and learning new ways to communicate about pain and vulnerability without escalating conflict. For those uncertain about the future of their relationship, therapy can help clarify each partner’s needs and boundaries, and support respectful decision-making about next steps.
For individuals recovering from infidelity—whether betrayed or betraying—therapy focuses on understanding emotional patterns, rebuilding self-worth, and making sense of the experience in a way that fosters growth rather than lasting shame or resentment.
My approach integrates cognitive-behavioral and attachment-based strategies to address both the emotional and practical aspects of recovery. Together, we work toward healing, accountability, and—when possible—renewed trust and intimacy built on a stronger foundation than before.
22 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
PSYCHe, PLLC
Psychologist, PhD, DBT-LBC™, LPC, PsyD, MSW, Marriage and Family Counselor, LCSW
We have extensive experience working with clients who struggle with romantic relationships and has successfully helped multiple women and men with issues such as infidelity, breakups, and dissatisfaction with a partner. We know how to help you figure out what you want, feel like you DESERVE it, and then, make it more likely that you make your dreams reality. We can quickly help identify places you get stuck and accidentally get in your own way.
12 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Dr. Lindsay Perrin
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Infidelity can profoundly affect trust, self-esteem, and a person's sense of security within a relationship. I have extensive experience helping individuals navigate the emotional aftermath of betrayal, whether they are considering rebuilding the relationship, deciding whether to move forward separately, or simply trying to make sense of what has happened. While couples therapy can be an important part of the healing process, individual therapy offers a space to process your own emotions, clarify your needs and values, and make thoughtful decisions about the future of your relationship.
14 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Brian McCormack (Connemara Counseling)
Counselor/Therapist, LPC-A/LMHCA
I provide support for individuals and couples impacted by infidelity, helping clients process betrayal, rebuild trust, and understand the underlying factors that contributed to the breach in the relationship. Using a structured, evidence-based approach, I support clients in navigating complex emotions such as guilt, shame, anger, and grief while fostering accountability and open communication. My work focuses on healing, rebuilding a stronger relational foundation when desired, and guiding individuals toward clarity, growth, and healthier patterns in future relationships.
2 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Dr. Janelle Louis
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, ND, PMHNP-BC
Healing from infidelity requires safety, honesty, and care. I would be honored to help you process the shock, betrayal, and grief while exploring what healing looks like for you—whether you’re rebuilding the relationship or rebuilding yourself.
10 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Ingrid Sthare
Life Coach, CTLC, BCC
Let’s explore your relationship to find the root cause. Infidelity does not have to end your marriage.
15 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Paul W Anderson, PhD
Psychologist, Licensed counseling psychologist, Licensed Addictions counselor, PsyPact
Infidelity rips trust. Not only is it cheating on a spouse or significant other, but the secrecy is what can tear a hole in the marriage or relationship that seems irreparable . However I know how to help couples and support them as they do the hard work of going through the phases of forgiveness, growing in understanding of themselves and each other and eventually reestablishing trust. Call me: 913-991-2302.
45 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Arroyo Psychological Services
Psychologist
We help couples and individuals process the pain of infidelity and rebuild trust, communication, and self-understanding. Therapy provides guidance for healing and clarity in determining the best path forward.
9 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Tycee Belcastro
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT, CSTIP
If you’re reeling from infidelity, your heart might feel like it’s been caught in a storm—swirling with shame, betrayal, confusion, or a sense of abandonment. It’s overwhelming, and it’s okay to feel like your world has been turned upside down. You might be tempted to push it all aside, to pretend it didn’t happen just to keep going. But as hard as it is to face, sweeping it under the rug won’t bring the peace you deserve. Here’s the warm truth: healing is possible. You can rebuild, not just to where you were, but to a place of deeper connection and trust. It’s not an easy path, but you don’t have to walk it alone. I’m here to meet you and your partner right where you are, with compassion and a clear, structured plan to guide you through the pain. Together, we’ll work on practical steps to process the hurt, rebuild trust, and find solid ground again. With your commitment, we’ll turn this chapter into a new beginning—one filled with hope and closeness.
21 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Dr. Shelby Kittinger
Psychologist, PsyD
I help partners and individuals process the pain and disorientation that follow betrayal or broken trust. Using an attachment and emotionally focused lens, we work to understand underlying needs, restore safety, and rebuild (or redefine) connection with honesty and care.
10 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Dr. Danielle Watkins at Sound Wellness Counseling PLLC
Counselor/Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LMHC, NCC, PMH-C
When treating relationship conflict related to infidelity, I help individuals and couples navigate the emotional impact of broken trust within a relationship. This work supports clients in processing feelings such as betrayal, anger, guilt, confusion, and grief while creating space for honest dialogue and accountability. Counseling may focus on rebuilding trust, improving communication, setting healthy boundaries, and understanding underlying relational patterns. Whether the goal is healing the relationship or finding clarity about next steps, the aim is to provide a structured, supportive environment for growth, repair, and informed decision-making.
18 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Gary D. Alexander
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, MFT, NCC
Infidelity can create deep emotional shock, confusion, and a profound rupture of trust within a relationship. In therapy we explore not only the pain of the betrayal itself, but also the relational patterns, unmet needs, emotional dynamics, or even the behavioral addiction that may have preceded it. Whether working with a couple together or with an individual partner, the goal is to foster understanding, healing, and the possibility of rebuilding trust and clarity moving forward.
23 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Infidelity therapists in Mercer Island, Washington Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Mercer Island, Washington average 18 years of experience and charge around $214 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Anxiety or Fears (81%), and Relationship and Marriage Counseling (78%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$214
Gender ID
| 55% |
Female |
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| 45% |
Male |
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Session Type
| 60% |
In Person and Online |
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| 40% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 81% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 78% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 78% | Depression |
| 76% | Divorce |
| 69% | Loss or Grief |
| 66% | Self Esteem |