Perfectionism therapists in West Kelowna, BC
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Perfectionism
Melissa Kaylee De Pace
Counsellor/Therapist, CCC, Registered Psychotherapist (Q), CNP, M.A
Perfectionism can look like ambition from the outside, while internally it can feel like relentless pressure to get things right, avoid disappointing others, and never let yourself fall short. For many people, perfectionism can develop as a learned way of protecting themselves, if I perform well, stay in control, or avoid mistakes, I can avoid criticism, rejection, failure, or the feeling that I’m not enough. Over time, what once helped you cope can become exhausting.
Together, we’ll explore where these expectations came from and what your perfectionism may be trying to protect, while working to separate your worth from your performance. The goal isn’t to lower your standards or stop caring, it’s to help you pursue what matters without fear, self-criticism, and the pressure to be perfect running the show.
3 Years Experience
Online in West Kelowna, BC
Perfectionism
Shauna Switzer, MCP, MA RP
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, MCP, Registered Psychotherapist
Perfectionism can create constant pressure, fear of failure, self-criticism, and emotional exhaustion. Therapy helps individuals challenge unrealistic expectations, develop healthier coping patterns, and build greater balance, flexibility, and self-acceptance.
26 Years Experience
Online in West Kelowna, BC
Perfectionism
Spencer Copland
Registered Psychotherapist, RCC, MCP
Perfectionism can often look like holding yourself to high standards, but underneath it may feel like pressure, self-criticism, and a fear of making mistakes or not being “good enough.” You might notice difficulty slowing down, overthinking decisions, or feeling like your worth is tied to achievement, productivity, or how well you perform. While perfectionism can sometimes feel motivating, it often comes with anxiety, burnout, and a constant sense that things could fall apart.
In our work together, we’ll explore the underlying experiences and beliefs that have shaped these patterns of perfectionism, with a focus on understanding rather than self-judgment. Using a trauma-informed and attachment-focused approach, we’ll work with the cognitive, emotional and nervous system aspects of perfectionism, helping you create more flexibility, self-compassion, and balance. The aim is to help you feel safer being imperfect and more connected to your own internal sense of worth.
I draw from approaches such as ACT, IFS, Mindfulness-Based CBT, EMDR, and somatic-based practices, tailoring our work to your unique needs. Together, we’ll build practical strategies to reduce overwhelm and self-criticism while also supporting deeper healing and a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
I offer both in-person and virtual counselling sessions. You’re welcome to reach out or visit my website to book a free 20-minute phone consultation to see if we’re a good fit.
6 Years Experience
Online in West Kelowna, BC
Perfectionism
Jaswir Dhillon
Registered Psychotherapist, MA
Perfectionism can feel like a constant pressure to get everything right, leaving little room for rest, ease, or self-compassion. You may find yourself stuck in cycles of overthinking, self-criticism, or never feeling quite enough, no matter how much you achieve. Over time, this can become exhausting and disconnect you from what actually matters to you. I offer a steady and supportive space where you can loosen the grip of perfectionism, understand where it comes from, and begin to relate to yourself with more kindness and flexibility. You do not have to keep holding it all alone.
8 Years Experience
Online in West Kelowna, BC
Perfectionism
Taylor Cox
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Are you finding it challenging to navigate relationships? Have you experienced narcissistic abuse? If you are a people-pleaser and find difficulty setting healthy boundaries this may be an indication of relational trauma. As a result you may be experiencing symptoms like anxiety, stress or low self-esteem, that can affect your relationships, work, school and your ability to complete daily tasks. If this is you its time to priotitize your emotional well being. Together we can work on building healthier relationships, improving communication skills, setting boundaries and developing healthier coping skills and tools!
2 Years Experience
Online in West Kelowna, BC
Perfectionism therapists in West Kelowna, BC Statistics
Perfectionism therapists in West Kelowna, BC average 7 years of experience and charge around $164 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Internal Family Systems (IFS) (64%), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (54%), and Somatic Therapy (54%).
Average years in practice
7 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$164
Accept insurance
77%
Offer sliding scale
51%
Gender ID
| 80% |
Female |
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| 20% |
Male |
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Session Type
| 54% |
Online Only |
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| 46% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 64% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
| 54% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 54% | Somatic Therapy |
| 44% | Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) |
| 41% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 41% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 38% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 67% | Young Adult |
| 46% | Senior |
| 36% | Teen |
| 8% | Children |
Client Focus
| 62% | Women |
| 46% | Men |
| 38% | LGBTQ+ |
| 38% | Persons with Disabilities |
| 36% | Asian |