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Codependency therapists in California

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Tracey Kiernan, Marriage and Family Therapist in Santa Monica, CA
Codependency

Tracey Kiernan

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
If you tend to prioritize others’ needs over your own or feel responsible for how others feel, you’re not alone. I help you develop stronger boundaries, reconnect with your needs, and build healthier, more balanced relationships.  
2 Years Experience
In-Person in Santa Monica, CA 90405
Online in California
Daniel Slavin, Marriage and Family Therapist in Los Angeles, CA
Codependency

Daniel Slavin

Marriage and Family Therapist
I help clients understand patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, and losing oneself in relationships. Our work focuses on strengthening boundaries, self-trust, and the ability to feel whole and grounded while staying meaningfully connected to others.  
41 Years Experience
In-Person in Los Angeles, CA 90291
Online in California
Valeriya Bauer, Marriage and Family Therapist in Agoura Hills, CA
Codependency

Valeriya Bauer

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPCC
I work with codependency and navigating healthy, balanced, and secure attachments and relationships.  
5 Years Experience
In-Person in Agoura Hills, CA 91301
Online in California
Sandy Kong, Marriage and Family Therapist in Sacramento, CA
Codependency

Sandy Kong

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Ever feel like your worth is attached to someone else's behavior? What they do or don't do for you? Or what you can or can't do for them? Codependency is when your sense of self-worth and identity starts to depend too much on someone else. Healthy relationships are mutually beneficial, providing love and support to both parties. Codependent relationships, on the other hand, are lopsided, casting one person in the role of constant caregiver. Over time, this dynamic can lead to emotional burnout, resentment, low self-esteem, and difficulty forming mutually healthy relationships. In a healthy relationship, both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity separate from the other person. Codependency can start for many different reasons, often going back to your early life and the relationships you had growing up. For many people, codependency begins in childhood, particularly in environments marked by addiction, neglect, emotional volatility, or inconsistent caregiving. If you grew up in a home where one or both caregivers were emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, or overly dependent on you for support, you may have learned, consciously or not, that love and safety were earned by putting others’ needs before your own. Cultural messages, especially ones that tell you always to put others’ needs before your own, can also play a big role, especially for women. If you struggle with low self-esteem or have trouble setting boundaries, it can make you more likely to fall into codependent patterns in your relationships.  
11 Years Experience
In-Person in Sacramento, CA 95811
Online in California
Pillow Talk Therapy, Marriage and Family Therapist in Newport Beach, CA
Codependency

Pillow Talk Therapy

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
I am attachment based and use this to support codependency concerns.  
7 Years Experience
Online in California, Florida (Online Only)

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