Online Codependency therapists in Big Bear City, California CA
We are proud to feature top rated online Codependency therapists in Big Bear City. We encourage you to review each profile to find your best match.
Codependency
Soma Aloia, SoulWork Somatics & Somatic Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MS, LCST, HES
Many people learn early in life to care for others before caring for themselves. Therapy can help you understand your attachment style so you may strengthen healthy boundaries, reconnect with your own needs, make confident decisions, and build relationships that feel mutual rather than exhausting. You will learn how to resource yourself with embodying and self-care practices. Learning to love all the parts of you.
31 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Jennifer Canu
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency is a common by-product of trauma, when safe boundaries weren't available and people pleasing and over-responsibility for others emotions was a survival skill. When no longer needed to survive, codependency can leave one feeling drained, unseen, and overly responsible for the people around you. An integrated approach with EMDR and/or IFS is particularly helpful with untangling the mixed up thoughts and emotions from past experiences, to integrate appropriate assignment of responsibility, learn and practice healthy boundary setting and increase self-worth.
20 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Aimen Bukhari
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 144748, LPCC 18977
I work with individuals struggling with codependency, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries. Therapy focuses on stabilizing emotional overwhelm, strengthening self-trust, and understanding relational patterns that developed around responsibility, guilt, and attachment.
7 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Trevor Alleman
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
I have helped many clients understand and overcome co-dependency issues. This work is often referred to as differentiation work. It is not easy to have a mind of your own when the people who raised you brought you into their internal dramas and played them out with you. I am here to help such people find their voice and their own unique sense of self.
13 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Vanessa Ffrench
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (140713), Certified Yoga & Meditation Instructor
I have experience working with clients who have codependency issues and backgrounds with attachment issues.
15 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Jennifer Pudlo Therapy & Wellness Consulting
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Codependency often develops from a deep desire to care for others, yet it can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, disconnected from your own needs, and unsure of who you are outside of your relationships. Together, we'll explore the experiences and patterns that have shaped these dynamics, helping you develop healthier boundaries, greater self-awareness, and stronger self-worth. My goal is to empower you to build relationships that are balanced, authentic, and rooted in mutual respect rather than guilt, fear, or the need to please others.
16 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Robin Bates-Pualuan
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Do you find it difficult to say no? Do you always put the needs of others ahead of your own? Do you feel selfish when you take care of yourself? While many people who answer yes to these questions have a generous heart, they can end up feeling used up, taken advantage of, and burned out. Therapy can be a great place to learn to understand the importance of your own needs and how to meet them in a way that's self-nourishing, not selfish.
14 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Morgan Pemberton
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, EMDR certified
At Full Brain Family Therapy, we help you heal the roots of codependency by addressing past wounds and teaching you how to set healthy, sustainable boundaries. Through compassionate, trauma-informed therapy, you’ll build the confidence to prioritize your own well-being—without guilt.
11 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Eve Angela Fritsch
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A.
Codependency can leave you feeling responsible for everyone else's needs while losing sight of your own. Therapy can help you develop healthier boundaries, strengthen your sense of self, and build more balanced, fulfilling relationships.
9 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCMHC, LCAS
Helping clients develop healthier boundaries and more balanced, fulfilling relationships.
7 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Ever After Individual and Family Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
When relationships become imbalanced, codependency can lead to emotional exhaustion and loss of self-identity. We help clients set healthy boundaries, build self-worth, and develop relationships based on mutual respect and independence.
17 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay
Pre-Licensed Professional, Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee, Professional Clinical Counselor Trainee
I support people who feel stuck in people-pleasing or codependent patterns to set healthier boundaries, understand where these patterns began, and build more balanced, reciprocal relationships.
0 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Sandy Kong
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Ever feel like your worth is attached to someone else's behavior? What they do or don't do for you? Or what you can or can't do for them? Codependency is when your sense of self-worth and identity starts to depend too much on someone else. Healthy relationships are mutually beneficial, providing love and support to both parties. Codependent relationships, on the other hand, are lopsided, casting one person in the role of constant caregiver. Over time, this dynamic can lead to emotional burnout, resentment, low self-esteem, and difficulty forming mutually healthy relationships. In a healthy relationship, both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity separate from the other person.
Codependency can start for many different reasons, often going back to your early life and the relationships you had growing up. For many people, codependency begins in childhood, particularly in environments marked by addiction, neglect, emotional volatility, or inconsistent caregiving. If you grew up in a home where one or both caregivers were emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, or overly dependent on you for support, you may have learned, consciously or not, that love and safety were earned by putting others’ needs before your own. Cultural messages, especially ones that tell you always to put others’ needs before your own, can also play a big role, especially for women. If you struggle with low self-esteem or have trouble setting boundaries, it can make you more likely to fall into codependent patterns in your relationships.
11 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Mona Saba Valeriano
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Many clients who grew up with parental alcoholism, chronic rage, or narcissistic or borderline traits find themselves struggling with codependency in adult relationships. Early environments shaped by volatility or emotional unpredictability can create profound anxiety in children, threatening their sense of safety and attachment. In response, many learn to prioritize maintaining connection at any cost—often at the expense of their own needs, feelings, and boundaries.
Using an integrative approach that includes IFS parts work, ISTDP, and the somatic processing of EMDR and Brainspotting, I help clients rebuild their relationship with themselves—strengthening self-esteem, self-trust, and assertiveness. As clients deepen their internal security, their external relationships often shift as well. They become more able to show up authentically, tolerate conflict, and make choices aligned with their well-being rather than fear.
18 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Mind Study Center
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, M.D., Ph.D.,
At Mind Study Center, we offer compassionate support for individuals struggling with codependency. Through personalized therapy, we help clients recognize unhealthy patterns in relationships, develop healthier boundaries, and build self-esteem. Our goal is to empower individuals to break free from codependent behaviors, fostering independence, emotional well-being, and stronger, more balanced connections with others.
10 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Dr. Cassidy Blair, PSY.D.
Psychologist, B.A., M.A., Psy.D.
Codependency calls for effective therapies, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, seeking to alter the character of close interpersonal relationships.
18 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Wildflower Therapy Group
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, C-IAYT
At Wildflower Therapy Group, we help clients explore codependency patterns with compassion and without judgment. Therapy can support clients in understanding relational wounds, building healthier boundaries, reconnecting with their own needs, and developing a stronger sense of self within relationships.
6 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Julie Anderson
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency can leave you feeling depleted and insecure and I can assist you in understanding its roots while also helping you learn to create more balance in caring for others and yourself.
26 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA
Codependency
Stephanie Brumfield
Therapist, LCSW
In my therapeutic practice, I address codependency as a complex interplay of emotional dynamics that often stems from deep-seated needs for approval, validation, and love. This pattern of behavior, while initially developed as a survival strategy in response to challenging relational environments, can lead to a loss of self-identity, boundary issues, and an overarching sense of dissatisfaction in one's relationships and personal life. Recognizing codependency as a sign of the soul's longing for genuine connection and self-realization, I offer a compassionate space for individuals to explore and understand these patterns, fostering a journey towards healing and autonomy.
The focus of our work together is on unraveling the layers of codependency, identifying its roots in past experiences, and understanding its impact on current relationships and self-perception. By cultivating self-awareness and self-compassion, clients are guided towards reclaiming their independence, establishing healthier boundaries, and developing a stronger sense of self-worth. This transformative process not only improves relationships with others but also deepens the connection to oneself, enabling a life lived with more authenticity and fulfillment.
Emphasizing the importance of personal growth and empowerment, my approach seeks to empower individuals to break free from the cycles of codependency, leading to a life marked by healthier relationships, emotional resilience, and a profound sense of inner freedom. Together, we work to create a future where one can engage in relationships not out of neediness or fear, but from a place of strength, wholeness, and genuine love.
8 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Growth and Change Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
When my identity becomes wrapped up in what my partner thinks about me, I find myself in the codependant position. It becomes hard for me or my partner to feel anything because our feelings are so triggering to each other. If we were both healthy my partner could have a bad day or a bad mood and I could be fine. But when I am codependent, I need my partner to be happy all the time because if they mad, sad, or bad, it means there is something wrong with me and now I am in an identity crisis. If you can relate to this, reach out to us, we can help you engage principles of relational intelligence in your life that will support your emotional stability and relational well being.
8 Years Experience
Online in Big Bear City, CA (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Big Bear City, California Statistics
Codependency therapists in Big Bear City, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (81%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Gender ID
| 69% |
Female |
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| 25% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 88% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 81% | Depression |
| 76% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 71% | Stress |
| 71% | Self Esteem |
| 61% | Loss or Grief |