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Online Perfectionism therapists in Cupertino, CA

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San Diego, California therapist: Amy @ Inner Nature Therapy, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Amy @ Inner Nature Therapy

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, PMH-C
Perfectionism is the thief of joy! As a recovering perfectionist myself, I will be kind but honest with you when I notice perfectionism creeping in to your thinking and self-image. By gently rooting it out, I can support you towards accepting things as they are while remaining confident in yourself and motivated to make positive changes.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Nashville, Tennessee therapist: Emily St. Amant, licensed professional counselor
Perfectionism

Emily St. Amant

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-MHSP-S (TN), LPCC (CA)
Perfectionism shows up in many of my clients for a variety of reasons, and I enjoy working with people as they embrace their real selves.  
18 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Beverly Hills, California therapist: Danielle Esses, psychologist
Perfectionism

Danielle Esses

Psychologist, PsyD
Perfectionism can look like high standards on the surface, but often comes with anxiety, self-criticism, and difficulty feeling satisfied or at ease. Therapy helps you understand the function of these patterns and develop a more flexible, sustainable way of approaching achievement and self-worth.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
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Los Angeles, California therapist: Kim Gibson, licensed professional counselor
Perfectionism

Kim Gibson

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, ATR
Many of my clients experience perfectionism secondary to ADHD or anxiety. I enjoy helping clients identify this pattern and explore what is behind it and if its time to change it.  
25 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Arcadia, California therapist: G. Roman Gupta, LCSW, therapist
Perfectionism

G. Roman Gupta, LCSW

Therapist, LCSW
I have been practicing for almost 20 years and I have a strength-based, trauma-informed, culturally aware, LGBTQ+ affirmative, sex positive, kink positive, poly affirming, feminist perspective. I have trained and practiced in a variety of treatment methods that offer us a variety of ways to meet your goals whether as an individual, couple, or family.  
18 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: Heidi Hartston, psychologist
Perfectionism

Heidi Hartston

Psychologist, PhD
Therapy can help you navigate the traps related to perfectionism, including procrastination, self-criticism, fear of failure, imposter syndrome, overthinking and fear of falling short. We can work to quiet the inner critic, address black and white thinking in evaluating yourself and your work, and find purpose driven motivation (rather than fear driven). Shifting your inner conversation can result in great relief and can unlock your creativity, reinvigorate your interest and have you feeling proud of your work and your skillset. I combine insightful, caring depth work with evidence based techniques that effectively free you from self-sabotaging patterns, and help you to build the balanced, happy life you deserve.  
35 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Redmond, Oregon therapist: Kristina Anzell, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Kristina Anzell

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, CPSC
You are used to putting in extra work to get it right. When you don't do something right the first time, you beat yourself up and then spend time learning, researching and then don't stop trying until you get it perfect. The issue... babies do not work that way. They are all different, they are not predictable and they are not able to be controlled. You are spending too much time and energy on something that is "supposed to come naturally" and it feels awful! Get the support you need!  
10 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Long Beach, California therapist: LaTianna Williams, Therapy, Sexology, and Holistic Tantra, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

LaTianna Williams, Therapy, Sexology, and Holistic Tantra

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, CTRS, ABS
Perfectionism and Imposter’s Syndrome: Perfectionism can create the illusion of success while quietly fueling anxiety, self-criticism, burnout, procrastination, and fear of failure. No matter how much you achieve, it may never feel like enough. I help clients uncover the beliefs and experiences driving perfectionism and develop healthier ways of relating to themselves and their goals. Together, we’ll cultivate self-compassion, resilience, and a more balanced approach to achievement. This work is about letting go of impossible standards and creating space for growth, authenticity, and genuine fulfillment.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Yorba Linda, California therapist: New Beginnings Christian Counseling, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

New Beginnings Christian Counseling

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Perfectionism can feel like a constant pressure to perform, achieve, or appear “good enough,” often leaving you exhausted, anxious, or self-critical. It’s usually rooted in early experiences, fear of failure, or unmet expectations. In therapy, we explore the beliefs driving perfectionistic patterns, develop healthier self-compassion, and create practical strategies for balance and emotional freedom. With Christ-centered guidance, you’ll learn to embrace progress over perfection, honor your worth, and live with greater peace and authenticity.  
15 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Tara McGrath, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Tara McGrath

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
You may not identify as a "perfectionist" because you're not doing things perfectly. In reality, people who struggle with perfectionism feel like they're never performing well enough, and they can always find the flaws in everything they do. These tendencies can also with correlate with procrastination. I work with people to improve their self-compassion and self-worth to allow for excellence instead of unrealistic perfection.  
23 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: David Sudyka, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

David Sudyka

Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Perfectionism can create constant pressure to get everything right, often leading to stress, procrastination, or feeling like nothing is ever good enough. It can be hard to relax or feel satisfied with what you accomplish. In therapy we will work on understanding where these patterns come from and how to shift them into something more balanced. The goal is to help you feel more flexible, more self accepting, and less weighed down by expectations.  
4 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Menlo Park, California therapist: J. Rosalyn Diehl, licensed mental health counselor
Perfectionism

J. Rosalyn Diehl

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPPC, LPC
Perfectionism can leave you feeling stuck in a cycle of overthinking, self-doubt, and relentless pressure to meet impossible standards. You may struggle with fear of failure, difficulty relaxing, or feeling like your worth is tied to achievement. I help women identify the patterns that fuel perfectionism, build self-compassion, and develop healthier, more balanced ways of approaching life and relationships.  
12 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Lafayette, California therapist: Nes Pinar Psychotherapy, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Nes Pinar Psychotherapy

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Many people don’t realize that perfectionism isn’t about doing things perfectly—it’s about feeling like anything less than what they had in their minds is unacceptable. This mindset often creates constant self‑criticism, pressure, and a sense that nothing is ever “good enough,” even when you’re working incredibly hard. I help clients notice these patterns with compassion and begin shifting toward a more grounded, accepting way of relating to themselves.  
15 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Sacramento, California therapist: Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay, pre-licensed professional
Perfectionism

Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay

Pre-Licensed Professional, Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee, Professional Clinical Counselor Trainee
I help clients struggling with perfectionism, self-criticism, and burnout learn to set kinder expectations, tolerate mistakes, and build a more flexible, values-based sense of success.  
0 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
San Francisco, California therapist: Sarah Jane Thomas, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Sarah Jane Thomas

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Perfectionism keeps you stuck in all-or-nothing thinking, where everything has to be perfect or it feels like a total failure. This mindset makes it really hard to exist in the grey area where life actually happens. We will explore where those rigid standards came from and practice getting comfortable with the messiness of being human instead of striving for unattainable perfection. Our work is about reminding you that you matter even when you are not producing, achieving, or grinding your way through the day.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
San Luis Obispo, California therapist: Liza Roth, MA, LMFT, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Liza Roth, MA, LMFT

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Perfectionism isn't about doing things perfectly, it's about finding fault easily. Somewhere along the way, you came to believe that if you did things perfectly, you would be safe and free from worry. Instead, you are still full of worry and are just plain exhausted. Let's work together to figure out how perfectionism serves you, how it doesn't, and how you can find balance and inner peace.  
5 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Valley Village, California therapist: Layla Ashley Psychotherapy, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Layla Ashley Psychotherapy

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Perfectionism can create constant pressure to perform or appear flawless. In sessions, we explore how to shift rigid expectations, and cultivate a healthier relationship with achievement and self-worth.  
23 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Long Beach, California therapist: Freestyle Supervision and EMDR Group LLC, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Freestyle Supervision and EMDR Group LLC

Counselor/Therapist, LPCC-S, LEP, NCC, APCC, AMFT, ASW, NCC
Perfectionism is often a survival strategy used to feel safe or worthy. We help you peel back the layers of high-functioning anxiety to find a life based on "good enough" and genuine self-acceptance  
4 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Valencia, California therapist: Elizabeth Nims, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Elizabeth Nims

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
For those experiencing perfectionism, I can help you understand the origins of this belief and give skills to shift to seeking excellence over perfectionism and understanding your innate worth.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Santa Barbara, California therapist: Allie Michie, MS, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Allie Michie, MS

Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT159347
Perfectionism often looks like high standards from the outside, but on the inside it can feel like never being enough. I work with clients to get curious about where that drive comes from, what it's protecting, and how to build a relationship with yourself that's a little more honest and a lot more kind.  
2 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA

Perfectionism therapists in Cupertino, California Statistics

Perfectionism therapists in Cupertino, California average 13 years of experience and charge around $203 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Perfectionism (100%), Trauma and PTSD (83%), and Anxiety or Fears (80%).

Average years in practice

13 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$203

Gender ID

71% Female
15% Male
7% Non-Binary
7% Gender Fluid

Session Type

55% In Person and Online
45% Online Only

Top Specialties

100% Perfectionism
83% Trauma and PTSD
80% Anxiety or Fears
78% Life Transitions
75% Stress
70% Depression
65% Self Esteem

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