Online Codependency therapists in Oxford, Connecticut CT
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Shelley Klammer
Counselor/Therapist, MTC, REACE, FOT, CHyp
If you are a heart-centred, empathic woman, you might have challenges setting healthy boundaries with people and could be stuck in fawning, pleasing, and appeasing patterns to feel safe and connected. I can support you in defining your values and setting either flexible or non-negotiable boundaries, depending on the circumstances. I can help you move through self-doubt and into your authentic self-expression. The therapy that I offer is in-depth and often involves going back to the inner child, where your inner defense patterns and relationship patterns began, to initiate deep emotional healing and safety.
20 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT (Online Only)
Molly Toomey
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Folks can get "stuck" in a pattern of codependent relationships as a reaction or response to their relationships with caregivers from childhood. Your body and mind might be seeking reassurance, connection, safety, but you struggle with boundaries, feel constantly guilty or responsible for others' feelings, and have difficulty separating out your own self-worth and sense of self from that of the other person's. My relational approach focuses a lot on attachment (close relationships) and helps folks recognize their patterns, explore how they show up in their past and present relationships, experiment with different ways of connecting and communicating, and rewire themselves toward healthier relationships with others and themselves.
9 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT (Online Only)
Gayle MacBride
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Codependency is a learned pattern of interacting. We can unlearn these patterns, too. First we are going to identify the needs and learn more accurate self talk around self-esteem and self-worth. We will talk about triggers that might cause you to fall back into old patterns and ways to act with love, but not entangled in someone else's distress.
20 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT
Dr. Jeannine Pablo
Psychologist, LP, LCMHC, MLADC
Chronic people-pleasing, fear of abandonment, and a habit of prioritizing others' needs over your own can quickly drain your mental well-being. Using evidence-based cognitive behavioral strategies, I help individuals identify the origins of codependent habits and break free from toxic relationship cycles. Our clinical work focuses heavily on establishing healthy personal boundaries, building secure attachment styles, and shifting the therapeutic lens back to your own self-worth, autonomy, and identity.
23 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT (Online Only)
Dr. Brian M. Berman
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I specialize in the treatment of codependency and utilize elements of self-compassion, communications skills and emotion focused therapy (EFT) to help clients improve boundary setting .
22 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT
GRIS ALVES
Counselor/Therapist, Compassionate Inquiry, Trauma Informed Mindfulness Teacher
I help clients struggling with codependency understand how early attachment experiences and relational patterns shape overgiving, people-pleasing, and boundary challenges. Using a trauma-informed, compassionate approach, we work to build self-awareness, emotional autonomy, and healthier, more balanced relationships. Therapy provides a safe space to break old patterns and reconnect with your authentic self.
11 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT
Bold Expressions Therapy
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Codependency is a circular pattern that emerge in relationships when one person needs another person to need them in order to keep the relationship going. This is an unhealthy pattern and often leads to unhappiness and toxic patterns in relationships. I approach these relationships from a place of empathy and concern for all parties involved. It is my goal to illuminate these patterns and teach individuals to set healthy boundaries that will allow them to break free of codependent relationships and live healthier and happier lives with friends and family.
6 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT
Total Wellness Center
Treatment Center, We have LCSWs and LPCs providing various talk therapies. It's key to find a provider who fits your unique needs.
Codependency: We guide individuals toward greater independence & healthier relationship dynamics, overcoming patterns of codependency.
11 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT
Dr. Ryan Kitts Schallon
Psychologist, PsyD
Codependency is not loving too much. It is having learned, very early, that your survival depended on monitoring someone else's emotional weather — that your needs were safest when they were invisible, even to you. The exhaustion of it is real. So is the terror of stopping. Therapy is not about learning to stop caring for others. It is about recovering the self that went underground in order to make all that caretaking possible.
3 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT
Michael Lockwood of Scene Creative Life Solutions
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LMSW
Breaking free from the chains of codependency is a courageous journey towards reclaiming autonomy and building healthier relationships. I provide a compassionate space to untangle the intricate threads that bind unhealthy patterns. Together, we explore the roots of codependency, unraveling the dynamics that hinder personal growth. Together we focus on establishing boundaries, fostering self-awareness, and cultivating a strong sense of self.
11 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT (Online Only)
Peter C. Jackson, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD
If you find yourself consistently prioritizing others' needs over your own, struggling with boundaries, or seeking external validation, you may be experiencing patterns of codependency. My approach offers a clear path to reclaiming your authentic self. We will work to identify these ingrained dynamics, fostering a deeper connection to your inner wisdom and personal truth. The goal is to empower you to navigate relationships with greater clarity, strengthen your sense of self, and build truly balanced and fulfilling connection.s
33 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT
Avena Psychological Services
Psychologist, PsyD, PhD, LCSW, LMHC, LMSW, MHC-LP
Treating codependency is a journey towards reclaiming your sense of self and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships. With a compassionate and insightful approach, the therapists at Avena Psychological Services will guide you through exploring the roots of your codependent patterns and uncovering the ways they impact your life. Utilizing a combination of therapeutic approaches, our therapists will help you rewrite your personal narrative, challenge limiting beliefs, and establish firm, healthy boundaries. Through this process, you will develop a stronger sense of self-worth and independence, learning to nurture relationships based on mutual respect rather than dependency. Together, we will work to transform your patterns of behavior, empowering you to build more fulfilling connections and embrace a life where you are truly at the center of your own story.
11 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT (Online Only)
Dr. Sonia Ovuehor Ovy
Counselor/Therapist, Doctor of science in Counselling Psychology, Msc Conflict Resolution, Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapy, Counselling and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Certificate in Mental Health Studies, Suicide Prevention and Intervention, Diploma in Relationship and Family Counselling, CPD in Neuro Linguistic Programming.
By combining empathy and expertise, I help individuals overcome codependency by exploring:
- Trauma and attachment issues
- Family dynamics and patterns
- Emotional regulation and resilience
- Mindfulness and self-compassion.
9 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT (Online Only)
XaHara A. MeGod
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC, R-DMT, CPT
Codependency often shows up as overgiving, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in others’ needs. I gently guide you back to yourself—your desires, boundaries, and worth. Using relational and somatic tools, we’ll heal the patterns that keep you stuck in caregiving at your own expense, and practice what it means to love without losing yourself.
8 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT (Online Only)
Dr. Megan Marks
Psychologist, PhD
You might be the one everyone leans on—always available, endlessly supportive, and quick to smooth things over. But underneath that strength, there’s a quiet exhaustion. Maybe you’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own voice. You may struggle to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, or feel okay when someone else is upset. Maybe you define your worth through how much you give or help, but deep down, you’re craving space to just be… without performing, fixing, or proving.
At The Momentum Practice, I help clients untangle patterns of codependency that often start early—growing up in families where your worth was tied to being helpful, agreeable, or emotionally attuned to others. These patterns can show up in adult life in all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, friendships, caregiving roles, family systems, and even the workplace, where over-functioning often gets mistaken for excellence. You might find yourself constantly people-pleasing, second-guessing your instincts, or feeling panicked at the thought of being left behind. They can be especially layered for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks who’ve had to mask parts of themselves to stay safe, loved, or accepted.
We’ll explore how these ways of relating helped you survive—and how they might be keeping you stuck now. Together, we’ll work on building boundaries that feel empowering (not selfish), tuning into your own needs and desires, and letting go of the belief that your value comes from how much you give. We’ll also look at how systemic pressures may have reinforced these patterns over time. Our work might include unlearning perfectionism, quieting the inner critic, and cultivating self-trust that isn’t tied to how much you do for others.
With over 15 years of experience, I offer a compassionate space to reconnect with your own voice and needs. You don’t have to keep disappearing in your relationships. Whether we’re working one-on-one or navigating these dynamics in couples therapy, you’ll have a space to explore what healthier, more mutual connection can look like. If you're ready to show up more fully for yourself and build connections that don’t come at the cost of your own well-being, I’d be honored to journey alongside you. Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation!
21 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT
Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
Codependency often reflects early relational patterns in which emotional needs, boundaries, and self-worth became entangled with the needs of others. My work integrates psychoanalytic exploration and somatic awareness to understand how these patterns continue to shape adult relationships. Together, we work toward greater emotional autonomy, clarity, and the capacity to remain connected to oneself while being close to others.
7 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT (Online Only)
Beth Clardy Lewis
Counselor/Therapist, LPC-S
Codependency often comes from a lifetime of caretaking, people-pleasing, and struggling to set boundaries. I help clients untangle these patterns with compassion while teaching the emotional and relational skills needed to develop healthy autonomy. My approach is direct, empowering, and rooted in deep therapeutic experience. Through our work, you’ll learn to prioritize your needs without guilt and cultivate relationships that honor your worth.
22 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT (Online Only)
Dr. Ingrid Solano
Psychologist, PhD
I provide couples/family/relational therapy for adolescents and adults both in the context of their relationships as well as through relationship-focused therapy for individuals who want to improve their interpersonal lives. Our relationships impact our thoughts, our feelings, and our behaviors. Relationships can be supportive, or they can weigh us down. How our relationships impact us can be obvious to us and everyone around us, or they can be insidious and live in the pit of our stomachs-- creeping up on us as feelings we can’t put the right words to. ...and anywhere in between… It can be difficult to understand and connect how these feelings slowly change what we do and who we are. ‘Relational’ therapy with more than one client aims to help improve interactions with each other, achieve relational goals, and cultivate value and meaning together.
15 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT
Peter Gould
Psychologist, Ph.D.
As a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in codependency, I provide compassionate and effective treatment for individuals involved in enmeshed relationships who seek to develop a stronger sense of self and establish healthier boundaries. My approach, informed by evidence-based therapies such as CBT and interpersonal therapy, is customized to address the unique needs of each individual.
22 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT (Online Only)
Louise Perry
Registered Psychotherapist, IFS UKCP HCCP BAAT
I work with adults who struggle with patterns often described as codependence, including over-responsibility for others, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and a sense of self that becomes organised around relationships. These patterns are usually adaptive responses developed over time, rather than personal failings.
My work draws on Integrative Art Psychotherapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering ways to understand how these relational strategies developed and what they may be protecting. Sessions focus on increasing clarity about needs, limits, and patterns of attachment, allowing different ways of relating to emerge. We may work through conversation, creative exploration, or a combination of both, depending on what feels most useful.
8 Years Experience
Online in Oxford, CT
Codependency therapists in Oxford, Connecticut Statistics
Codependency therapists in Oxford, Connecticut average 19 years of experience and charge around $198 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Depression (86%).
Average years in practice
19 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$198
Gender ID
| 61% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 51% |
Online Only |
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| 49% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 86% | Depression |
| 76% | Self Esteem |
| 71% | Loss or Grief |
| 69% | Stress |
| 59% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |