Online Codependency therapists in Poole, England ENG, United Kingdom UK
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Codependency
Kylie Feller
Licensed Professional Counsellor, MA, CCC
You don’t have to lose yourself to be loved.
If you find yourself overgiving in relationships, struggling to set boundaries, or feeling anxious when you're not needed, you may be dealing with codependent patterns. These often come from early wounds and parts of us that equate love with self-sacrifice or people-pleasing. As someone who specializes in dating and relationships—and is currently writing a book on dating through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS)—I help you identify the parts of you that fear being alone, not enough, or too much. Together, we’ll untangle old patterns, heal the underlying wounds, and reconnect you with your True Self—so you can build relationships from a place of wholeness rather than need.
10 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Lulu AlRashdi
Life Coach
Codependency is often the attempt to meet, through adult relationships, emotional needs that were not fully met in childhood. The goal is not to become independent from everyone, but to develop relationships based on mutual respect, healthy boundaries, and genuine connection rather than unmet childhood needs.
3 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Jade at We Tackle Trauma
Counsellor/Therapist, MAASW, MSW, QTS, BSc (Hons)
Hey there, I combine lived experience with professional knowledge to help you unpick how codependency is impacted your life and how to address this. Whether you are seeking to explore the impacts of your early relationships and how these may have impacted you, or you are aiming to set clearer boundaries in your adult relationships, or just to select better relationships; I am here and happy to help.
I also have the skillset to explore with you, how embodied trauma may contribute to codependency, and how to move the body through trauma; through the use of somatic practices. Consults are free and instantly bookable on the We Tackle Trauma website, I look forward to meeting you- Jade Evelyn Gayle
20 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Adima Hawkes
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychotherapist, Spiritual Teacher, Gene Keys Guide, Trainer Tibetan Acupressure & Iridology
Spiritually speaking, we're all dependent on each other for our natural needs and according to the cosmic laws. Down to earth speaking, most of us experience dependencies with others in our daily life as limiting to our personal freedom. I invite you to find out what freedom really is or means. This enables us to discern the difference between an unavoidable natural dependency and a personal dream or even power trip. Above all, we need to learn to see our own blind spots! Not those of the other, which is always the easier thing to do.
30 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Dr Grenville Major
Therapist, MBchB, MRCpsych, MSc psychological therapies
Your relationship constitutes a significant proportion of your life, and contributes immensely to well-being and happiness. Having a balanced relationship should be the goal, where you can give and take in equal measure. To be able to experience gratitude and the joy of helping someone you love. I would like to meet with you to see what can be done to help you. This will enable us to get to know each other and see if we can work together. It’s important for you to work with someone you trust and feel safe with.
45 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Salvadore Coaching LLC
Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
Codependency often begins as care, loyalty, or sensitivity—but over time it can become self-abandonment. And when you abandon yourself, you don’t actually protect the relationship—you weaken it.
Oftentimes, many people find themselves over-functioning, people-pleasing, managing another’s emotions, or staying in relationships that require them to shrink their needs in order to keep connection. The result is often a combination of anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, and a loss of clarity about what they actually want.
In our work together, we aim to de-escalate these patterns and explore what they’ve been protecting: perhaps a fear of conflict, abandonment, guilt, or the belief that love must be earned through sacrifice. We build practical skills for boundaries, self-trust, and direct communication, so you can stay connected without losing yourself. The goal is not to become “less caring,” but to create relationships that include you—relationships where care and reciprocity can coexist.
14 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Jason Fletcher Hypnotherapy and Coaching
Hypnotherapist, FNCIP SQHP
Codependency often involves patterns of over-responsibility, people-pleasing, or losing a sense of self in relationships. I support people in exploring how these patterns developed and how they affect emotional wellbeing and boundaries. Codependency work focuses on building healthier autonomy, emotional stability, and more balanced relationships.
23 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Psykhe Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MACP
Each therapist has their own specialties, and we focus on connecting you with the clinician whose experience best fits your needs. Therapy may involve developing coping strategies, processing past experiences and childhood patterns, and cultivating greater self-compassion and emotional well-being.
8 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Jayne Batten
Counsellor/Therapist, MSc, CT, MPCC, MBACP
I help clients recognize patterns of self-neglect, over-functioning and emotional enmeshment that often stem from childhood trauma or unstable attachments. The focus is on building healthy boundaries, self-worth, and the ability to tolerate other's discomfort without rescuing or contolling. Therapy supports clients from shifting from people-pleasing to authentic, balanced relationshhips grounded in mutual respect and autonomy.
8 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Jessica Ryan-Zeman
Registered Psychotherapist, MCAP, BA (Psych)
Codependency is often at the core of most. of issues so learning. to identity and express your own needs and feelings and set healthy bolundaies in relationships is vital within any recovery process and within couples therapy.
16 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Chris Chicoteau
Counsellor/Therapist, Master of Counselling, IFS Level 2
Gain clarity about your relationship both with yourself and others and break free from historical coping strategies.
16 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Julie Kuhn - Counsellor & Supervisor
Counsellor/Therapist, Therapeutic Arts Counsellor BACP (Accred)
Counselling can provide that space for you to be able to get to know who you are and what you need and want. Counselling can also be challenging as you Re-evaluate your thoughts feelings and opinions. Getting to know yourself can build resilience and assertiveness which are tools that can help you become more dependent and build self-esteem. Counselling can help you to respond and communicate as well as helping you to take back control of your life.
9 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Ashley Horsley
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, MA, Post MA Dip, BACP Accred
Co-dependency is when we lose sight of ourselves and get lost in someone else; when we have never learned how to notice and assert what we ourselves need in a particular relationship. Do you put the other first and increasingly hear a trapped voice in you whispering ´´What about me?´´ Let´s coax that part of you out, find out what you need to own as yours, what independence really can look like when it is allowed in.
24 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Karine Flynn
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPS
Codependency is fundamentally a nervous system pattern - a deep-rooted orientation toward others' emotional states that developed as a survival strategy and never got updated. Understanding this intellectually rarely shifts it. The work happens at the level of the body: learning to locate your own internal experience, to stay with it under relational pressure, and to build the felt sense of self that makes genuine boundaries possible.
23 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Emma Poxon
Counsellor/Therapist, MA Person-Centred Experiential Counselling
Codependency can feel completely overwhelming, like there's no way out and you cannot exist without the person, animal, or item you are bonded to. As your therapist I am here to be with you, reminding you that you are not alone. We can explore how codependency feels for you, when it is at its worst, and help you to gain more of a sense of control over this. You are not a problem to be fixed, my aim as your therapist is to try to provide the right conditions to allow you to explore whatever you want to bring to therapy to support your growth. This isn't a therapeutic approach wherein I will set a treatment plan or tell you what to do. We will work together as a partnership rather than me taking away your autonomy. I absolutely love the work I do, it is the biggest privilege being let into people’s personal worlds and seeing the immense growth of my clients. I hope to hear from you soon!
7 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Lisa Sanfilippo
Therapist, MA, MSc, UKCP, MBACP
Does the other person have to be ok for you to feel ok? You might find working with codependency helpful! Cycles of unhealthy relationships, love addiction, codependency, putting others first, "people pleasing", difficulty asserting boundaries, feeling unworthy of nourishing and healthy love relationships- all can lead us to therapy. While interdependence - working together and strong relationships are essential to a happy life, the dance of give-and-take can get confused and confusing. I can help you to work with existing relationships or even embark on dating in a new way, whether you're new to it or re-entering the process after a breakup, separation or divorce .
We can work together to understand what healthy relationships look and feel like- and to bring the relationships in your life into a nourishing balance. In this, we come to understand your attachment patterns, the role of trauma, learning your nervous system's responses to intimacy (physical and emotional). Working in tandem with a 12-step programme isn't for everyone, but can be a great help here if that appeals to you.
14 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Dipak Jilka - Psychotherapist & Counsellor
Therapist, Psychotherapy & Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA) – PACFA Reg. Clinical 26570
If you sense you are struggling with codependency (also referred to as relationship addiction) with another, this is may be a manifestation of low self-esteem and your own sense of self. I can support you in exploring what has shaped your self-esteem and sense of self that may be leading to codependency. My invitation is to get intimate with your sense of self.
6 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Louise Perry
Registered Psychotherapist, IFS UKCP HCCP BAAT
I work with adults who struggle with patterns often described as codependence, including over-responsibility for others, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and a sense of self that becomes organised around relationships. These patterns are usually adaptive responses developed over time, rather than personal failings.
My work draws on Integrative Art Psychotherapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering ways to understand how these relational strategies developed and what they may be protecting. Sessions focus on increasing clarity about needs, limits, and patterns of attachment, allowing different ways of relating to emerge. We may work through conversation, creative exploration, or a combination of both, depending on what feels most useful.
8 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency
Julia Libertad
Counsellor/Therapist, Psicopedagogía- Sex Education.
Codependency is a key area within my postgraduate training in Couples Therapy and Sexology. I work with individuals and couples to identify relational patterns where one person's sense of identity, worth, or wellbeing becomes overly dependent on another — patterns that often show up in caregiving roles, family dynamics, or romantic and sexual relationships. My approach helps clients build healthier boundaries and a stronger sense of self within their relationships, without losing connection or intimacy.
11 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Donna Collins
Registered Psychotherapist, BSc (hons), PGDip, SupervisionDip
Codependency is something that many people struggle with in relationships. This can promote feelings of helplessness and fear. It is possible to move from this experience to one of inner strength and independence within a relationship and I am able to support you in your journey towards this.
11 Years Experience
Online in Poole, ENG
Codependency therapists in Poole, England, United Kingdom Statistics
Codependency therapists in Poole, England, United Kingdom average 16 years of experience and charge around ¤131 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (83%), and Depression (81%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤131
Gender ID
| 75% |
Female |
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| 23% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 69% |
In Person and Online |
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| 31% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 83% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 81% | Depression |
| 75% | Stress |
| 73% | Self Esteem |
| 60% | Loss or Grief |
| 60% | Social Anxiety |