Online Codependency therapists in Cobham, England ENG, United Kingdom UK
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Karine Flynn
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPS
Codependency is fundamentally a nervous system pattern - a deep-rooted orientation toward others' emotional states that developed as a survival strategy and never got updated. Understanding this intellectually rarely shifts it. The work happens at the level of the body: learning to locate your own internal experience, to stay with it under relational pressure, and to build the felt sense of self that makes genuine boundaries possible.
23 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Dipak Jilka - Psychotherapist & Counsellor
Therapist, Psychotherapy & Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA) – PACFA Reg. Clinical 26570
If you sense you are struggling with codependency (also referred to as relationship addiction) with another, this is may be a manifestation of low self-esteem and your own sense of self. I can support you in exploring what has shaped your self-esteem and sense of self that may be leading to codependency. My invitation is to get intimate with your sense of self.
6 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Kat Pachana-Pereira
Registered Psychotherapist, Integrative Therapist (CBT), Couples Therapist, EMDR Therapist
We will work on understanding causes of codependency and strengthening a sense of of self
9 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Kylie Feller
Licensed Professional Counsellor, MA, CCC
You don’t have to lose yourself to be loved.
If you find yourself overgiving in relationships, struggling to set boundaries, or feeling anxious when you're not needed, you may be dealing with codependent patterns. These often come from early wounds and parts of us that equate love with self-sacrifice or people-pleasing. As someone who specializes in dating and relationships—and is currently writing a book on dating through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS)—I help you identify the parts of you that fear being alone, not enough, or too much. Together, we’ll untangle old patterns, heal the underlying wounds, and reconnect you with your True Self—so you can build relationships from a place of wholeness rather than need.
10 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG (Online Only)
Sudeva Hawkes
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor, B.Couns., MNCPS Accred. , PACFA Reg.
Together we'll create a safe space to explore the patterns of codependency and revitalise your sense of self. My approach combines clinical expertience with trauma-informed techniques, incorporating mindfulness to help you establish healthy boundaries and cultivate self-worth. We'll work together on breaking free from unhealthy dynamics, fostering independence and emotional resilience. My goal is to empower you to find balance and strength, and to assist in realising and expressing your true potential.
29 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG (Online Only)
Neil Coburn Relationship Therapy and Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist, BA (Hons), MA (Tavi Rels), MBACP (Accred)
I often work with couples or individuals on challenges they describe as co-dependent. Dependency is a reality of any relationship, but can be imbalanced or seen as destructive or threatening. I try to help people to change these patterns and become more at ease with their need for others in their lives.
11 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Mandy Randall-Gavin MBACP, UKATA
Counsellor/Therapist, BA Hons, Dip TA Prac: UKATA
If you are codependent, this can seep into every aspect of your life, not necessarily healthily. A codependent relationship can make you feel like you're giving everything of yourself, until there's nothing left to give. Many people don't realize they're in a codependent relationship cycle until the exhaustion and resentment issues become overwhelming and are too much to ignore. Even then, they may not recognize that codependency is the culprit. At its core, codependency means losing touch with your own needs while over-investing in the needs of others. Even if it feels familiar and comfortable, it's not a sustainable way to live.
14 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Dr Grenville Major
Therapist, MBchB, MRCpsych, MSc psychological therapies
Your relationship constitutes a significant proportion of your life, and contributes immensely to well-being and happiness. Having a balanced relationship should be the goal, where you can give and take in equal measure. To be able to experience gratitude and the joy of helping someone you love. I would like to meet with you to see what can be done to help you. This will enable us to get to know each other and see if we can work together. It’s important for you to work with someone you trust and feel safe with.
45 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Salvadore Coaching LLC
Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
Codependency often begins as care, loyalty, or sensitivity—but over time it can become self-abandonment. And when you abandon yourself, you don’t actually protect the relationship—you weaken it.
Oftentimes, many people find themselves over-functioning, people-pleasing, managing another’s emotions, or staying in relationships that require them to shrink their needs in order to keep connection. The result is often a combination of anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, and a loss of clarity about what they actually want.
In our work together, we aim to de-escalate these patterns and explore what they’ve been protecting: perhaps a fear of conflict, abandonment, guilt, or the belief that love must be earned through sacrifice. We build practical skills for boundaries, self-trust, and direct communication, so you can stay connected without losing yourself. The goal is not to become “less caring,” but to create relationships that include you—relationships where care and reciprocity can coexist.
14 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Ashley Horsley
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, MA, Post MA Dip, BACP Accred
Co-dependency is when we lose sight of ourselves and get lost in someone else; when we have never learned how to notice and assert what we ourselves need in a particular relationship. Do you put the other first and increasingly hear a trapped voice in you whispering ´´What about me?´´ Let´s coax that part of you out, find out what you need to own as yours, what independence really can look like when it is allowed in.
24 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Jessica Ryan-Zeman
Registered Psychotherapist, MCAP, BA (Psych)
Codependency is often at the core of most. of issues so learning. to identity and express your own needs and feelings and set healthy bolundaies in relationships is vital within any recovery process and within couples therapy.
16 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Nicole Rolls
Counsellor/Therapist, PG Dip, MA, BACP Accred, EMDR Accred, 20 years experience as a Therapist
The understanding that there is co-dependance is an insight in itself. I can help you to define better boundaries in your present relationships and to understand better what may have led you to become co-dependant. You may find EMDR useful to achieve this
21 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Delphine Marina Psychotherapy and Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist, Diploma Soul Centred Psychotherapy; MA(R.es) Cultural Studies; GradDip IT & Politics; BA(Hons)Human
Supporting you to break free from people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and patterns of overgiving.
Exploring the roots of co-dependency and reclaiming your voice, boundaries, and inner worth.
16 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Louise Perry
Registered Psychotherapist, IFS UKCP HCCP BAAT
I work with adults who struggle with patterns often described as codependence, including over-responsibility for others, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and a sense of self that becomes organised around relationships. These patterns are usually adaptive responses developed over time, rather than personal failings.
My work draws on Integrative Art Psychotherapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering ways to understand how these relational strategies developed and what they may be protecting. Sessions focus on increasing clarity about needs, limits, and patterns of attachment, allowing different ways of relating to emerge. We may work through conversation, creative exploration, or a combination of both, depending on what feels most useful.
8 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Julia Libertad
Counsellor/Therapist, Psicopedagogía- Sex Education.
Codependency is a key area within my postgraduate training in Couples Therapy and Sexology. I work with individuals and couples to identify relational patterns where one person's sense of identity, worth, or wellbeing becomes overly dependent on another — patterns that often show up in caregiving roles, family dynamics, or romantic and sexual relationships. My approach helps clients build healthier boundaries and a stronger sense of self within their relationships, without losing connection or intimacy.
11 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG (Online Only)
Julie Kuhn - Counsellor & Supervisor
Counsellor/Therapist, Therapeutic Arts Counsellor BACP (Accred)
Counselling can provide that space for you to be able to get to know who you are and what you need and want. Counselling can also be challenging as you Re-evaluate your thoughts feelings and opinions. Getting to know yourself can build resilience and assertiveness which are tools that can help you become more dependent and build self-esteem. Counselling can help you to respond and communicate as well as helping you to take back control of your life.
9 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Dr George Booty. The PsychoTRAUMA Clinic (Convergence College of Psychotherapy)
Registered Psychotherapist, Dr, DPsych, MA Couns, MA Psych, PG Dip Spvn
I deal with Codependency especially to help sufferers to stop rescuing unnecessarily and to uncover Love Avoidant Addicts and Love Seeker Addicts to gain a healthier lifestyle and to enjoy fuller healthier relationships with others.
31 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Ummayah Sidhu
Counsellor/Therapist, Ummayah Sidhu | BACP Accredited Psychotherapist | Identity & Heritage Specialist
If you find yourself constantly 'fixing' others at the expense of your own needs, we can work together to establish healthy boundaries. We’ll focus on rediscovering your own identity and building balanced, mutual relationships.
10 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG (Online Only)
James Darby
Registered Psychotherapist, Postgraduate Diploma Core Process Psychotherapy, DCHyp, ABSCH, MBA
Co-dependency often involves deeply ingrained patterns of self-sacrifice, emotional dependency, and a lack of personal boundaries, rooted in unresolved emotional wounds from childhood development and relational dynamics. I can help individuals to explore and understand these patterns by helping people to understand how unmet needs from the past can be unconsciously reenacted in their current adult relationships. The intention being that with such understanding the clients I work with can begin to move towards healthier, more boundaried, collaborative and interdependent relationships with their friends and loved ones.
21 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG
Leonie M Dippenaar
Counsellor/Therapist, (BWRT) Master Coach, (CHT )Certified Hypnotherapist (EPP) Ethno Psychology Practitioner
Let go of the root cause of codependency and find your way back to your own power
18 Years Experience
Online in Cobham, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Cobham, England, United Kingdom Statistics
Codependency therapists in Cobham, England, United Kingdom average 16 years of experience and charge around ¤131 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (83%), and Depression (81%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤131
Gender ID
| 75% |
Female |
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| 23% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 69% |
In Person and Online |
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| 31% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 83% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 81% | Depression |
| 75% | Stress |
| 73% | Self Esteem |
| 60% | Social Anxiety |
| 60% | Loss or Grief |